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| Author: | xsparks [ Tue Jun 14, 2016 11:11 pm ] |
| Post subject: | I am so bad |
I am so bad with girls I chase them into other guys arms This has happened 2 times I have been rejected 1000's of times I studied dating and relationships for 3 years I work at a new job with a hot girl 1st day I told her she looked nice 2nd day I added her on social media 3rd day I told her I liked her, she said we would have to go out for drinks sometime I remained silent for 2 days She said "I'm just being nice I wasn't trying for you to like me I'm nice to everyone. So I was kinda giving you the cold shoulder to let you know i'm not looking for anything." I said "yeah i'm not looking for anything either Working is bad and she said she's seeing somebody else My guess is just to remain cold I guess my general question is what do you do when girl(s) say "I'm not looking for anything"/LJBF |
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| Author: | JackZero [ Tue Jun 14, 2016 11:15 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: I am so bad |
Rewind a bit...Day 3 was your biggest mistake. Saying that you like her is showing your cards to early. In truth, you added her to social media a little too early as well. Other than that...I can't tell if you are flirting with the girl or not, but from what you've said, you've been antiseductive. In this situation, you don't try to recover. Just be friendly and normal then just move on. No need to be cold and make anyone uncomfortable. |
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| Author: | xsparks [ Tue Jun 14, 2016 11:26 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: I am so bad |
Got it, it's a busy restaurant job where we don't have much time to talk or flirt, but I got it move on |
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| Author: | xsparks [ Tue Jun 14, 2016 11:31 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: I am so bad |
Also I learned anger/attitude is the most attractive emotion, is this true? |
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| Author: | JackZero [ Tue Jun 14, 2016 11:34 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: I am so bad |
Quote: Also I learned anger/attitude is the most attractive emotion, is this true? No, it isn't. I'm guessing whoever taught you that is confusing anger with being passionate about something.
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| Author: | xsparks [ Tue Jun 14, 2016 11:40 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: I am so bad |
Your totally right man |
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| Author: | Darkie [ Wed Jun 15, 2016 2:13 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: I am so bad |
Quote: I am so bad with girls I chase them into other guys arms
You escalated quickly and it goes good but then did nothing for 2 days. (I dont know why) and expect the girl to still be interested?This has happened 2 times I have been rejected 1000's of times I studied dating and relationships for 3 years I work at a new job with a hot girl 1st day I told her she looked nice 2nd day I added her on social media 3rd day I told her I liked her, she said we would have to go out for drinks sometime I remained silent for 2 days She said "I'm just being nice I wasn't trying for you to like me I'm nice to everyone. So I was kinda giving you the cold shoulder to let you know i'm not looking for anything." I said "yeah i'm not looking for anything either Working is bad and she said she's seeing somebody else My guess is just to remain cold I guess my general question is what do you do when girl(s) say "I'm not looking for anything"/LJBF She was interested but lost interest. Count it as a partial success, take notes, learn from them and move on champ You boiled the water but let it sit for too long so it got cold. |
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| Author: | n2thevoid [ Wed Jun 15, 2016 2:31 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: I am so bad |
Quote: Quote: I am so bad with girls I chase them into other guys arms
You escalated quickly and it goes good but then did nothing for 2 days. (I dont know why) and expect the girl to still be interested?This has happened 2 times I have been rejected 1000's of times I studied dating and relationships for 3 years I work at a new job with a hot girl 1st day I told her she looked nice 2nd day I added her on social media 3rd day I told her I liked her, she said we would have to go out for drinks sometime I remained silent for 2 days She said "I'm just being nice I wasn't trying for you to like me I'm nice to everyone. So I was kinda giving you the cold shoulder to let you know i'm not looking for anything." I said "yeah i'm not looking for anything either Working is bad and she said she's seeing somebody else My guess is just to remain cold I guess my general question is what do you do when girl(s) say "I'm not looking for anything"/LJBF She was interested but lost interest. Count it as a partial success, take notes, learn from them and move on champ You boiled the water but let it sit for too long so it got cold. |
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| Author: | Furiox [ Wed Jun 15, 2016 9:37 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: I am so bad |
When a girl gives the "Lets just be friends" then ask yourself if this is what you want, usually when you ask a girl out you don't want to be her friend but you want to be more than that. So for me when a girl tells me ljbf i tell them thats cool and stop talking to them and funny thing is when they see you not chasing but having fun with girls who actually like to have your dick inside of them they contact you. If not, no worries cause you got options.... if no options get options as it makes your life so much easier. |
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| Author: | R.C [ Thu Jun 16, 2016 8:41 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: I am so bad |
Quote: 3rd day I told her I liked her, she said we would have to go out for drinks sometime
This is what 3 years of study got you to?
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| Author: | Heywood Jablowme [ Thu Jun 16, 2016 5:08 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: I am so bad |
Quote: I studied dating and relationships for 3 years
An all boys school?
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