This past week I had two dates that both went the same way. I went out with the girl had a great time and got a make-out at the end of the date. The next day I didn't call either one of them because I was busy gaming and texting other girls.

When I did get back with them they both text me back but it seemed like some interest was lost. Was it wrong of me not to text them or call the very next day after the 1st date? Should you always call a girl the next day after a good 1st date? Or is it ok to wait a day or two??

This past week I had two dates that both went the same way. I went out with the girl had a great time and got a make-out at the end of the date. The next day I didn't call either one of them because I was busy gaming and texting other girls.

When I did get back with them they both text me back but it seemed like some interest was lost. Was it wrong of me not to text them or call the very next day after the 1st date? Should you always call a girl the next day after a good 1st date? Or is it ok to wait a day or two??

I doubt not contacting them for a day had any effect. Probably just so-so dates. You can wait two weeks to call a girl back after a first date and she'll jump at another chance if she thought the date was good.

maybe with damaged girls with no self respect. Any high value girl would have long forgetten about you if you waited that long.

Thats kinda what I was thinking. Both of these girls were strong women of value. The dates were both good. No sex but got make-outs. I think they felt a little slighted by the "no call" the next day.

Arch...aren't you in a small town? Maybe waiting two weeks works in smaller areas. In a place with lots of options for women, that won't go over so well. If a woman thinks that you lost interest and doesn't reach out for you, that means that she has more than likely lost interest.

OP...You have to be proactive. If you want a second date, it's best that you put the hook out there at the end of the first date. Let her know that you enjoyed her company in some sort of way

This sounds like something a woman would do.

Great ways of pulling women in is putting yourself out there.

So 5-7 days with your experience and you're saying that it's okay to go two weeks.

Didn't he put himself out there on the first date, though? High value, non-needy and independent women won't care if he doesn't hit them up the next day after a date. Trust me. They have work, friends, errands, etc.

Trust me...I've dated quite a few beautiful professional women, some business owners, that are constantly busy with work life and don't have a lot of free time. My experience has taught me that these women are looking for a man that can help them escape the monotony of real life.

They would drop friends, miss a meeting, take a day off when they are infatuated with a guy. It doesn't matter if they are 9's or 10's as long as they are women and they feel attracted to you.

To answer your question, no he didn't put himself out there...or at least he didn't explain anything that shows that he did. It was a date and they made out. Those are a dime a dozen. Second dates happen because of the potential of things going to a higher level.