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Author:  thespikez [ Thu Jan 14, 2016 5:11 pm ]
Post subject:  Girl i'm seeing gone cold (exams)
So been seeing this girl for 1-2 months used to talk alot on the phone and text all day ,we gone out saturday and we were talking and i said something like "maybe it's better when a man doesn't call a girl ,maybe he is doing her a favour because it wouldn't have worked out" we end the date and kiss and i said we will text tonight,and after one hours she texts me "you said we would text,why didn't you send me any message",called her talked a bit, the next day i call her late at 7 pm or something and she said "wow you called, i was already thinking we we're done after the thing you said inthe last date" i told her she makes me smile and this is not the case here.Since then she is verry stressed out of her exams ,and gone cold ,she is studying alot ,we're kinda talking once a day. Since few days she didn't start any conversation , only i did asking her how she is doing ,wishing her luck .
Should i keep engaging conversations or let her finish her exams? cause she told she has no time for anything.
It's an oneitis , we haven't fucked yet. So my question is what should i do? I told her that she changed a bit and became kinda distant , and i missed her these days, she said it's because her exams.
We're both in college, last year .:)
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Thu Jan 14, 2016 5:18 pm ]
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I told her that she changed a bit and became kinda distant , and i missed her these days, she said it's because her exams.
We're both in college, last year .:)
This is clingy stalker behavior, and besides that, it brings down your value and communicates to her that nothing in your life is more important than texting with her. Stop it.
Author:  thespikez [ Thu Jan 14, 2016 11:06 pm ]
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Yeah i know it kinda sounds needy , but we used to act like we were together :) haven't talked with her since 2 days ago, gonna call her tomorrow and see how her exams went.
Any other advices?
Author:  J.Daniels [ Fri Jan 15, 2016 2:38 am ]
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This is clingy stalker behavior, and besides that, it brings down your value and communicates to her that nothing in your life is more important than texting with her. Stop it.
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gonna call her tomorrow and see how her exams went.
Any other advices?
It really pisses me off when guys make a thread, get given great advice, then say "thanks for the great advice but I'm going to completely ignore that advice and do the opposite. Can I have more of it so I can do that, too?"

What's the matter, you can't go a few days without talking to her? At this point, she should always be the one reaching out to you. When it's the other way round, which should be no more than once a week, you're only calling her to set up a date. Not to "see how exams went" (bullshit excuse for being needy and scared)

Let her come to you at her own pace. Stop acting like a woman.
Author:  thespikez [ Fri Jan 15, 2016 11:55 am ]
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I know this sounds needy but I think if i let to much time pass, without giving her a text or phone call will make her think im not intrested anymore. Like i told her on the date you can see in the first post ,that "if a guy doesnt call maybe its better this way" . Cause she kinda asumed the day after the date , that i was talking about her.
Author:  J.Daniels [ Fri Jan 15, 2016 12:04 pm ]
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I know this sounds needy but I think if i let to much time pass, without giving her a text or phone call will make her think im not intrested anymore. Like i told her on the date you can see in the first post ,that "if a guy doesnt call maybe its better this way" . Cause she kinda asumed the day after the date , that i was talking about her.
It's a scientific fact that women are more attracted to men whose feelings are unclear. No amount of calling or chasing is going to change this. Let women do the calling, texting and everything else.

It "sounds needy" because it is. Stop it or I guarantee you'll regret it. If this girl hasn't yet mentioned a relationship with you, then you're single, so go after other women. Abundance!
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Fri Jan 15, 2016 2:55 pm ]
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I know this sounds needy but
Get a hammer and pound this nail in your head.

To girls needy guys are like wedgies, they just can't pull them out of their ass fast enough and they won’t care who’s looking!
Author:  Eddie Fews [ Fri Jan 15, 2016 3:19 pm ]
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You guys get more wrapped up in a woman emotions than they do themselves.

The trick to all this "test" and "emotional questions" shit is to just not let it effect you. They're only running their emotions by you to see if their emotions have any validity. Women are often unsure about what they're "feeling" because they'll go from feeling one thing now to something else the next hour. And so they'll say something to you like " We shouldn't talk anymore" to see how you feel. If you respond by saying "omg why? " they'll feel like their emotion must be valid because it was met by conviction from you. If you respond by smiling and saying " oh cut it out.. we're fine." and your frame in congruent with your response they will adapt themselves to it and feel like their emotion was probably only a passing one because you remained unfazed.

She is always checking to see what your reaction is as validation for her feelings about you. She looks at what you sub communicate when confronted with different stimuli. If you can't handle maintaining a strong frame you'll have to go through frequent approaching, tough times, or heart breaks until you build your callous to the fuckery.

In the meantime you'll just have to let girls go.
Author:  thespikez [ Thu Jan 21, 2016 10:53 pm ]
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we've talked more and going good but lately i've been telling her i would call or text , and never did and she really got mad cause i always put her on hold while we're talking , sent her a text today "Hey:)What's up" and she didn't respond , i know she has a big text tomorrow . Maybe thats why ,but i saw her online today on facebook alot. Should i send a message on facebook or send her a text about tomorrow's exam?
Author:  J.Daniels [ Thu Jan 21, 2016 11:21 pm ]
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This is clingy stalker behavior, and besides that, it brings down your value and communicates to her that nothing in your life is more important than texting with her. Stop it.
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gonna call her tomorrow and see how her exams went.
Any other advices?
It really pisses me off when guys make a thread, get given great advice, then say "thanks for the great advice but I'm going to completely ignore that advice and do the opposite. Can I have more of it so I can do that, too?"

What's the matter, you can't go a few days without talking to her? At this point, she should always be the one reaching out to you. When it's the other way round, which should be no more than once a week, you're only calling her to set up a date. Not to "see how exams went" (bullshit excuse for being needy and scared)

Let her come to you at her own pace. Stop acting like a woman.
Author:  ChocolatePUA [ Fri Jan 22, 2016 3:06 pm ]
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we've talked more and going good but lately i've been telling her i would call or text , and never did and she really got mad cause i always put her on hold while we're talking , sent her a text today "Hey:)What's up" and she didn't respond , i know she has a big text tomorrow . Maybe thats why ,but i saw her online today on facebook alot. Should i send a message on facebook or send her a text about tomorrow's exam?
Jesus H. Christ.

Spikez if you're not going to listen to solid advice here, there's really no sense in you wasting your time to post anything, or our time to reply.

Texting her more will NOT increase her attraction to you. If anything, it will decrease it.

You've initiated the last few contacts. Leave her to initiate the next one. Let her approach you. You are actually fucking up your chances by continuing to contact her.

In the meantime, start approaching other women so you aren't so fucking needy. Have some other options. A man who is sought after by other women has value, while a man who is desperate and has no options has low value.
Author:  thespikez [ Fri Jan 22, 2016 3:54 pm ]
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We we're suppose to meet today, tried to call her when i saw she put new facebook photo, but she didn't answer. I realize i became so needy and because i have exams too and i always needed to hear something from her and it fucks me up, cause i didn't use to be so needy before.
Should i fucking delete her number and facebook ? so i don't have any feelings again when i fucking see a picture of her.I didn't wanna contact her but i couldn't stop when i saw her photo, she's a solid 10.
I'm sorry i haven't listened to you guys , i dissapointed myself. And i am seeing other girls too , but i think i need to start approaching again.
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Fri Jan 22, 2016 4:04 pm ]
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she's a solid 10.
No, she's is not!
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"ADP" Should be a new macron on the forum. (Another Disney Princess).

Image

Can you get this girl Bro? Yes but not until you take her out of the clouds.

Take a step back, and picture her tanking a big shit! Picking her pimples. Changing her tampon. Picking her nose and eating the result. Sneaking a Blood Clotted pad out to the dumpster in her purse. Using Oxyclean on the shit stains in her thongs.

Yeah, she does that.
Author:  password123 [ Fri Jan 22, 2016 5:46 pm ]
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Chill out a bit & focus on yourself. Either your constant texts and calls are pushing her away, or at the very least, if she still likes you, she's taking all of this communication for granted, which isn't good either. Create some distance. Let her contact you. If she likes you and wants to talk to you, she knows how to reach you.
Author:  thespikez [ Fri Jan 22, 2016 5:48 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Girl i'm seeing gone cold (exams)
She just sent me a text with "what are you doing baby ?"
Im not sure if i should respond or not ? Or with what ?
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