good insight.
I would have probably said something like "forget the other guys, it's just you and me now."
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| Author: | Slim solo [ Thu Dec 31, 2015 2:34 am ] |
| Post subject: | What is the hidden message when girls say... |
There is something that has recently been popping up in a lot of conversations ive had. Basically it's something like this, a lot of times when im getting a real good conversation with a girl they start talking about other guys. For example some things girls said to me recently: Me having a good talk to a girl and suddenly out of nowhere she says: "see that guy over there he is trying to flirt with me" or "ive been to the bar for some drinks and suddenly a guy started to talk to me" or "this guy was trying to hit on me but i said no" or "do you know the guy over there he was trying to hit on me" and last but not least "ive talked to a really cute guy but he tried to hit on me so i turned hin down" What do they actually mean when they say al this stuff? Is this a way of saying: "dont you try hitting on me" Or is it to make me Jealous or is it a shit test? And what is the best way to respond to that? Appreciate al the help on this matter. Cheers solo |
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| Author: | JackZero [ Thu Dec 31, 2015 2:40 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What is the hidden message when girls say... |
What does it mean when you say you're having a good conversation with a girl? A good conversation can be a platonic conversation. Meaning that you guys aren't talking about anything but friendly stuff that she can talk to her girlfriends about as well. Conversations mean nothing without escalation. |
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| Author: | KaliPyth0n [ Thu Dec 31, 2015 8:05 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What is the hidden message when girls say... |
You setup the intimate scene yourself, your leading huh, or are you proforming the female gender role ?? Remember bro Actions cause reaction, If you do not understand there actions, what are you subconsciously telling her, there is a time to be playful like a boy and to be dominant like a man, you may need to start being playful more often.. Gl fellow PUA |
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| Author: | R.C [ Thu Dec 31, 2015 12:19 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What is the hidden message when girls say... |
Why would you care? Are you not going to hit on her anymore because that's what you interpreted out of what she said? Women don't mind flirting and being hit on unless it's thirsty horndogs. |
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| Author: | oceanx [ Thu Dec 31, 2015 12:37 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What is the hidden message when girls say... |
No way of knowing since I wasn't there but they may be playing the same game guys play some times of tryna verbally declare social proof. |
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| Author: | Monsignor Crisanto [ Thu Dec 31, 2015 12:59 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What is the hidden message when girls say... |
These kinds of situations happened to me several times in the past. The first time it happened to me was with a single day lay. What those mean is that girls are trying to justify themselves as attractive enough for you. You gotta say, "Cool," then proceed to isolate girls to private locations where you can fuck them. It's NOT about you. It's about their wobbly confidence and insecurities around you so they will feel that they are good enough for you. I think it basically means, "I want to get fucked by you but first you have to know that other guys find me attractive enough." |
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| Author: | GenesisPUA [ Thu Dec 31, 2015 1:01 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What is the hidden message when girls say... |
This can be shit test at times, and your response to such statements from girls would greatly affect your game with the girl. I would usually make no comment about such statements and totally change the subject. Never get fazed by such comments from girls. |
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| Author: | Slim solo [ Thu Dec 31, 2015 1:41 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What is the hidden message when girls say... |
Thx again guys for al the replys. It has been a great help! Next time ill try to be less vague with my stories and go in to more dept. Cheers |
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| Author: | Heywood Jablowme [ Thu Dec 31, 2015 3:52 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What is the hidden message when girls say... |
Quote: I think it basically means, "I want to get fucked by you but first you have to know that other guys find me attractive enough."
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| Author: | bright7 [ Sun Jan 03, 2016 2:13 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What is the hidden message when girls say... |
good insight. I would have probably said something like "forget the other guys, it's just you and me now."
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| Author: | Monsignor Crisanto [ Sun Jan 03, 2016 3:59 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What is the hidden message when girls say... |
Quote: good insight.
No. I would have probably said something like "forget the other guys, it's just you and me now." Just say, "Cool." And then isolate her with, "Let's go." |
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| Author: | KaliPyth0n [ Sun Jan 03, 2016 4:07 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What is the hidden message when girls say... |
Quote: Quote: good insight.
No. I would have probably said something like "forget the other guys, it's just you and me now." Just say, "Cool." And then isolate her with, "Let's go." |
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| Author: | Melodical [ Sun Jan 03, 2016 10:09 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What is the hidden message when girls say... |
Quote: Quote: good insight.
No. I would have probably said something like "forget the other guys, it's just you and me now." Just say, "Cool." And then isolate her with, "Let's go." If a woman says anything about attraction which creates an emotional response in you then it's a test. She's "pinging" your frame to test your manly credentials. If you get all butt hurt about it or make an issue then you fail and attraction dies off. Just reply "ok" or "cool" and act as if she never mentioned it. |
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| Author: | KaliPyth0n [ Sun Jan 03, 2016 12:13 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What is the hidden message when girls say... |
Quote: Quote: Quote: good insight.
No. I would have probably said something like "forget the other guys, it's just you and me now." Just say, "Cool." And then isolate her with, "Let's go." If a woman says anything about attraction which creates an emotional response in you then it's a test. She's "pinging" your frame to test your manly credentials. If you get all butt hurt about it or make an issue then you fail and attraction dies off. Just reply "ok" or "cool" and act as if she never mentioned it. |
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| Author: | Dragula [ Sun Jan 03, 2016 12:27 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What is the hidden message when girls say... |
The person doing all the talking and topic selection is lower value. Let it flow. Get her talking. They always blabber when you get them talking about the correct thing |
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