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Author:  anglerschoice [ Mon Jun 20, 2016 9:36 am ]
Post subject:  Is she a flake/playing games / friend zoning / shit tests?

Hey dudes, I'd like a few opinions on a hb8 that I met a few months ago.


We met randomly at a party and hit it off immediately, and both ditched the party and chilled at the beach for the rest of the night and hung out the next day, just talking and vibing.
Now here comes the strange part.. I just couldn't bring myself to use any 'tactics' as I've always felt that they're a tool to be used if needed.
It felt much more natural than any set I've ever run before.

After that weekend we went back to our own lives but text daily, after a month of this we dropped the texts as we were both super busy and I was spending my free time on women within a closer proximity for obvious reasons (at the time we were 400 miles apart)

I've recently moved closer and we started texting daily again with phone calls once every week or so lasting 3-4 hours (again something that I don't usually do.

Our schedules are due to change so we'll be able to meet up and she keeps asking for me to call her and making loads of plans for when we have time together.

The part that I find a little weird is that she'll text and talk on the phone for hours then cut it for a few days.
This week we spoke for 40 mins and she mentions more plans for our meets, flirts,calls me a player and says that I'm alpha etc.. then says that she's going to chill tonight and text me, then ... hold on a sec, I've got to pay for my shopping I'll call you back ....

No phone call for 3 days!

This has happened a few times now and she picks it up like nothing has happened

I'm certainly not hung up on this chick or catching a case of oneitis but you know when you get that niggling feeling when you're unsure of what the hell is going on?

Any ideas?

Author:  JackZero [ Mon Jun 20, 2016 6:42 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Is she a flake/playing games / friend zoning / shit test

I read your post...but I'm going to redirect you to the title of the post. Why would you want to deal with any of those four options?

Author:  Kingpua1 [ Mon Jun 20, 2016 10:25 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Is she a flake/playing games / friend zoning / shit test

Thanks for the reply.
The reason is that I like to break down any results to figure out where and why it went right or wrong so adjustments can bb made for the future

Author:  neo87 [ Mon Jun 20, 2016 10:42 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Is she a flake/playing games / friend zoning / shit test

Have you done anything with this girl besides meet up and talk?

Author:  Kingpua1 [ Tue Jun 21, 2016 1:49 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Is she a flake/playing games / friend zoning / shit test

No, I can't work out why but I just felt so chilled and just enjoyed tth vibe although now I'm pissed with myself for not escalating etc. She's mentioned that she feels a connection on tth phone and I agreed..
That's about it

I haven't felt afc in years but this ii making me feel that way

Author:  JackZero [ Tue Jun 21, 2016 1:53 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Is she a flake/playing games / friend zoning / shit test

WTF...how many accounts do you have OP?

Author:  Kingpua1 [ Tue Jun 21, 2016 4:37 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Is she a flake/playing games / friend zoning / shit test

Oh wtf, I've been trying to get back in to my old account for a while, I'm not sure how that just happened..
I'll delete one.

Author:  Kingpua1 [ Tue Jun 21, 2016 4:39 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Is she a flake/playing games / friend zoning / shit test

Oh wtf, I've been trying to get back in to my old account for a while, I'm not sure how that just happened..
I'll delete one.

Author:  pumpington [ Fri Jun 24, 2016 11:50 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Is she a flake/playing games / friend zoning / shit test

Quote:
Hey dudes, I'd like a few opinions on a hb8 that I met a few months ago.


We met randomly at a party and hit it off immediately, and both ditched the party and chilled at the beach for the rest of the night and hung out the next day, just talking and vibing.
Now here comes the strange part.. I just couldn't bring myself to use any 'tactics' as I've always felt that they're a tool to be used if needed.
It felt much more natural than any set I've ever run before.

After that weekend we went back to our own lives but text daily, after a month of this we dropped the texts as we were both super busy and I was spending my free time on women within a closer proximity for obvious reasons (at the time we were 400 miles apart)

I've recently moved closer and we started texting daily again with phone calls once every week or so lasting 3-4 hours (again something that I don't usually do.

Our schedules are due to change so we'll be able to meet up and she keeps asking for me to call her and making loads of plans for when we have time together.

The part that I find a little weird is that she'll text and talk on the phone for hours then cut it for a few days.
This week we spoke for 40 mins and she mentions more plans for our meets, flirts,calls me a player and says that I'm alpha etc.. then says that she's going to chill tonight and text me, then ... hold on a sec, I've got to pay for my shopping I'll call you back ....

No phone call for 3 days!

This has happened a few times now and she picks it up like nothing has happened

I'm certainly not hung up on this chick or catching a case of oneitis but you know when you get that niggling feeling when you're unsure of what the hell is going on?

Any ideas?
Probably just busy or spending time with another guy or something, who knows, who cares, why does it even matter, she's not your gf.

Author:  NorthernMan [ Fri Jun 24, 2016 8:34 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Is she a flake/playing games / friend zoning / shit test

Yes she is, I had the same for three solid years. Men are easily fooled, sucked in and messed up by power games such as this. She probably has a personality disorder.

Author:  n2thevoid [ Fri Jun 24, 2016 8:40 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Is she a flake/playing games / friend zoning / shit test

lol move on she sounds touched

once again another guy wasting his time dabbling in shit

Author:  Arch Stanton [ Fri Jun 24, 2016 9:35 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Is she a flake/playing games / friend zoning / shit test

Classic case of too much texting, not enough escalating.

Beach night was your night.

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