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| Author: | Crude [ Wed Feb 24, 2016 5:01 am ] |
| Post subject: | Opening someone with a mutual friend |
I've been thinking about opening on a girl who I often see speaking to some of my friends, but never really talked to. This girl is about an 8.5 and knows a lot of guys find her attractive. I thought I maybe should open to the group that she is talking with and ignore her. Im having trouble on thinking of how I should shift the conversation and direct it to her. I feel that she knows who I am and she expects me to know who she is. I was thinking of pretending I didn't know who she was, but have heard of her name before through our mutual friends. If any of you guys could give me suggestions on what you think I should do that would be great |
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| Author: | kobinks [ Wed Feb 24, 2016 8:56 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Opening someone with a mutual friend |
Take all this pua ignoring her shit with a grain of salt, the main thing is that you don't put her in a position of higher value than you i.e don't be clingy. If's she's a mutual friend just get a friend to either introduce you or go and talk to her and wing you in on the convo, keep it casual but be flirty and then either talk to her again next time you see her or just message her. once you've got one interaction done it's easy to build on that again and again until you know her and can make a move, standard procedure but you don't want to just randomly go up to her and be mega direct unless it's like a nightclub or something |
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| Author: | Eddie Fews [ Thu Feb 25, 2016 8:24 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Opening someone with a mutual friend |
The proper move would be to approach her when you catch her alone. Based on what you're saying, it doesn't sound like you have the confidence and social rep to pull her in the midst of her regular group of guys showing her attention. Not that its not possible, your best bet would just be to catch her alone. Whats the setting though? Is this school? Work? what is it.. |
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| Author: | Crude [ Thu Feb 25, 2016 8:59 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Opening someone with a mutual friend |
Quote: The proper move would be to approach her when you catch her alone.
Based on what you're saying, it doesn't sound like you have the confidence and social rep to pull her in the midst of her regular group of guys showing her attention. Not that its not possible, your best bet would just be to catch her alone. Whats the setting though? Is this school? Work? what is it.. Setting is a school environment. I have enough social rep, but lack the experience to approach in a group. |
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| Author: | Crude [ Thu Feb 25, 2016 8:59 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Opening someone with a mutual friend |
Quote: The proper move would be to approach her when you catch her alone.
Based on what you're saying, it doesn't sound like you have the confidence and social rep to pull her in the midst of her regular group of guys showing her attention. Not that its not possible, your best bet would just be to catch her alone. Whats the setting though? Is this school? Work? what is it.. Setting is a school environment. I have enough social rep, but lack the experience to approach in a group. |
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