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Author:  usernamenotavailable [ Tue Jan 05, 2016 10:31 pm ]
Post subject:  someone save me - I am about to tell a girl I like her

There is this girl that works at my office. When I didn't like her, everything was normal. All the problems started when I started to like her. As I realized how much I liked her, I distanced myself from her more and more by acting colder and colder.

We have become so distant that recently she won't even say hello to me. She acts like I don't exist. Just so you know, it's all my fault and none of it is her fault. I overcompensated by acting as unfriendly as I could so she wouldn't suspect a thing.

I am pretty sure this is a bad idea but tomorrow I am just going to tell her what's going on in my heart. I will tell her I like her and that's why I have been so cold towards her.

Is this a good idea? If it's a bad idea, then tell me what to do.

Author:  JackZero [ Tue Jan 05, 2016 10:32 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: someone save me - I am about to tell a girl I like her

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I am pretty sure this is a bad idea

Author:  Dragula [ Tue Jan 05, 2016 10:49 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: someone save me - I am about to tell a girl I like her

Can the mods take up my suggestion of only letting posters with more than 10 posts can only make new threads?

Author:  GenesisPUA [ Wed Jan 06, 2016 12:13 am ]
Post subject:  Re: someone save me - I am about to tell a girl I like her

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There is this girl that works at my office. When I didn't like her, everything was normal. All the problems started when I started to like her. As I realized how much I liked her, I distanced myself from her more and more by acting colder and colder.

We have become so distant that recently she won't even say hello to me. She acts like I don't exist. Just so you know, it's all my fault and none of it is her fault. I overcompensated by acting as unfriendly as I could so she wouldn't suspect a thing.

I am pretty sure this is a bad idea but tomorrow I am just going to tell her what's going on in my heart. I will tell her I like her and that's why I have been so cold towards her.

Is this a good idea? If it's a bad idea, then tell me what to do.
This is neediness man. It's a bad idea.

Author:  usernamenotavailable [ Wed Jan 06, 2016 12:46 am ]
Post subject:  Re: someone save me - I am about to tell a girl I like her

Thanks guys, I know TELLING a girl you like her is one of the worst sins in PUA community.
But I don't know what else to do.
When I go to the office I tell everyone hello except her. I just can't act normal with her.
Poor girl probably thinks I hate her.

Author:  Dragula [ Wed Jan 06, 2016 12:47 am ]
Post subject:  Re: someone save me - I am about to tell a girl I like her

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Thanks guys, I know TELLING a girl you like her is one of the worst sins in PUA community.
But I don't know what else to do.
When I go to the office I tell everyone hello except her. I just can't act normal with her.
Poor girl probably thinks I hate her.
You could alway game her?

Author:  usernamenotavailable [ Wed Jan 06, 2016 1:00 am ]
Post subject:  Re: someone save me - I am about to tell a girl I like her

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Thanks guys, I know TELLING a girl you like her is one of the worst sins in PUA community.
But I don't know what else to do.
When I go to the office I tell everyone hello except her. I just can't act normal with her.
Poor girl probably thinks I hate her.
You could alway game her?
Thanks man, if I wasn't weird and I could game her then I wouldn't be here.
She is a very cool girl. The right person could totally game her, but not me.

Author:  Dragula [ Wed Jan 06, 2016 1:13 am ]
Post subject:  Re: someone save me - I am about to tell a girl I like her

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Quote:
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Thanks guys, I know TELLING a girl you like her is one of the worst sins in PUA community.
But I don't know what else to do.
When I go to the office I tell everyone hello except her. I just can't act normal with her.
Poor girl probably thinks I hate her.
You could alway game her?
Thanks man, if I wasn't weird and I could game her then I wouldn't be here.
She is a very cool girl. The right person could totally game her, but not me.
So you joined a pick up forum that gives advice about game but you don't want to use game?

these are your options:

a) Declare your crush for her, then ruin it and it make it awkward at work
b) Learn some game tactics, tease, flirt etc then have a possibility of getting with her

I know which one i'd choose

That's my online antics done for tonight!

Author:  usernamenotavailable [ Wed Jan 06, 2016 1:19 am ]
Post subject:  Re: someone save me - I am about to tell a girl I like her

Well...I have a lot of learning to do as far as game but I am not going to do my experiments on her.
With a random girl on the street, if you mess up you can say "oh well, I will never see her again"

I am just asking how can I make things normal again?
And how can I improve my life so I stop being like this? I have had this exact problem since high school. I like a girl, I try to hide it, I overcompensate, she thinks I hate her.

Author:  HectorH [ Wed Jan 06, 2016 7:15 am ]
Post subject:  Re: someone save me - I am about to tell a girl I like her

DON'T tell her you like her, show her, also she is following your lead, notice how you stop speaking she stop speaking, just flip the switch she will follow.

Author:  R.C [ Wed Jan 06, 2016 8:34 am ]
Post subject:  Re: someone save me - I am about to tell a girl I like her

Why don't you just talk to her? Why do you even try to hide it, lol.

You know, when you like someone you flirt with them. That's how it goes. So flirt with her. Say hi. Joke around. Tease. That's how humans interact.

Author:  Dragula [ Wed Jan 06, 2016 8:53 am ]
Post subject:  Re: someone save me - I am about to tell a girl I like her

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Why don't you just talk to her? Why do you even try to hide it, lol.

You know, when you like someone you flirt with them. That's how it goes. So flirt with her. Say hi. Joke around. Tease. That's how people that can get laid interact.

Author:  R.C [ Wed Jan 06, 2016 11:39 am ]
Post subject:  Re: someone save me - I am about to tell a girl I like her

Good correction :lol:

Author:  Cross De Lena [ Wed Jan 06, 2016 11:56 am ]
Post subject:  Re: someone save me - I am about to tell a girl I like her

What the fuck?! Why are you afraid of little girl you like.

She ain't gonna bite if you say hello to her like you do to everyone else, plus it would be OVER THE TOP weird if you tell her you like her after giving her this obvious silence SPAM.

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a) Declare your crush for her, then ruin it and it make it awkward at work
b) Learn some game tactics, tease, flirt etc then have a possibility of getting with her

Author:  Eddie Fews [ Mon Jan 11, 2016 9:07 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: someone save me - I am about to tell a girl I like her

I'm not even going to ask how this turned out, because I'm sure we already know. Unless you coward out and didn't go through with it - which is the best thing you could've done.

You have to check yourself. This is exactly why coworker love is not a good idea. Guys get emotional, women get emotional, and the productivity of both parties starts to decrease. You have to consistently remind yourself to leave shit like this alone. Especially if you're not experienced with women as of yet.

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