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| Author: | JohnDigwood [ Tue Jun 14, 2016 3:48 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Setting up a date with a girl that lives 1 hour away |
Went out a couple nights ago, saw cute girl, started talking to her and we hit it off, went back to her place with friends we were with, ended up kissing for a good amount of time there, nothing else happened. Got her number and been texting a bit, Was wondering how i should approach going for the meetup, she lives 1 hour away, Would maybe be unreasonable to ask her to travel 1 hour to my city, guess we could meet somewhere half way but then we would be in a city where we both have never been and might be weird/boring , or am i looking into this too much? |
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| Author: | JackZero [ Tue Jun 14, 2016 4:01 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Setting up a date with a girl that lives 1 hour away |
Quote: Went out a couple nights ago, saw cute girl, started talking to her and we hit it off, went back to her place with friends we were with, ended up kissing for a good amount of time there, nothing else happened. Got her number and been texting a bit, Lol. 1 hour away. Where I live, that's considered local.Was wondering how i should approach going for the meetup, she lives 1 hour away, Would maybe be unreasonable to ask her to travel 1 hour to my city, guess we could meet somewhere half way but then we would be in a city where we both have never been and might be weird/boring , or am i looking into this too much? What's the reason for you not going to where she is? She isn't worth the travel time? |
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| Author: | JohnDigwood [ Tue Jun 14, 2016 4:50 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Setting up a date with a girl that lives 1 hour away |
Quote: Quote: Went out a couple nights ago, saw cute girl, started talking to her and we hit it off, went back to her place with friends we were with, ended up kissing for a good amount of time there, nothing else happened. Got her number and been texting a bit, Lol. 1 hour away. Where I live, that's considered local.Was wondering how i should approach going for the meetup, she lives 1 hour away, Would maybe be unreasonable to ask her to travel 1 hour to my city, guess we could meet somewhere half way but then we would be in a city where we both have never been and might be weird/boring , or am i looking into this too much? What's the reason for you not going to where she is? She isn't worth the travel time? Wouldn't it be weird randomly saying "Hey lets grab a drink at your place ill drive 1 hour" basically me inviting myself over or something I tend to overthink things a lot tho so maybe im just being a retard here, just no experience with girls that live far away |
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| Author: | JackZero [ Tue Jun 14, 2016 5:01 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Setting up a date with a girl that lives 1 hour away |
Quote: Quote: Quote: Went out a couple nights ago, saw cute girl, started talking to her and we hit it off, went back to her place with friends we were with, ended up kissing for a good amount of time there, nothing else happened. Got her number and been texting a bit, Lol. 1 hour away. Where I live, that's considered local.Was wondering how i should approach going for the meetup, she lives 1 hour away, Would maybe be unreasonable to ask her to travel 1 hour to my city, guess we could meet somewhere half way but then we would be in a city where we both have never been and might be weird/boring , or am i looking into this too much? What's the reason for you not going to where she is? She isn't worth the travel time? Wouldn't it be weird randomly saying "Hey lets grab a drink at your place ill drive 1 hour" basically me inviting myself over or something I tend to overthink things a lot tho so maybe im just being a retard here, just no experience with girls that live far away |
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| Author: | Heywood Jablowme [ Tue Jun 14, 2016 5:02 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Setting up a date with a girl that lives 1 hour away |
Quote: "Hey lets grab a drink at your place ill drive 1 hour" basically me inviting myself over or something
The problem is?
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| Author: | galist [ Tue Jun 14, 2016 5:06 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Setting up a date with a girl that lives 1 hour away |
idont like traveling to women either. unless she have a place designated for privacy |
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| Author: | JackZero [ Tue Jun 14, 2016 5:20 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Setting up a date with a girl that lives 1 hour away |
Quote: idont like traveling to women either. unless she have a place designated for privacy What does this even mean? It's like saying you don't like going out to dinner unless there's a place to eat.
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| Author: | galist [ Tue Jun 14, 2016 5:40 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Setting up a date with a girl that lives 1 hour away |
i know you not dumb |
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| Author: | JackZero [ Tue Jun 14, 2016 5:51 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Setting up a date with a girl that lives 1 hour away |
Quote: i know you not dumb
It's a silly statement. You are perfectly willing to travel to see girls. You just want her to be in charge of the logistics.
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| Author: | Eddie Fews [ Tue Jun 14, 2016 6:36 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Setting up a date with a girl that lives 1 hour away |
Looking into it way too much. How hard is it during the middle of one of you guys texting sessions to say " We should hang out.. When are you free? " Now I am a strong advocator of Video Chatting.. Video chatting pretty much acts as a first date. Its all comfort building. Even if you're meeting girls online, you literary can go from a phone call or a video chat to having the girls come directly to your home without having to have met you anywhere outside of the phone call/video chat. It can happen with texting too, but the success rate just isn't nearly as high. So i'd suggest face timing her, talking and then suggesting you two hangout during the facetime call. |
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