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Author:  cj06105 [ Sat Jan 16, 2016 2:28 pm ]
Post subject:  Best Way to plan a weekend ? What does everyone do ? Share..
It seems the best thing to do is prepare in advance for the upcoming weekend. Let's assume your single, in your twenties and have the ability to have an open weekend to do whatever you want. The goal is to meet as many women as possible to increase your chances of success.

What do you do?
What's your typical weekend like?
Best places you hit? Where is your go to spot or gold mine?
Worst places?
Do you schedule dates on Sat/Sun/Fri ?

I am not talking about simply hitting up a club or bar.

share...tell me.... what works for you...what doesn't

I usually have been hanging out with a small friend group I have on at least one of weekend days or nights. I am not looking to ditch my friends, but I need to figure out a better plan of meeting new people and getting out there beyond a club or bar.
Author:  oceanx [ Sun Jan 17, 2016 10:34 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Best Way to plan a weekend ? What does everyone do ? Sha
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usually have been hanging out with a small friend group I have on at least one of weekend days or nights. I am not looking to ditch my friends, but I need to figure out a better plan of meeting new people and getting out there beyond a club or bar.
You are a smart man; you are seeing a pattern that is not working and you want to do something different.

I will let the weekend gamers post below if they want. What I will do is to show you the path I took when I faced the exact same questions as you.
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What's your typical weekend like?
When I am in a mode of meeting new women etc my weekends are quite quiet. I kind of spend them decompressing and prepping for the week ahead.
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Worst places?
Bars and clubs. It is all stacked against the guy. You are DLV'd just for being there. You mean you are paying money just for the "privilege" of being somewhere? No ty.
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Do you schedule dates on Sat/Sun/Fri ?
During the week. It may be unorthodox but I don't give a rats ass, it's the way i do it.
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Best places you hit? Where is your go to spot or gold mine?
I meet women out in the world wherever I happen to be. Women are literally everywhere. Some times the chemistry isn't there. Some times it is. Only one way to find out if it is - speak to the woman. There are certain things you can do to better your chances but the main one is - speaking to women, getting to know women and all of that. If you put yourself out there and can take rejection and push through with a positive attitude when shit doesn't go exactly as you planned, you just cannot help but develop an abundance mentality. Here's the thing: Probably 90%+ of men simply cannot do the thing I mentioned in the previous sentence - they have let their egos rule their entire lives and their entire destinies.

For a more utilitarian answer to your question, find your hot spot. Find what works for you. On weekends there are often art shows, festivals and things like that which bring people out. But if those aren't in your zone then it will be literally useless to go looking to meet women there because you won't be comfy and in your zone. Main point: Find YOUR thing and stick to that, you'll have much better results doing it that way and becoming proficient in the area you feel best in, rather than endlessly DABBLING in a million and one areas and getting nowhere.
Author:  Finished [ Sun Jan 17, 2016 12:46 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Best Way to plan a weekend ? What does everyone do ? Sha
Throughout the week my career is my sole priority, with the odd bit of pick up whenever I see a girl I fancy (quick interactions and number exchanges). Sometimes I'll see a girl on a week night, but it has to be a solid lay with the prospect of some very good sex to get me from doing whatever else I have planned. Otherwise, I'll just re-schedule and see if she's down to hang at the weekend.

My weekend priorities and options are pretty simple.

A) See current girls/Go out & pick up new girls
B) Work on business projects/Play the guitar

If A isn't an option (none of the current girls I'm seeing are available and the weather is shit) I will do B and work on my business projects or play the guitar all weekend.

Usually that isn't the case though and my weekends have a nice balance between the two priorities.

I might see a girl Friday night, then work on my business Saturday day, then go out and meet some more girls on Saturday night. Or, I might decide to stay in and work on my music projects Friday night, then go out Saturday daytime and meet some girls in the day, then meet a girl I'm seeing to spend Saturday night with.

I mix it up every weekend depending on the conditions and what I feel like doing... Damn it's good to be a single guy who hasn't fucked his life up and has the freedom to do what he wants in his 20's. :D

(Can't really agree with the point about bars and clubs, they are some of my favorite places for meeting women)
Author:  Eddie Fews [ Tue Jan 19, 2016 5:26 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Best Way to plan a weekend ? What does everyone do ? Sha
I personally can't tell you the last time that I've been on an actual date. Its unnecessary and a waste of time at this point. You get a woman on the phone or video chat for about 45 mins and make them comfortable and they won't made coming over to your place if you're confidant enough to ask them straight up, and explain why its no big deal if they show any apprehension.

I approach women wherever I am. Its winter time now, and so I'm not out as often or at clubs as frequently in the fall, spring, and summer. But those are great places to pull women back to your house on the same night. The music is geared toward sex, inhibitions are lowered, and its meant to be social environment. If you can't pull a club nowadays you have to push yourself to get more experience. Things are just a lot easier than they used to be.

I do find that the places that are the highest risk "quiet places" like public transportation, lines at the bank/post office etc. are the place you are most likely to get a positive reaction. It takes more courage to approach in a high risk environment and the more courage displayed the higher the percentage the response you're met with will be positive. Clubs on the other hand are completely low risk, its one step from online dating in my opinion. Thats why its so simple.

There are also so many apps you can use to get laid now (tinder, pof, okcupid). You use any of those?
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