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Author:  Scavenger1906 [ Fri Dec 25, 2015 7:05 pm ]
Post subject:  What to reply to a girl when she asks this...
So there's this girl I really like and I've been seeing her the past 3-4 weeks, she has a boyfriend and he doesn't know of us meeting up neither does he know of my existence. We kissed and had some foreplay, but no actual sex (yet 8) )
She says she's planning on breaking up with her boyfriend after the holidays, since their relationship has going from bad to worse the past couple of months.

She's a hired gun that works behind the bar in a discotheque where I usually go and she told me she desperately wants me to come to the disco tomorrow. If I do she'll give me a reward in the private toilets (we all know what that reward will be), but first she wants me to tell her why I'd want to see her.
So now I'm kinda stuck, I guess she likes me in the same way that I like her. But what do I reply to the question why I want to see her too? I know I should keep my answer short, but what should the content be? Should I sexualize the conversation or do I keep it clean? Or should I use some humour?

Thanks in advance and regards.
Author:  Dragula [ Fri Dec 25, 2015 7:49 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: What to reply to a girl when she asks this...
Be normal. Tell her what you like about her.

Everything doesn't have to have some PUA witty response you know...
Author:  ElijahGuru [ Fri Dec 25, 2015 9:16 pm ]
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Quote:
Be normal. Tell her what you like about her.

Everything doesn't have to have some PUA witty response you know...
Dragula,

Wouldn't you agree that since the girl suggested something sexual rather directly, that the OP should respond also directly sexual? Perhaps the girl wants OP to play into one of her sexual fantasies, or play along with it...
Author:  CharlesFinley [ Fri Dec 25, 2015 10:05 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: What to reply to a girl when she asks this...
Quote:
Quote:
Be normal. Tell her what you like about her.

Everything doesn't have to have some PUA witty response you know...
Dragula,

Wouldn't you agree that since the girl suggested something sexual rather directly, that the OP should respond also directly sexual? Perhaps the girl wants OP to play into one of her sexual fantasies, or play along with it...
Well IMO Dragula is correct.

So many times guys would just do better if they turn off their game - and be normal.

That's what he should be here -- my opinion.
Author:  Dragula [ Fri Dec 25, 2015 10:17 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: What to reply to a girl when she asks this...
Quote:
Quote:
Be normal. Tell her what you like about her.

Everything doesn't have to have some PUA witty response you know...
Dragula,

Wouldn't you agree that since the girl suggested something sexual rather directly, that the OP should respond also directly sexual? Perhaps the girl wants OP to play into one of her sexual fantasies, or play along with it...
Hence, be normal. If he wants to talk sexual, so be it. Either response isn't going to stop her. So not much need for a thread till after the fact.
Author:  Finished [ Fri Dec 25, 2015 11:38 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: What to reply to a girl when she asks this...
"Hmm, I'll let you know when I see you ;)"

Lets just hope this isn't some crazy set up where you get your ass jacked lol.
Author:  R.C [ Sat Dec 26, 2015 5:14 am ]
Post subject:  Re: What to reply to a girl when she asks this...
Personally I'd tell her to cut the compliment fishing. Then again I don't take things too seriously.
Author:  Scavenger1906 [ Sat Dec 26, 2015 1:49 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: What to reply to a girl when she asks this...
Thanks for the honest replies. Either reply was probably going to be fine. I chose to be honest and told her what I like about her. The teaser "stop fishing for compliments" could also have worked, but I'm sure was expecting an honest compliment at that point in time.
I'm seeing her at the club tonight so I'm very curious to find out how she will be acting knowing there are people working there that know her boyfriend.
My honest expectations? She will be acting kinda distanced, but she'll be glad I came over, and when the club closes she will probably want to have a private chat with me, then I'll start talking about "us".
Thanks for the help, I'll keep you up to date later.
Author:  Jay (Majik) [ Sun Dec 27, 2015 3:21 pm ]
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She already likes you. Quit trying so hard.
Author:  Scavenger1906 [ Sun Dec 27, 2015 6:38 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: What to reply to a girl when she asks this...
Quote:
She already likes you. Quit trying so hard.
You're right :wink:
Author:  R.C [ Tue Dec 29, 2015 8:59 am ]
Post subject:  Re: What to reply to a girl when she asks this...
So did you get a behing the bar special?
Author:  Eddie Fews [ Tue Dec 29, 2015 7:49 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: What to reply to a girl when she asks this...
Humorously brush it off man.

Its a hoop. Theres no real way to answer it that won't be scrutinized on some level.

I'd say something like " Lol chillout.. What are you up to? " Not even playing into it. Brushing it off and changing the subject.
Author:  J.Daniels [ Tue Dec 29, 2015 9:11 pm ]
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Just say whatever comes to mind. Personally I'd just flip the question, though.
Author:  KaliPyth0n [ Wed Dec 30, 2015 12:39 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: What to reply to a girl when she asks this...
Think about this question, Are you a Fake or are you Genuine ??
only you know what to say, you dont want to be a misleading prick right ?
Author:  Dragula [ Wed Dec 30, 2015 12:55 pm ]
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Quote:
Think about this question, Are you a Fake or are you Genuine ??
only you know what to say, you dont want to be a misleading prick right ?

haha ^
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