You ever have a girl give you a blow job and when you're getting read to nut she randomly changes up the motion and the stroke and it completely ruins your ability to come?

Guys do the same shit during sex. Pick a position, and find a stroke that she see her getting the most satisfaction from(verbally) and stick with that position and that stroke and the pace of it for as long as it takes for her to orgasm. Then switch and find a new position and new stroke that she verbally finds pleasurable and repeat. Also, most women stop breathing when they feel pleasure . They'll tense up and hold their breath when they feel something and this effects their ability to orgasm. Make sure the girl is breathing throughout the entire experience. Talk to her. Remind her to breath, and remind her to express outwardly when she feels something pleasurable as loudly can she feels necessary.

Her sound is connected to the experience. So if she's worried about people in the next room, or next door neighbors hearing her and so she surpasses her sounds she will dampen her ability to have successful and strong orgasms. She needs to be able to be free and let loose, and she needs to breath. You get the hang out that and you're straight.

Also talk to women when you have sex with them. Tell them you want them to come, tell them to breathe, to make as much noise as they want because you want them to come. Tell them you're going to make them come with confidence. This will open them up to the experience through command.

Also talk to women when you have sex with them. Tell them you want them to come, tell them to breathe, to make as much noise as they want because you want them to come. Tell them you're going to make them come with confidence.

A girls orgasm isn't your responsibility. It's her own.

To some degree. Most dudes are honestly retarded in the bedroom.

Guys take porn way too seriously.