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Met this HB9.5 on daygame(ONEITIS, need advice)
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Author:  thespikez [ Sun Dec 13, 2015 10:51 am ]
Post subject:  Met this HB9.5 on daygame(ONEITIS, need advice)
So got her number in my student campus, we texted back and forth about meeting she flaked twice, I flaked once.
We stop texting for few days , then we start engaging deep , we talked on the phone all the time and messages and photos and all that shit . We meet for the first time , everythings goes well , at end of the date she says i hope you will go out with me again. Ok so now my problem is that she is texting me and calling me and all that shit but she is very hard , it's been 2 weeks and we still didn't have our 2nd date , once she didn't tell me she was going to club , cause she didn't answered my text or my call , but the things is that we meet in the same clubs ,in the first club i didn't saw her but she said "that i walked right passed her with another girl holding my hand" ,next club we meet, we were both like wtf ,we talked a little, and then i leave for my friends , woke up to 10 texts and few missed calls from her most of them were like "ï wanted to come to you ,but i saw you with another girl" ,"i'm tired to talk alone ,answer my messages please" , BTW i had my phone closed the whole night.
The next day she calls me in the morning to see how i am all that shit, i'm clubbing and drinking the next day too , invited her ,she can't come cause she has to study.One week has passed and we still haven't meet ,only for 10 minutes at college ,in a break ,we're both same age,anyway whole week we talk ,she can't meet,we plan meetings 2 days ahead , she cancels it, sending me cute shit text messages.

Last night i wanted to meet , but instead she goes to her friends and texts me their going , i texted her "we're heading in skye :)", "we will probably see there" , i text "text me when your coming" , she doesn't text ,i've lost a friend in the club who was kinda drunk ,looking for him, and i found her and her friends ,danced with her a little,asked her to go downstairs alone in the middle of the club , i saw that she was kinda awkward and wanted to be left alone with her friends (4 girls 1 guy) and i talk a bit with her and leave, i was angry (in my head i was like ,wtf she doesn't want to spend time with me or wtf?) I leave club with my friends ,1 hour later (5 am ) she texts me "just got home safe :D" . I didn't text back.

I'm CONFUSED ,wtf am i supposed to do here? i'm tired of acting like fucking teenages ,but she said that it's hard to make her scheduel and has to learn for exams, thats why we haven't met yet.
I'm seeing other girls,and still gaming , got 1 number last night while she was in the same club with me xD ,but she might be hb10 , and i don't want to put her on a pedestal ,but might have oneitis for her.

Neeed advices what am i suppose to do now? how to react next for fucks sake? i'm tired ofr telling her lets meet up and she saying , she hasn't have the time ,or flake with an hour before.

I know i looke a bit wierd but i don't know what to do with her.
Author:  oceanx [ Sun Dec 13, 2015 11:30 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Met this HB9.5 on daygame(ONEITIS, need advice)
Paragraphs bro. Bottom line if you have oneitus just speak to other women. Your oneitus will disappear.
Author:  thespikez [ Sun Dec 13, 2015 11:46 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Met this HB9.5 on daygame(ONEITIS, need advice)
Paragraphed :) I just want to know if I should still initiate texts ,phone calls with her ,or let her do it?
Author:  oceanx [ Sun Dec 13, 2015 12:00 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Met this HB9.5 on daygame(ONEITIS, need advice)
Your post reads like a drunk-fueled post. Honestly man just meet women and let this one orbit around you. In my view, the only way she is REALLY going to be interested in you (i mean interested to the point where she comes up to you and starts making sexual innuendos to you and you can literally feel the heat coming from her pussy) is when she sees you chilling with other girls.
Author:  thespikez [ Sun Dec 13, 2015 12:35 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Met this HB9.5 on daygame(ONEITIS, need advice)
I am hungover , not drunk ,but bro i need to know if i should still initiate things with this girl ?
Author:  J.Daniels [ Sun Dec 13, 2015 1:31 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Met this HB9.5 on daygame(ONEITIS, need advice)
She should be initiating 70% of the interactions, stop all of this constant texting and calling. Why should she go out on a date with you? There's nothing new for her to discover - you're giving her a live commentary with your phone! As a rule of thumb, your phone is primarily for setting dates, nothing more. It only takes a 3-4 minute phone call to do this. Don't be her little phone FRIEND or before you know it she'll be complaining to you that her boyfriend fucks her too rough and it hurts because his dick is too big. You don't want to hear that shit.

Next time you talk to her, say "So, when are you free go out again?" and if she gives a day, arrange it and end the call because you have a life and you're too busy to sit around on the phone all day (don't say that). Let the anticipation and excitement build in her head. This is where attraction grows. Imagine a song without any silence? It'd just be one constant, annoying noise. It's the silence that makes the music.

If she doesn't give a day she's free, you say "Alright, well give me a call when you've got your schedule figured out because I'd love to see you."

As for the date, make it something adventurous and unique. Don't take her for coffee or a movie you lazy bastard ;) I like go to the bowling alley - there's a mini arcade, bowling lanes, pool tables, 2 little places to get food and a little pub. Going to multiple places in one night is fucking magical, honestly. It takes a woman around 3 dates usually before she'll sleep with a guy (honestly, try it) but when you take her to multiple places in one night, it makes her feel like she knows you better than she actually does, and increases your chances of reducing this little 3 date average.

TL;DR: Get off the fucking phone. Set a date with a definite time and place to meet/pick her up. It's a scientific fact that women are more attracted to men whose feelings are unclear, so keep yourself busy and stop hounding her so much or she has no reason to date you.
Author:  R.C [ Mon Dec 14, 2015 11:37 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Met this HB9.5 on daygame(ONEITIS, need advice)
This was very hard to read.

But you're clinging to her looks.
Author:  thespikez [ Tue Dec 22, 2015 11:21 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Met this HB9.5 on daygame(ONEITIS, need advice)
Ok, so now we are together, we're on holidays and i know you guys said stop the texting and phone shit, but now since we cant see each other for 2 weeks, we've been talking alot on the phone and all that shit,but sometimes the conversations gets kinda boring , and i know... i have oneitis , because she is one of the most beautiful girls i've talked to.
Sometimes i avoid texting her ,like yesterday , i haven't texted her the whole day and at like 17:00 pm she texts me "Babyyy, you forgot about mee" cause we usually talk more. I know it's bad idea since we're in different cities. But i think i want a relationship with this one, since we already are in one .
I neeed to know how to keep her intrested, and make her attracted for the long run. P.S I have never had a relationship more than 1 month.And since we can't see each other for 2 weeks i need some help here, to get her more involved.
Author:  Dragula [ Wed Dec 23, 2015 12:09 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Met this HB9.5 on daygame(ONEITIS, need advice)
Your neediness makes me want to chop off my dick and sell it on eBay.
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Wed Dec 23, 2015 2:22 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Met this HB9.5 on daygame(ONEITIS, need advice)
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she is one of the most beautiful girls i've talked to.
So this brings the list up to..what 5 maybe?
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Sometimes i avoid texting her ,like yesterday , i haven't texted her the whole day and at like 17:00 pm she texts me "Babyyy, you forgot about mee" cause we usually talk more. I know it's bad idea since we're in different cities.
I think I just puked in my mouth a little.
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i want a relationship with this one, since we already are in one .
The fuck you are!
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i need some help here, to get her more involved.
OOOOooh you are in a relationship....she just doesn't know it yet.
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we cant see each other for 2 weeks,
Plenty of time for her to wrap some home town X-mas cock with tight pussy.
Author:  dtrak [ Wed Dec 23, 2015 3:03 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Met this HB9.5 on daygame(ONEITIS, need advice)
The minute you have onitis, you lost the fight.

Think about it, you think she's in a forum asking about you? No, she's living her life confidently, specially if she is hot.

Solution: Get more girls. Stop giving a fuck.
Author:  J.Daniels [ Wed Dec 23, 2015 3:40 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Met this HB9.5 on daygame(ONEITIS, need advice)
Don't talk about a relationship until you're actually fucking IN ONE. As in when SHE brings it up. When SHE is fucking ready.
Author:  R.C [ Thu Dec 24, 2015 1:29 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Met this HB9.5 on daygame(ONEITIS, need advice)
Did you have sex with her?
Author:  Eddie Fews [ Thu Dec 24, 2015 4:59 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Met this HB9.5 on daygame(ONEITIS, need advice)
Its simple.

Just stop texting back until she starts texting you about meeting up. If you pull back a bit she will. And at the very least she'll ask why you've pulled back and thats when you tell her "Its time consuming, and we're not even meeting." you let her figure out the rest.

One thing you're not going to do though is continue doing the same thing and expecting something different to happen.
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