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Author:  Drummingboy [ Tue Feb 02, 2016 11:45 pm ]
Post subject:  Bf destroyers and other tactics fail. Need Help!!!
I :!: have a problem with boyfriend destroyers.

I meet this girl that is really flirty with me, and keeps the kino-touching high. and she is really teasing me. I have been negging her, being cocky-funny and applying every part of the game that I know.

In one of the things that we were doing the boyfriend came out quite like a unwanted thing. After that she told me "are you mad to know that I have a boyfriend?". I answered neutral and try to keep things going making her laugh and everything.

I used some silly games, also the cube and that stuff. She seemed quite closed, I had her number, and email, and facebook. The next day I went to some class and she was around so we met again.
This time she put out the boyfriend stuff a lot more, and each time i tried to kino-touch she retired herself a bit. then i ask her how long she has been whit his boyfriend (8 months, he is 32, works in some math firm and they just move together) so I used the question of when is the wedding. She answered that she hopes that it is when she returned. So i used the "your Bf is awesome" tactic, it seemed to work but not as i would like it to. then she started to talk a lot about other things and each time she mentioned the boyfriend i used the same tactic (i think that was a mistake from me) and so. I acted a lot afc, but she was even thought quite flirty and everything, so i keep on with the game.

At the end it seemed to go nowhere else. so i went into her apartment (shared apartment we are both students, she is Slovenian) and like we were in the living room and she was just putting stuff in the fridge i just decided to take my leave. I told her to meet me in Friday for a beer an that I am not accepting a no for answer. while i was just walking away from her.

The strange thing is that to everyone she knows and asks about the boyfriend she says that she hopes that they survive the 6 months apart(she is in a kind of interchange). And that for try to overpass that she told him to buy tickets to see her each month.

I don't know what to do. I am desperate, I have been absorbing knowledge from everywhere to try to overpower this but i haven't find a way.

Help me please..!!!
Author:  Warped Mindless [ Wed Feb 03, 2016 12:57 am ]
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Sounds like shes not interested.

Yes she may be a bit flirty with you but thats because shes a girl and they will be flirty with all their guy friends so the guys keep giving them attention.

Also, BF destroyers are mental masturbation and don't work. There are no magic words you can say that will "destroy" her wanting to stay with her BF. Eight months isn't that long so shes probably still experiancing the "new realtionship high" somewhat and probably isn't going to be interested in anyone else any time soon.

Go find a different girl.
Author:  J.Daniels [ Wed Feb 03, 2016 1:14 am ]
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There's an NLP routine where you talk to other girls and stop talking to her because she has a boyfriend and you're not a dick just because you're overly invested. Works quite well.
Author:  Drummingboy [ Wed Feb 03, 2016 2:02 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Bf destroyers and other tactics fail. Need Help!!!
Does it has a name? At this moment I am reading anything. Well I would do that and left her but here is the thing, she is giving me all the iois. She gave me her number whitout hesitation she even wants me to go to her place for dinner. Is just when I say that I want to do things in my terf that she puts up the boyfriend thing.
Author:  Warped Mindless [ Wed Feb 03, 2016 3:05 am ]
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Does it has a name? At this moment I am reading anything. Well I would do that and left her but here is the thing, she is giving me all the iois. She gave me her number whitout hesitation she even wants me to go to her place for dinner. Is just when I say that I want to do things in my terf that she puts up the boyfriend thing.
Reread the part of my reply where I say women will string men along to keep getting their attention.
Author:  n2thevoid [ Wed Feb 03, 2016 3:13 am ]
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No such thing as a "BF destroyer"
No wonder you failed.
Author:  lonerx14 [ Wed Feb 03, 2016 4:23 am ]
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the problem is your escalating where you have these time gaps. It might be too complicated (or maybe a pua can help display a good time bridge) so just restart on attraction with dhv YOURSELF. it sounds like you have had the dhv on the boyfriend.

Bringing up the boyfriend with ideals she wants is like a dhv for her. Instead kino and neg (ex. below) when you talk about the boyfriend and then lead in into a strong dhv about how you in a future projection

ex. her: blah I have boyfriend

you: oh i bet he works out (pushes her) to protect you (actively look at females and show off guns)

her: blah (it doesn't matter)

you: it reminds me of when i did (something active and kino) was in the boy scouts and ended saving a kitten (cheek stroke) but it such a big deal cause I had allergies and I had to fight against my body's natural reaction to be allergic to something new.

the psychological background is letting her to be used to accepting new things and its a dhv.

BUT Great POST!
Author:  Warped Mindless [ Wed Feb 03, 2016 4:55 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Bf destroyers and other tactics fail. Need Help!!!
Quote:
the problem is your escalating where you have these time gaps. It might be too complicated (or maybe a pua can help display a good time bridge) so just restart on attraction with dhv YOURSELF. it sounds like you have had the dhv on the boyfriend.

Bringing up the boyfriend with ideals she wants is like a dhv for her. Instead kino and neg (ex. below) when you talk about the boyfriend and then lead in into a strong dhv about how you in a future projection

ex. her: blah I have boyfriend

you: oh i bet he works out (pushes her) to protect you (actively look at females and show off guns)

her: blah (it doesn't matter)

you: it reminds me of when i did (something active and kino) was in the boy scouts and ended saving a kitten (cheek stroke) but it such a big deal cause I had allergies and I had to fight against my body's natural reaction to be allergic to something new.

the psychological background is letting her to be used to accepting new things and its a dhv.

BUT Great POST!
Trolling or being serious?
Author:  CharlesFinley [ Wed Feb 03, 2016 5:07 am ]
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I don't think she's interested. She likes attention and you're giving it to her.
Author:  R.C [ Wed Feb 03, 2016 7:00 am ]
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I don't know what's worse. The first post or lonerx's reply.

OP, I don't know what the hell you're reading but you're definitely not reading the right thing. Routines, bf destroyers? Dude that shit doesn't work.
Author:  luvmiddleage [ Wed Feb 03, 2016 2:46 pm ]
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Sounds like shes not interested.

Yes she may be a bit flirty with you but thats because shes a girl and they will be flirty with all their guy friends so the guys keep giving them attention.

Also, BF destroyers are mental masturbation and don't work. There are no magic words you can say that will "destroy" her wanting to stay with her BF. Eight months isn't that long so shes probably still experiancing the "new realtionship high" somewhat and probably isn't going to be interested in anyone else any time soon.

Go find a different girl.
This for sure and why would you want to F with someone's happy relationship anyway? It's not like there aren't a million other women around you.
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Wed Feb 03, 2016 3:07 pm ]
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There's an NLP routine where you talk to other girls and stop talking to her because she has a boyfriend and you're not a dick just because you're overly invested. Works quite well.
Still laughing.
Author:  J.Daniels [ Wed Feb 03, 2016 3:22 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Bf destroyers and other tactics fail. Need Help!!!
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There's an NLP routine where you talk to other girls and stop talking to her because she has a boyfriend and you're not a dick just because you're overly invested. Works quite well.
Still laughing.
Best part is that he was intrigued.
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Wed Feb 03, 2016 3:37 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Bf destroyers and other tactics fail. Need Help!!!
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There's an NLP routine where you talk to other girls and stop talking to her because she has a boyfriend and you're not a dick just because you're overly invested. Works quite well.
Still laughing.
Best part is that he was intrigued.
Women seem to want security. At least that's what they yell whenever he approach's them.
Author:  J.Daniels [ Wed Feb 03, 2016 4:28 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Bf destroyers and other tactics fail. Need Help!!!
Priceless :lol:
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