1) even if you look like david beckham or the hottest guy on the planet, No romantic or lovey dovey shit guys. All those lame lines from romance movies, all the stuff you thought is what girls want to hear, IS NOT WHAT THEY WANT TO HEAR until you have been banging them and getting to know them for a while. The example that got brought up was that hb3 was talking to a guy, an attractive one with money at that. they hooked up once but hadn't really gone on any dates or done anything serious. after a week he started sending super cheesy texts and saying shit like "I will wait until the end of time for you" "you are the only thing in the world i care about" etc etc etc. the girls explained that this throws off HUGE red flags for women early on. they said that its weird because the guys "dont even know them well enough so why are they saying that shit"…they dont know about close personal issues, what her interests really are, etc. it makes them question the guys mental sanity lol….so long story short even though that guy looked good, laid some pipe, he never got a 2nd chance and was put on ignore due to his over the top romantic texts.

2) Curiosity killed the cat. women are curious creatures, if you put out bread crumb they will come. you need to have some aspects of your life hidden, you can't lay out all your cards on table. can't make yourself too open or available right away, have intrigue. kind of hard to explain this one but thats just what i was told…the example was that one of the girls was already seeing some guy, but got hit on by an older dude. the older dude had no game at all except "just come over here and see"….she ended up going over there and fucking him just because she was curious about an older dude being so confident and not saying much. maybe she's just a whore, who knows! lol

3) this one i didn't agree with or like too much, but all 3 talked about being in love with troubled guys, I'm talking shit like broke pill poppers, mental disorders, pimps drug dealers and other troubled shit. i was kind of like "damn y'all can do better than that" but they explained its because they feel sympathy and want to try and fix a troubled guy. i also imagine theres a power struggle at play, where the girl feels like she has more power over a fixable guy, than a AMOG PUA guy where she just feels like a side piece etc. this just fucking sucks to see because i absolutely hate it when i hear about a hot girl who is super cool, dating some lowlife piece of shit who can't even afford to take her out and treat her properly. its pathetic and i hate guys like this….

4) women are fucking crazy and almost every single one of them suffers from insecurity, depression, mood swings, random bouts of crying and outbursts, lol. you would see these hot girls and think they were confident and having a great love life where guys are cooing and calling every week, but the reality is they are home alone sad depressed and just lying around in a xanax induced stupor listening to Weekend while a bunch of lame guys text them AFC needy questions and shit.

thanks for your insight! i was wondering about the insecurity part as well...how does one "lift them up" out of it without coming off as too romantic. do you taper up escalation or do you try to take it slow if you know shes going through some troubled times.

yea i did that once when she texted me a pic but said she "looked terrible" and i had to correct her a bit and tell her her smile made by day.

but I'm thinking less of physical features, and more of their mental state. like if they are in a depression or emotional slump where they can't even drag themselves out of bed…wondering how to approach that angle. "hey girl i know your depressed lying around in bed all day so let me come wake your life up" hahah i would never say that but you get the idea.

I'm just asking because hb3 let me know some insider info on my target and she's been feeling really insecure and depressed lately, and her own insecurity is getting in the way of me making progress. she's scared she's not good enough for me or something weird like that, and that I'm just gonna pump and dump. but i really do want to help her out emotionally and bring some excitement into her life, we have some cool things planned but she's still really hard to get to open up to me about any of her true feelings. i had no idea she was even going through this, our dates were super fun and lots of kino and kisses….but hb3's insider info kind of changed my outlook.

1) even if you look like david beckham or the hottest guy on the planet, No romantic or lovey dovey shit guys. All those lame lines from romance movies, all the stuff you thought is what girls want to hear, IS NOT WHAT THEY WANT TO HEAR until you have been banging them and getting to know them for a while. The example that got brought up was that hb3 was talking to a guy, an attractive one with money at that. they hooked up once but hadn't really gone on any dates or done anything serious. after a week he started sending super cheesy texts and saying shit like "I will wait until the end of time for you" "you are the only thing in the world i care about" etc etc etc. the girls explained that this throws off HUGE red flags for women early on. they said that its weird because the guys "dont even know them well enough so why are they saying that shit"…they dont know about close personal issues, what her interests really are, etc. it makes them question the guys mental sanity lol….so long story short even though that guy looked good, laid some pipe, he never got a 2nd chance and was put on ignore due to his over the top romantic texts.

2) Curiosity killed the cat. women are curious creatures, if you put out bread crumb they will come. you need to have some aspects of your life hidden, you can't lay out all your cards on table. can't make yourself too open or available right away, have intrigue. kind of hard to explain this one but thats just what i was told…the example was that one of the girls was already seeing some guy, but got hit on by an older dude. the older dude had no game at all except "just come over here and see"….she ended up going over there and fucking him just because she was curious about an older dude being so confident and not saying much. maybe she's just a whore, who knows! lol

3) this one i didn't agree with or like too much, but all 3 talked about being in love with troubled guys, I'm talking shit like broke pill poppers, mental disorders, pimps drug dealers and other troubled shit. i was kind of like "damn y'all can do better than that" but they explained its because they feel sympathy and want to try and fix a troubled guy. i also imagine theres a power struggle at play, where the girl feels like she has more power over a fixable guy, than a AMOG PUA guy where she just feels like a side piece etc. this just fucking sucks to see because i absolutely hate it when i hear about a hot girl who is super cool, dating some lowlife piece of shit who can't even afford to take her out and treat her properly. its pathetic and i hate guys like this….

4) women are fucking crazy and almost every single one of them suffers from insecurity, depression, mood swings, random bouts of crying and outbursts, lol. you would see these hot girls and think they were confident and having a great love life where guys are cooing and calling every week, but the reality is they are home alone sad depressed and just lying around in a xanax induced stupor listening to Weekend while a bunch of lame guys text them AFC needy questions and shit.

thanks for your insight! i was wondering about the insecurity part as well...how does one "lift them up" out of it without coming off as too romantic. do you taper up escalation or do you try to take it slow if you know shes going through some troubled times.

You don't want to fuck with fixing someone's emotional security and becoming their emotional crutch because depression is no joke. Those types are emotionally draining and they will feed on you until they bring you down to their level.

If you want to get her to open up you should open up about something. She'll feel like she owes you. It's the law of reciprocation.