PUA Forum :: Flaking: Do you address it via text or just ignore?

When a girl messages me the morning after a date. I pretty much know I'm good to sleep with her. Allow me to explain...

It communicates that I've been on her mind all night and I'm the 1st thing she thinking about as she wakes up. This is very good if you're a guy.

Now let's flip the gender, okay, you're a hot girl with lots of options and triple doses of cock invites daily. A good morning text to her suggests that the guy in question had no options and she is the life and soul purpose of his morning. Which means to a girl NEEDY = unattractive.

I know I know, when you've just had a good date, it's kind of a thorn in your side and you just want to text her and reaffirm that you like her and that you want her to reaffirm that she likes you. It's borderline oneitus.

Also, it also conveys that you have nothing much to say, you do not text with purpose, you're hoping she will lead the interaction. Ever been annoyed when someone messages you saying "sup" ???? It's the same thing. Annoying and I never entertain a reply unless the recipient has put in the effort.

Now if you were good with women and had lots of options, you tend to not text in this retard way because she isn't the life and soul of your happiness which transpires into my next point.

If a girl was interested in you, she would reply to your text no matter how lame it is. Now if she was neutral about you, this is the wrong text to send isn't it? If she is super keen and interested. Then she will respond. So what does a lack of response imply?

Her actions speak louder than words and her interest level is confirmed and brought to the surface despite how the previous night date went well. She isn't interested until she replies.

You should assume she has 6 other guys she is dating during the remaining week and are all charming mother fuckers too.

So what do you do about this for the next time? Stop sending her the lamest text on the planet. Not only is it lazy, but it is also NEEDY

have a great day

Author:	high_baller [ Wed Nov 25, 2015 1:25 pm ]
Post subject:	Flaking: Do you address it via text or just ignore?
I had a date with a girl today, all well and dandy until I message her saying "morning [rapport stuff]" with no reply. This is the first time someone flaked on me by not giving a reason and just ignoring me so I'm slightly annoyed. When you get ignored in this context, Do you call them out on it or just ignore it?

Author:	R.C [ Wed Nov 25, 2015 2:00 pm ]
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Sure, call her out. "Why did you ignore my absolute boring and unjustified text?"

Author:	Dragula [ Wed Nov 25, 2015 6:32 pm ]
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When a girl messages me the morning after a date. I pretty much know I'm good to sleep with her. Allow me to explain... It communicates that I've been on her mind all night and I'm the 1st thing she thinking about as she wakes up. This is very good if you're a guy. Now let's flip the gender, okay, you're a hot girl with lots of options and triple doses of cock invites daily. A good morning text to her suggests that the guy in question had no options and she is the life and soul purpose of his morning. Which means to a girl NEEDY = unattractive. I know I know, when you've just had a good date, it's kind of a thorn in your side and you just want to text her and reaffirm that you like her and that you want her to reaffirm that she likes you. It's borderline oneitus. Also, it also conveys that you have nothing much to say, you do not text with purpose, you're hoping she will lead the interaction. Ever been annoyed when someone messages you saying "sup" ???? It's the same thing. Annoying and I never entertain a reply unless the recipient has put in the effort. Now if you were good with women and had lots of options, you tend to not text in this retard way because she isn't the life and soul of your happiness which transpires into my next point. If a girl was interested in you, she would reply to your text no matter how lame it is. Now if she was neutral about you, this is the wrong text to send isn't it? If she is super keen and interested. Then she will respond. So what does a lack of response imply? Her actions speak louder than words and her interest level is confirmed and brought to the surface despite how the previous night date went well. She isn't interested until she replies. You should assume she has 6 other guys she is dating during the remaining week and are all charming mother fuckers too. So what do you do about this for the next time? Stop sending her the lamest text on the planet. Not only is it lazy, but it is also NEEDY have a great day

Author:	adaptordie [ Thu Nov 26, 2015 8:25 pm ]
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^^^ great fucking post!!! OP; definately fucking ignore, DO NOT ADDRESS. you will come off like some clingy stalker. i get super annoyed when girls I'm not interested in text me stuff like "what are you doing" or "whats up"….it means i gotta take time out of my day to sit there and respond and all this BS which i dont want to do. girls feel the same way, your texts should spark emotion and make them smile, not become some chore they have to respond to.

Author:	Eddie Fews [ Mon Nov 30, 2015 11:31 pm ]
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Quote: Sure, call her out. "Why did you ignore my absolute boring and unjustified text?" Lol Right. Move on OP. They're a dime a dozen. Treat them like it and they behave better.

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Author:	Jay (Majik) [ Thu Dec 03, 2015 10:33 am ]
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Quote: When a girl messages me the morning after a date. I pretty much know I'm good to sleep with her. Allow me to explain... It communicates that I've been on her mind all night and I'm the 1st thing she thinking about as she wakes up. This is very good if you're a guy. Now let's flip the gender, okay, you're a hot girl with lots of options and triple doses of cock invites daily. A good morning text to her suggests that the guy in question had no options and she is the life and soul purpose of his morning. Which means to a girl NEEDY = unattractive. I know I know, when you've just had a good date, it's kind of a thorn in your side and you just want to text her and reaffirm that you like her and that you want her to reaffirm that she likes you. It's borderline oneitus. Also, it also conveys that you have nothing much to say, you do not text with purpose, you're hoping she will lead the interaction. Ever been annoyed when someone messages you saying "sup" ???? It's the same thing. Annoying and I never entertain a reply unless the recipient has put in the effort. Now if you were good with women and had lots of options, you tend to not text in this retard way because she isn't the life and soul of your happiness which transpires into my next point. If a girl was interested in you, she would reply to your text no matter how lame it is. Now if she was neutral about you, this is the wrong text to send isn't it? If she is super keen and interested. Then she will respond. So what does a lack of response imply? Her actions speak louder than words and her interest level is confirmed and brought to the surface despite how the previous night date went well. She isn't interested until she replies. You should assume she has 6 other guys she is dating during the remaining week and are all charming mother fuckers too. So what do you do about this for the next time? Stop sending her the lamest text on the planet. Not only is it lazy, but it is also NEEDY have a great day That. Is correct.

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