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| Author: | Classico_NOT [ Sun Jan 10, 2016 5:06 pm ] |
| Post subject: | How to deal with my AMOG friends? |
How do you guys deal with your AMOG friends ? 2-3 guys of my company at that moment are naturals, I'm not so good with girls, Not very social For example: we go to a shop and there is beautiful girl and they start to joke with her , you know etc, I almost just stay around and laugh. Maybe say something funny, but I'm not "The guy" who's making all the fun. I've been changing over the year a lot, but still don't feel comfortably around random girls with them, because I am from the "quite" ones, I'm the bigger one, My best friend is one year younger than me and I'm feeling always like "I'm his older brother and I'm not allowed to be that "Dumb", I need to act cool" etc Anybody has ever felt that way ? sorry for bad english |
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| Author: | oceanx [ Mon Jan 11, 2016 12:13 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How to deal with my AMOG friends? |
Simply put, you don't pay any mind to it. Cultivate a life that has women in it on your own terms, regardless of anyone else. When you do this, and you're out with guys and they start chatting up some girl she may notice a certain way about you and start IOIing you. Either way you won't care because you have plenty else going on in your life. Put in the work and become a man of value to yourself. |
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| Author: | Arch Stanton [ Mon Jan 11, 2016 3:24 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How to deal with my AMOG friends? |
Why are you paying attention to guys if your goal is women? |
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| Author: | ballplayer15 [ Mon Jan 11, 2016 8:33 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How to deal with my AMOG friends? |
when people started to learn pick up, they practice with canned openers and DHV stories. well, these pick-up lines in the book are good for beginners. as you gain more experience with women, you should be more spontaneous. instead of using DHV routines from the book, you can tell interesting stories learnt from your previous sets. when you talk to strangers, they share a bit of their life experience. recycle what you think is interesting and useful. have a good sense of humour. maybe it's my personality. i can make small jokes here and there in a conversation. i don't force it. sometimes, i just think of something funny that suits the situation. when people respond positively to my joke, i become on fire. i would be charged with fun, positive and creative energy. i carry the same energy to approach the next set. put some pictures of you with hot girls on facebook. when girls see your success with women, it makes things easier. they might even approach you. |
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| Author: | R.C [ Mon Jan 11, 2016 9:15 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How to deal with my AMOG friends? |
So your problem is that your friends are more successful than you and you're trying to figure out ways of "dealing" with them? |
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| Author: | EvolvedMen [ Mon Jan 11, 2016 6:07 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How to deal with my AMOG friends? |
I would see these friends as Learning opportunities, You can get lots of free value from them cause they are naturals, But don't get intimidated and be congruent with whatever you feel, and in the same time make moves when you are with them or alone. |
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| Author: | Eddie Fews [ Mon Jan 11, 2016 8:58 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How to deal with my AMOG friends? |
You're either going to distance yourself and work on your own character development or you're going to start speaking up while in these situations and risk looking like an idiot to develop your social skills. Theres no cheap way out it. A lot of guys find themselves in situations in which their friends don't let them be who they want to be, because they're friends keep reminding them of who they are. And change can be uncomfortable for anyone. So if you're in one of these situations, you distance yourself to build yourself. You can return when you're better or just establish a new circle, but you have to take social risk. You're not just going to wake up one morning and have it all figured out. Times ticking, so take action. |
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