So I met this guy at school about a year ago. He's always kind of odd around me. I don't know how to describe it, just something off. I thought, maybe he's shy, I'll go try to be kind to him and open him up. So whenever I saw him I would start the convo with him and try to be positive and happy and stuff to try to make him feel better.

Fast forward to recently, he invites me to a college party his friend is hosting. Most of the people are international asian students who are mostly the people he talks to. I bring my girlfriend to this event cause she really wanted to go to a party and I thought she would like talking to the chinese people because she is learning the language.

The party was ok, I talk to his close friends, find out they are really into pickup. Not that good, but try to hook up with girls (mostly the foreign visiting students) and identify as good with women (theyre a bit cocky and not that attractive so odd again). Afterwards, she added him on facebook to try to add to her friend count I guess. He messages her "Wow you are so beautiful, what did __(me)__ ever do to deserve you?" She says lol, then he says "still trying to figure it out huh?"

So now im sitting here thinking, is this guy trying to be a dick, or is his social iq just that low that he doesn't know what he's doing?

Yeah don't really think she will cheat, just more dissapointed in the dude, but I guess guys will do that