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| Author: | hey_lover [ Tue Dec 01, 2015 11:12 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Working in a Gym |
I've been working in a gym for the past 2 months. I fucking love it, and it has to be the best job in the world, perhaps second to being a fucking pornstar. I live 90 minutes away from the gym, so my logistics are bad, and it swings in favour of the girls who obviously live within walking distance of the gym. Since I joined, I've pinged every girl that I found attractive relying on body language, personality and humour within the context of fitness spiel. Fitness spiel being asking about their program, what they should so, redirecting them to an efficient training method, etc. I have not directly hit on any girl, but have asked logistical questions, occasionally relayed my history and personality, without using any direct methods or displaying direct interest. I have formulated a decent idea of how the chicks I've pinged now perceive me. There has been one girl above the rest who stared me the fuck down since day dot 1, who I then met outside of the gym and introduced myself to, and then met up twice with her outside, where she escorted me to the tube station after an hour long walk on both occasions. I have not number closed her knowing that I will see her at the gym, but I gave her my number. She has not hollered me. She recently broke up with her ex-boyfriend who was a bodybuilder type in the gym. She is also very social with pretty much every guy in the gym, but I have gone far enough to holding her hand, touching her up everywhere, trying to kiss her once but she moved away, and even attempted to invite myself over but she had an excuse. I have since gone cold and decided not to try again, as she's rather old, and I have a feeling that she is playing me. She let on that she's a manipulative person at work, and I have a feeling that she's doing likewise at the gym. I am very sure that no-one else at the gym has escalated on her like I have, but she seems like she's playing games. I could ask her for her number, and arrange a date with her, but that just doesn't seem like the right way to go. Plus, she's not the girl I'm most interested in, and am losing interest in her with each passing day. She usually waits around for me if I'm busy in order to talk, she asks me when I'm next in, she bought me chocolate, etc. She has given me a direct statement of interest on our date, that she finds me amazing and she's allowed me touch her up and escalate. I only went for the kiss once, and have not done it again since. She looks at me like she wants me so bad. I should reiterate that there are at least 5 girls I am far more interested in than her. The other issue I am having is that I can't differentiate between the girls who like me but are simply shy, the girls who aren't interested but are simply being polite and social, the girls who are yellow and need tilting, and girls who are in awe of my gym personality but aren't interested in sexual relations. None of them have been as obvious as the girl I described above, who is actually the oldest of the lot, and most likely has more balls and experience in showing interest than the others. I'm also scared shitless of escalating on the wrong girl, for fear of being reported to my superiors. I know that relying on clear interest from her is an inefficient strategy, as most girls simply won't have the courage to be overt about their interest. I also have one colleague who lives with her boyfriend, who I tease continuously, and she has teased me back, but I can't tell whether she is just being a fun colleague, or if there is something more to it. I also have a strong feeling that a lot of girls are very receptive to strong fitness personalities, there are actually several of us at the gym, but do not actually see themselves as having sexual relations with us. It's usually the girls we don't want that are clear in their intentions, but those that we want, are either not interested or are being subtle about it. I can't fucking tell. There has also been a few cases where I've had girls who didn't want to leave me, and continued the interaction like an interested girl would, again pointing out that this is all within a fitness training spiel context, and then when I probed further, they mentioned they had boyfriends. This was really weird actually, almost like I was being used. There's another girl who comes to the gym with her boyfriend, she always seeks eye contact with me, yet every time I have approached her away from her BF, she was not compliant, yet at the same time she's with her BF and trying to seek eye contact. Fucking validation ho. There is one girl who looks at me like she's interested, and I am definitely interested in her, but I don't know how to play it. Lastly, I rarely have the opportunity to have a prolonged interaction with a girl, without jeopardising my own work duties, or preventing her from exercising, so I'm limited to very short bursts of interaction. |
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| Author: | Monsignor Crisanto [ Tue Dec 01, 2015 11:38 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Working in a Gym |
Since there are so many girls in your gym, focus your efforts on those that steal glances at your crotch only. This way, you will screen out girls who just want attention and screen in girls who want your equipment. So the next time a girl isolates with you at her place, all you gotta do is escalate smoothly and then take out the package that she loves stealing glances at. Living 90 minutes away is just bad logistics. Find ways on how you can live closer at your place of work. Btw, if it's okay with you to take a risk in losing your job, then by all means, try coitus with all of the gym's women clients. |
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