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Author:  Vegeeta [ Sat Jul 09, 2016 7:49 pm ]
Post subject:  Talking to women in a gay bar

One of my best friends is gay and he asked me to come out to a gay bar with him and another few friends (some of them are straight). Does anybody have experience of talking to women in a gay bar? I've heard that there are good few straight, good looking girls hanging around those places. If so, should the approach be any different? Situational opener or have you got any canned stuff I can use?

Author:  Mr. Assertive [ Sat Jul 09, 2016 8:30 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Talking to women in a gay bar

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One of my best friends is gay and he asked me to come out to a gay bar with him and another few friends (some of them are straight). Does anybody have experience of talking to women in a gay bar? I've heard that there are good few straight, good looking girls hanging around those places. If so, should the approach be any different? Situational opener or have you got any canned stuff I can use?

No, game as usual. They probably will ask you how come you are here. You can easily comfort story about how you and your gay best friend came to meet. Of course, make it known that you find the attractive and you aren't gay so they know you are talking to them because you find them attractive. Game on as usual.

Author:  Vegeeta [ Sat Jul 09, 2016 8:37 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Talking to women in a gay bar

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One of my best friends is gay and he asked me to come out to a gay bar with him and another few friends (some of them are straight). Does anybody have experience of talking to women in a gay bar? I've heard that there are good few straight, good looking girls hanging around those places. If so, should the approach be any different? Situational opener or have you got any canned stuff I can use?

No, game as usual. They probably will ask you how come you are here. You can easily comfort story about how you and your gay best friend came to meet. Of course, make it known that you find the attractive and you aren't gay so they know you are talking to them because you find them attractive. Game on as usual.
Situational openers then? Or have you got anything I can use? I am pretty uncomfortable doing this as I've never been to a gay bar before but I'm looking at it as just another learning curve.

Author:  Mr. Assertive [ Sat Jul 09, 2016 9:12 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Talking to women in a gay bar

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One of my best friends is gay and he asked me to come out to a gay bar with him and another few friends (some of them are straight). Does anybody have experience of talking to women in a gay bar? I've heard that there are good few straight, good looking girls hanging around those places. If so, should the approach be any different? Situational opener or have you got any canned stuff I can use?

No, game as usual. They probably will ask you how come you are here. You can easily comfort story about how you and your gay best friend came to meet. Of course, make it known that you find the attractive and you aren't gay so they know you are talking to them because you find them attractive. Game on as usual.
Situational openers then? Or have you got anything I can use? I am pretty uncomfortable doing this as I've never been to a gay bar before but I'm looking at it as just another learning curve.

Eh, I've been to them a couple of times. Nothing crazy just dude making out with other dudes and girls making out with other girls. Sure, situational if you're more comfortable with that. Just focus on having a good time. Have a confident and optimistic mindset. Easier said than done.

Author:  nathoonder [ Sat Jul 09, 2016 9:17 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Talking to women in a gay bar

Ha! I read this just before heading out to sarge at a "gay" club lol. In a town of only 52k like mine, if the only people who went there were gays it'd go out of business real quick. Lots of straight women go to gay clubs to get away from normal bars to get away from dudes who'll hit on them. Not so fast ladies! Treat every approach the same, just take a good hard look at their facial features as you might come across one of them there transsexuals.. Unless you're into that sorta thing, no shame in that!

Author:  PUALearning2PUA [ Sat Jul 09, 2016 11:56 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Talking to women in a gay bar

Was gonna say it's cool if you're there with friends or family but don't try to lonewolf it or it might come off like you're scheming and can't handle competition, but if your friend is taking you it should be fine.

Author:  Sarging Pepper [ Mon Jul 11, 2016 6:17 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Talking to women in a gay bar

Many hot women go to gay bars because they want to avoid horny guys like us hitting on them, if you approach, most likely they will just tell you they are lesbians to make you go away. It happened to me, but I also hear some freaky stories of guys picking up at gay bars, a lot of bisexual open minded girls hit those bars looking for some extravagant fun. Worth the try.

Author:  Dragula [ Mon Jul 11, 2016 7:12 am ]
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Gay bars are on of the better places to meet women, I met my ex-girlfriend in one, too

Author:  R.C [ Mon Jul 11, 2016 8:14 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Talking to women in a gay bar

Gay will very often imply Bi for women. Just a tip.

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