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Author:  rake_35 [ Mon Dec 21, 2015 4:21 am ]
Post subject:  Need some awesome boyfriend destroyer advice

Hey guys, this might be long so stay with me. I have a female friend that have a boyfriend, and I’m in the process in turning her into a lover by trying to take her boyfriend out of the scene. This is the situation, we hangout whenever we both have time. We go to nice dinners, play pool, or go to bar for drinks. I can tell that she enjoys it and likes hanging out with me because she makes time to hangout even she have a boyfriend. Now, I don’t see her posting anything on her social Medias about her current boyfriend, there’s no pictures of him at all. I told her that I’m going to tag our pictures that I took during our hangouts, and it’s mostly me and her together right beside each other, and she agreed for me to tag her. Another thing, I started giving her genuine sexual complements on her Instagram on couple pics that she posted. Now, the boyfriend saw my comments and the pictures that I tagged her on Facebook. I don’t know her boyfriend and he doesn’t know me. Now, he blocked me on Facebook even he’s not on my friends list. I know that she’s complaining about him that she’s not sure if he’s the one for her. He’s trying to compete to the comments I made by commenting like a douche to complement her. Now I told you guys my scenario, I need some advice for my next strategy on this for me to move forward to seduction to completely steal her away from her boyfriend. We’re hanging out again after the holidays.

Author:  JackZero [ Mon Dec 21, 2015 4:32 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Need some awesome boyfriend destroyer advice

There is one and only one boyfriend destroyer technique. Find the thing she is missing from her boyfriend and fulfill it.

From what you describe, you are not needing to do much else. You're making him compete with you and if he's doing that he's digging his own hole. His insecurity is going to make you the better choice.

Author:  rake_35 [ Mon Dec 21, 2015 4:39 am ]
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There is one and only one boyfriend destroyer technique. Find the thing she is missing from her boyfriend and fulfill it.

From what you describe, you are not needing to do much else. You're making him compete with you and if he's doing that he's digging his own hole. His insecurity is going to make you the better choice.
Thanks for your input man. And yeah, that's what I'm doing right now by giving her some unique experiences that she never had with her boyfriend. And, I found it mildly amusing when he blocked me on Facebook.
P.S. I'm going to start sexually escalate next time we hangout

Author:  Eddie Fews [ Mon Dec 21, 2015 3:33 pm ]
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The way your framing this is not helpful toward the mission up ahead. You have to see her as your girl, not some girl you're trying to steal.

Have you made any type of move in all the time you've been hanging out with her? how long has she been your friend? You don't want to become the guy that gives her leverage to comfortably leave her boyfriend, but not the guy she leaves him for. You'll just be the one she leans on to give her to confidence to exit.

Not that I don't think this is a complete waste of time, but if its what you want go for it.

Author:  rake_35 [ Mon Dec 21, 2015 5:40 pm ]
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The way your framing this is not helpful toward the mission up ahead. You have to see her as your girl, not some girl you're trying to steal.

Have you made any type of move in all the time you've been hanging out with her? how long has she been your friend? You don't want to become the guy that gives her leverage to comfortably leave her boyfriend, but not the guy she leaves him for. You'll just be the one she leans on to give her to confidence to exit.

Not that I don't think this is a complete waste of time, but if its what you want go for it.
I known this girl for almost 2 years now and were just friends. Now, I want to change the friendly relationship to lover relationship. In addition, I already treating her like she's my woman and I have the mindset that she's already mine. I already start touching her everytime we hung out but nothing too aggressive. But now I realize that I want to take it to the next level and sexually escalate like touching her more that I'm comfortable with, kiss her and own her. I think the boyfriend is really jealous of me now and feels intimidated of me when he saw pics of me and her like I already owned her. Like I said previously, he blocked me on Facebook so he won't see the pics I tagged her on her profile. I'm pretty sure he already asked her to take those pics out but it's still there and she's not taking it down. If you have an awesome advice for me about strategy and stuff, please let me know cause I'm open to suggestions.
P.S. this is a great forum, you guys rock

Author:  Jay (Majik) [ Tue Dec 22, 2015 3:49 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Need some awesome boyfriend destroyer advice

Not worth it.

Not worth the time. The effort. The drama. The frustration. Just not worth it.

You don't need a line. You need more options. A girl who's been a friend for 2 years shows you're fishing at the bottom of your barrel.

Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Tue Dec 22, 2015 5:05 pm ]
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Not worth it.

Not worth the time. The effort. The drama. The frustration. Just not worth it.

You don't need a line. You need more options. A girl who's been a friend for 2 years shows you're fishing at the bottom of your barrel.
You've had two years of wasted opportunity. Assuming you go through a lot of tissues and hand lotion.

Author:  Jay (Majik) [ Tue Dec 22, 2015 6:37 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Need some awesome boyfriend destroyer advice

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Not worth it.

Not worth the time. The effort. The drama. The frustration. Just not worth it.

You don't need a line. You need more options. A girl who's been a friend for 2 years shows you're fishing at the bottom of your barrel.
You've had two years of wasted opportunity. Assuming you go through a lot of tissues and hand lotion.
He's been waiting for the perfect moment....

Author:  rake_35 [ Tue Dec 22, 2015 7:58 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Need some awesome boyfriend destroyer advice

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Not worth it.

Not worth the time. The effort. The drama. The frustration. Just not worth it.

You don't need a line. You need more options. A girl who's been a friend for 2 years shows you're fishing at the bottom of your barrel.
You've had two years of wasted opportunity. Assuming you go through a lot of tissues and hand lotion.
I wasn't attracted to her at first. But now I want to give it a shot, if it didn't work then oh well moving on to the next one

Author:  rake_35 [ Tue Dec 22, 2015 8:00 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Need some awesome boyfriend destroyer advice

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Not worth it.

Not worth the time. The effort. The drama. The frustration. Just not worth it.

You don't need a line. You need more options. A girl who's been a friend for 2 years shows you're fishing at the bottom of your barrel.
You've had two years of wasted opportunity. Assuming you go through a lot of tissues and hand lotion.
He's been waiting for the perfect moment....
Not sure if what you said is a good thing. But like I said, I'm open to suggestion to make this work

Author:  Dragula [ Tue Dec 22, 2015 8:07 pm ]
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BF destroyer routines don't work. These products exist for them because people look on Google to what keywords are searched for and the product and marketing is created around that. Oneitus victims is big business.

It's more of the case of being a cool guy and being the next branch for her before she let's go of her current one. It is as simple as that and you know what? It is totally out of your control and all down to her.

So, instead, you can try to make this 'work', or you can just be a cool guy, chase the other billion girls on the planet in the meantime and she will be in touch if she wants your fuck stick inside of her.

Author:  neo87 [ Tue Dec 22, 2015 8:15 pm ]
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What are your other options like?

If you think that destroying her bf means anything for getting with her, you're inexperienced=poor options

How this will play out....you'll make some kinda weird move, she'll friendzone you harder, you'll give an ultimatum, you guys will stop being friends...then you'll be back wanting your "friend" back.


Edit: Looks like you've been through this before w this chick:
Quote:
Hi guys, I need an expert advice. I have a female friend that I have been trying to seduce for over a year. I even bought a lot of programs about dating and seduction but unfortunately it doesn't work on her. She only see's me as a friend even though I followed all the steps on any program. To make the long story short, my ego took over and I decided to unfriend and unfollow her on all of my social media. She also unfollowed me too after a week. The reason I did that is to completely forget about her and move on to the next girl. However, I realize that I ruined our friendship that used to be really great and now I'm kinda regretting it. Should I initiate contact and apologize to her? cuz I know she's hurt, or just completely forget about her and never contact her again. Thanks in advance.

Just STOP. Why the hell are you so hung up on a chick that you have to rewrite the SAME story over and over while she just does not like you?! And please, no bs about having other options, if you did, you won't care about one chick this much.

Author:  rake_35 [ Tue Dec 22, 2015 8:17 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Need some awesome boyfriend destroyer advice

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BF destroyer routines don't work. These products exist for them because people look on Google to what keywords are searched for and the product and marketing is created around that. Oneitus victims is big business.

It's more of the case of being a cool guy and being the next branch for her before she let's go of her current one. It is as simple as that and you know what? It is totally out of your control and all down to her.

So, instead, you can try to make this 'work', or you can just be a cool guy, chase the other billion girls on the planet in the meantime and she will be in touch if she wants your fuck stick inside of her.
I'm seeing other girls and sleeping with other girls, and she knows cause she sees the pics I'm posting on social medias with different girls every week or whenever. She knows I'm a "player". I just want to turn our friendship into a different level. I never did something like this before that's why I'm asking if you guys know some strategy on doing this. I can normally get a girl right away if she doesn't know me that well yet, works like a charm. She's not my priority cause I'm busy doing other stuff. I only call her to hangout only if I want to see her and she makes time.

Author:  rake_35 [ Tue Dec 22, 2015 8:20 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Need some awesome boyfriend destroyer advice

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What are your other options like?

If you think that destroying her bf means anything for getting with her, you're inexperienced=poor options

How this will play out....you'll make some kinda weird move, she'll friendzone you harder, you'll give an ultimatum, you guys will stop being friends...then you'll be back wanting your "friend" back.


Edit: Looks like you've been through this before w this chick:
Quote:
Hi guys, I need an expert advice. I have a female friend that I have been trying to seduce for over a year. I even bought a lot of programs about dating and seduction but unfortunately it doesn't work on her. She only see's me as a friend even though I followed all the steps on any program. To make the long story short, my ego took over and I decided to unfriend and unfollow her on all of my social media. She also unfollowed me too after a week. The reason I did that is to completely forget about her and move on to the next girl. However, I realize that I ruined our friendship that used to be really great and now I'm kinda regretting it. Should I initiate contact and apologize to her? cuz I know she's hurt, or just completely forget about her and never contact her again. Thanks in advance.

Just STOP
There's always this one girl, it's just probably my ego cause I can get other girls easily with minimal effort. I totally understand your point dude. Like I said, I'm seeing other girls all the time but I just want to get her

Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Tue Dec 22, 2015 8:32 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Need some awesome boyfriend destroyer advice

Then fucking man up already. Be overtly sexual. Tell her EXACTLY what you would do to her.

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