PUA Forum :: What Would You Do If You Think She's Lost Interest In You?

So lets say you like this girl. You guys finally sleep together and afterwards you're kissing her, holding her, etc, you drop her off. She doesn't say thanks had fun or anything like that. You don't hear from her. If you think she's not interested anymore how would you go about handling things?

Just leave it alone altogether?
Turn it into a FWB?
Try your luck and see if she really has lost interest?

It was ya'lls first time sleeping together? Of course she's gonna be awkward about it. She feels dirty now.

think of some GREAT excuse for not calling her back... for however long it's been. Make the excuse really huge that it would take anyone's mind off of everything.

So lets say you like this girl. You guys finally sleep together and afterwards you're kissing her, holding her, etc, you drop her off. She doesn't say thanks had fun or anything like that.

You don't hear from her. If you think she's not interested anymore how would you go about handling things?

Just leave it alone altogether?
Turn it into a FWB?
Try your luck and see if she really has lost interest?

That makes it seem like sex is rare for the guy. There's a saying "act like you've been there before".

I tend to wait for a girl to contact me after sex for the first time. If she doesn't and I dig her, I'll hit her up in 5-7 days.

Author:	mojones1990 [ Thu Feb 25, 2016 10:34 pm ]
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So lets say you like this girl. You guys finally sleep together and afterwards you're kissing her, holding her, etc, you drop her off. She doesn't say thanks had fun or anything like that. You don't hear from her. If you think she's not interested anymore how would you go about handling things? Just leave it alone altogether? Turn it into a FWB? Try your luck and see if she really has lost interest?

Author:	JackZero [ Thu Feb 25, 2016 10:42 pm ]
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Quote: So lets say you like this girl. You guys finally sleep together and afterwards you're kissing her, holding her, etc, you drop her off. She doesn't say thanks had fun or anything like that. You don't hear from her. If you think she's not interested anymore how would you go about handling things? Just leave it alone altogether? Turn it into a FWB? Try your luck and see if she really has lost interest? Personally, I would have reached out by now because there's no way I really would have thought she'd lost interest. You on the other hand are too worried about it, so I would recommend that you wait for her to contact you and meet up with other women you know or meet some new ones.

Author:	LEPRECHAUN [ Thu Feb 25, 2016 11:29 pm ]
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Quote: So lets say you like this girl. You guys finally sleep together and afterwards you're kissing her, holding her, etc, you drop her off. She doesn't say thanks had fun or anything like that. You don't hear from her. If you think she's not interested anymore how would you go about handling things? Just leave it alone altogether? Turn it into a FWB? Try your luck and see if she really has lost interest? It was ya'lls first time sleeping together? Of course she's gonna be awkward about it. She feels dirty now. You do not want to ignore her. If you ignore her, she's gonna think that you just used her for sex. Nothing more, Nothing less. She don't call you? No way! Calm down... this isn't the movies. You're not someone famous so "the girl" 90% of the time WILL NOT initiate the "call back" after sex the first time... unless you are in Junior High School. If you haven't talked to her for 2-3 days after sleeping her... you might be able to pull her back in, but I highly doubt it at this point. Females don't like to feel like they were just used for sex (played). They want to feel wanted, needed, loved... So good luck trying to pull this girl back into your arms... think of some GREAT excuse for not calling her back... for however long it's been. Make the excuse really huge that it would take anyone's mind off of everything.

Author:	JackZero [ Thu Feb 25, 2016 11:45 pm ]
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Quote: It was ya'lls first time sleeping together? Of course she's gonna be awkward about it. She feels dirty now. Huh? Why would she feel awkward? Quote: think of some GREAT excuse for not calling her back... for however long it's been. Make the excuse really huge that it would take anyone's mind off of everything. Don't make excuses for why you didn't call her.

Author:	n2thevoid [ Fri Feb 26, 2016 2:02 am ]
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Quote: So lets say you like this girl. You guys finally sleep together and afterwards you're kissing her, holding her, etc, you drop her off. She doesn't say thanks had fun or anything like that. You don't hear from her. If you think she's not interested anymore how would you go about handling things? Just leave it alone altogether? Turn it into a FWB? Try your luck and see if she really has lost interest? Why the hell didn't you contact her after????

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Author:	R.C [ Fri Feb 26, 2016 6:58 am ]
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Good question ^, lol.

Author:	Eddie Fews [ Mon Feb 29, 2016 7:06 pm ]
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Give this a read: pua-lounge/topic190620.html It'll answer your question.

Author:	Arch Stanton [ Tue Mar 01, 2016 1:20 am ]
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Quote: So lets say you like this girl. You guys finally sleep together and afterwards you're kissing her, holding her, etc, you drop her off. She doesn't say thanks had fun or anything like that. The younger generation isn't really like this, IMHO. Quote: You don't hear from her. If you think she's not interested anymore how would you go about handling things? Just leave it alone altogether? Turn it into a FWB? Try your luck and see if she really has lost interest? I typically find these are more sexually experienced girls (not necessarily numbers of men, but practice within relationships, etc) who are testing your neediness level. If you blow up her phone like this is your first time, she's bolt, lol. But if you did your job in the bedroom, she'll be back. Give her "hey" text to let her know you aren't using her, but keep it simple.

Author:	Mr. Assertive [ Tue Mar 01, 2016 5:06 am ]
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Damn, why don't you start texting the girl you fucked the day after ? A simple "you were something else last night" will help build more comfort and keep sexual tension

Author:	Arch Stanton [ Tue Mar 01, 2016 7:11 am ]
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That makes it seem like sex is rare for the guy. There's a saying "act like you've been there before". I tend to wait for a girl to contact me after sex for the first time. If she doesn't and I dig her, I'll hit her up in 5-7 days.

Author:	R.C [ Tue Mar 01, 2016 8:47 am ]
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Quote: That makes it seem like sex is rare for the guy. There's a saying "act like you've been there before". I tend to wait for a girl to contact me after sex for the first time. If she doesn't and I dig her, I'll hit her up in 5-7 days. You really, really care too much about what things "seem" as opposed to what they are. Close to nothing will make is seem the sex is rare for the guy if the sex is not rare for the guy.

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