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In towns that small cold approaching isn't a good option. Working social circle stuff is best for smaller towns.

Get your degree and then move to a bigger and better place.

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In towns that small cold approaching isn't a good option. Working social circle stuff is best for smaller towns.

Get your degree and then move to a bigger and better place.

I graduate in 7 months and I have a few soft offers. One is in Phoenix and another Nashville. I live near NYC but not close enough before it becomes a burden. Logistics are a pain in the ass.

That's what I'm starting to realize. It's no secret that simply getting laid is pretty much a numbers game, but being good and confident requires practice and perfection. I'm pretty much bone dry over here.

Someone suggeted 10 a day and i tried at school and I'm starting to get a reputation as the kid that runs around trying to talk to every pretty girl and blows it.

That advice has done wonders for my confidence haha

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The crash-and-burn approach requires you to reach and scratch the bottom of the barrel until you get desensitized enough from your failures; you don't really give a shit approaching and opening the 100th hot, beautiful woman.

The step-by-step approach requires you to get used to one small step at a time until you're confident enough to take the next step. This way, you get used to small successes at a time instead of winning the lottery big time in the crash-and-burn approach BUT failing a lot of times before hitting the jackpot.

Either way, you still need to practice a lot in both approaches. However, if you feel that one approach isn't working for you, try the other one.

Author:	Freshbaked247 [ Sat Feb 06, 2016 3:27 am ]
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I've posted before and I'm still having problems. I've been approaching and trying like I've been told to. The problem is i live in a town with only 7000 fucking people in it and half the population is over 65. The only quality time i have to approach is at my college, which is also fairly small and reputation gets around quick. I already have a select few women who I've approached, blown it with, and avoid me like the plague when they see me in public. Matters are only made worse by me being a commuting student so i don't have the genuine opportunity to have myself a social circle to game in. I go to therapy to alleviate feelings of rejection stemming from my parents (I had a bit of a messed up childhood. No use crying over it, but it makes rejection a bit worse) So I was wondering if anyone would like to help me out. Since my interactions are so limited, it's very obvious that i NEED to increase the QUALITY of my approaches rather than spamming. I bought myself a very small camera, it's the size of a stick of gum, and i was looking to possibly record some of my interactions and get some feed back. Anyone down?

Author:	Warped Mindless [ Sat Feb 06, 2016 3:45 am ]
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In towns that small cold approaching isn't a good option. Working social circle stuff is best for smaller towns. Get your degree and then move to a bigger and better place.

Author:	Freshbaked247 [ Sat Feb 06, 2016 3:52 am ]
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Quote: In towns that small cold approaching isn't a good option. Working social circle stuff is best for smaller towns. Get your degree and then move to a bigger and better place. I graduate in 7 months and I have a few soft offers. One is in Phoenix and another Nashville. I live near NYC but not close enough before it becomes a burden. Logistics are a pain in the ass.

Author:	Monsignor Crisanto [ Sat Feb 06, 2016 9:07 am ]
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Quote: Quote: In towns that small cold approaching isn't a good option. Working social circle stuff is best for smaller towns. Get your degree and then move to a bigger and better place. I graduate in 7 months and I have a few soft offers. One is in Phoenix and another Nashville. I live near NYC but not close enough before it becomes a burden. Logistics are a pain in the ass. It's difficult to get really good if the frequency of your practice is very limited. Say, kickboxing in Thailand. Fighters there have +200 fights because Muay Thai is the national sport. It's a way of life for them. Compare that to an American kickboxer who had only 12 fights to his name. Come reckoning time, the odds that the Thai fighter will win will be very high. In most cases, the quality of your training will be directly proportional to the frequency and intensity of your practice.

Author:	Freshbaked247 [ Sat Feb 06, 2016 3:37 pm ]
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That's what I'm starting to realize. It's no secret that simply getting laid is pretty much a numbers game, but being good and confident requires practice and perfection. I'm pretty much bone dry over here. Someone suggeted 10 a day and i tried at school and I'm starting to get a reputation as the kid that runs around trying to talk to every pretty girl and blows it. That advice has done wonders for my confidence haha

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Author:	Monsignor Crisanto [ Sun Feb 07, 2016 2:53 am ]
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This unnecessary post is the result of a system bug. I can't delete it but I can edit it.

Author:	Freshbaked247 [ Sun Feb 07, 2016 5:19 pm ]
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Quote: Quote: That's what I'm starting to realize. It's no secret that simply getting laid is pretty much a numbers game, but being good and confident requires practice and perfection. I'm pretty much bone dry over here. Someone suggeted 10 a day and i tried at school and I'm starting to get a reputation as the kid that runs around trying to talk to every pretty girl and blows it. That advice has done wonders for my confidence haha The crash-and-burn approach requires you to reach and scratch the bottom of the barrel until you get desensitized enough from your failures; you don't really give a shit approaching and opening the 100th hot, beautiful woman. The step-by-step approach requires you to get used to one small step at a time until you're confident enough to take the next step. This way, you get used to small successes at a time instead of winning the lottery big time in the crash-and-burn approach BUT failing a lot of times before hitting the jackpot. Either way, you still need to practice a lot in both approaches. However, if you feel that one approach isn't working for you, try the other one. Would you be willing to give me feedback if i PM you some of my approaches? I know it can't account for certain things like body language but at least i can get a better perspective on mistakes i may be repeating step wise and verbally

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