Abundance mentality. If you're spinning a plate and you drop it, you've dropped everything. How embarrassing?
If you're spinning 10 and you drop 2, you're still spinning 8... still pretty impressive, something to be proud of.
Know how to make something seem more valuable? Make it scarce. There's a planet made out of diamond which would render all diamonds on Earth completely worthless, but we can't get there, so diamonds are scarce... and look how valuable they are
but if we had an abundance, we'd happily walk past a diamond the size of a basketball in the street.I like analogies and metaphors and shit, I do.
Too long; didn't read: Get more girls. Everyone will tell you the same. It's how you stop individual girls mattering so much. Also (told you I like analogies and metaphors, well I like similies, too.) girls are like money. The more you have, the more you attract.
Tinder spam, approach anxiety drill (newbie mission or whatever), set as many dates as possible.
Eddie Fews said something once about how you wouldn't get a second chance at a job interview with Google if you didn't show up, and a guy should value himself as if he's Google. I can't remember how he worded it, but it's actually a really good point.