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| Author: | Odín [ Thu Feb 18, 2016 6:28 pm ] |
| Post subject: | need help aproachiing, to inssecure of myself (any advice) |
I know a lot of theory and when a friend introduces to me I found it easy to get her number even kiss close but when want to aproach i hb in the street or in somewhere I cant, i get to nervous .I need more guts and convince myself that its easy. ADVICEEES PLEASE WHAT SHOULD I THINK TO BE MORE SURE |
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| Author: | Heywood Jablowme [ Thu Feb 18, 2016 6:34 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: need help aproachiing, to inssecure of myself (any advic |
Quote: I know a lot of theory and when a friend introduces to me I found it easy to get her number even kiss close but when want to aproach i hb in the street or in somewhere I cant, i get to nervous .I need more guts and convince myself that its easy.
Ask yourself; "What is the worst that could happen?" and you'll realize your fear is unfounded.
ADVICEEES PLEASE WHAT SHOULD I THINK TO BE MORE SURE |
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| Author: | Cross De Lena [ Thu Feb 18, 2016 11:59 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: need help aproachiing, to inssecure of myself (any advic |
Seriously? If you lived your life before you approach some random girl on the street, I'm sure you'll live after that approach. Even if she rejects you. You lost nothing bro. |
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| Author: | Jay (Majik) [ Mon Feb 22, 2016 9:34 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: need help aproachiing, to inssecure of myself (any advic |
What is it you're afraid of? Rejection? It doesn't hurt that bad man. Honestly, after a while, it really doesn't hurt at all. You'll stop caring. But for right now... You need to tell yourself to quit being such a pussy. Girls want a man that goes for what he wants. Not a pussy. |
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| Author: | Cross De Lena [ Tue Feb 23, 2016 2:58 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: need help aproachiing, to inssecure of myself (any advic |
I was struggling with rejection in the past, but in the last three years I worked for a company specialized in market research mostly in supermarkets, my job consisted of jumping people and "forcing" them to do a "short" survey with me. Don't want to brag, approximately I interviewed successfully about 1500-2000 people, and I believe that number of people (who rejected me) is at least three times bigger than the number to whom I successfully did the survey on, for various reasons. Those are a lot of rejections, you kinda know that you have to keep up with your chin up and immediately forget about last rejection otherwise you're done. Because, ultimately, it's all about persistence and acknowledging that rejection comes alongside success. It's not separate matter. |
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| Author: | GenesisPUA [ Tue Feb 23, 2016 7:12 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: need help aproachiing, to inssecure of myself (any advic |
Rejection is part of the game. If you are not getting rejected that means you are either not playing the game or you are playing too safe. The master pick up artists out there are getting rejected every day but as you keep playing the game and get good at it, the rejections minimize but you still get rejected anyways. It's part of the game so deal it with. Get out of your comfort zone man, that's the only way you grow up. There are three types of people in this world. Firstly, there are people who make things happen. Then there are people who watch things happen. Lastly, there are people who ask, what happened? Which do you want to be? |
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| Author: | R.C [ Tue Feb 23, 2016 9:04 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: need help aproachiing, to inssecure of myself (any advic |
Ego is holding you back. |
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| Author: | Eddie Fews [ Thu Feb 25, 2016 7:49 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: need help aproachiing, to inssecure of myself (any advic |
Just keep approaching and those walls will come crashing on down. |
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