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Author:  J.Daniels [ Mon Dec 14, 2015 11:09 pm ]
Post subject:  Nervous about making your first approach?

Can't be bothered to study, and I was talking to a guy from this forum about some stuff I did to help me get through my first approach. Thought I'd share incase it's useful to anybody else. Pretty sure it's in the wrong section but all seem wrong...

1. Punish/reward yourself.
Think of something that you like doing. It could be playing video games, drinking soda, masturbating over hentai granny midget porn, watching Breaking Bad or anything. Lets say you chose masturbating.... okay, now you're not allowed to do this until you've approached at least X amount of girls. How hard can it be? Pun intended.

2. Arrogantly reframe "rejections"
Honestly, be the most arrogant prick possible if you have to be. I was doing day game a few months back and I could tell this girl wasn't particularly interested in me - feet gradually facing the other direction more and more after a while. I still thought I'd go for her number if nothing else. She never gave me it. Most guys would class this as some huge fail and probably make a thread about it. I honestly went to the toilet so that I could smirk at myself in the mirror while saying things in my head like "Man, it's such a shame that she thought I was too hot for her. I mean, she couldn't even bring herself to give me her number because she couldn't handle the pressure involved with dating somebody on my level. I wonder if any of the girls around here are good enough to have the fortune of me taking their number?" - I know full well how much of a dick that makes me sound, and I know it's bullshit. That's what's so good; you end up believing your own bullshit, and you view yourself as a catch, which obviously makes women view you the same way.


This wont be very useful to the guys already crushing it, but I thought it could be a couple of good little tips for the new guys.

Try it and let me know how you get on. Good luck. :wink:

Author:  Jay (Majik) [ Tue Dec 15, 2015 3:35 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Nervous about making your first approach?

Much more "patient" than I would explain it to someone lol nice post.

Author:  J.Daniels [ Tue Dec 15, 2015 5:06 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Nervous about making your first approach?

Thanks man

Author:  Crypton [ Tue Dec 15, 2015 10:39 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Nervous about making your first approach?

Some people say they already see me as arrogant and full of myself. I don't always agree, I wonder if I have to be full of myself for real to see this effect.

Author:  J.Daniels [ Wed Dec 16, 2015 3:36 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Nervous about making your first approach?

Quote:
Some people say they already see me as arrogant and full of myself. I don't always agree, I wonder if I have to be full of myself for real to see this effect.
Before you even go out to talk to girls and shit, say to yourself "Right, I'll talk to 10 lucky girls before I come home" - use words like lucky as much as you can, like they're lucky. Try it out, it gets me pumped.

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