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Author:  Zeru [ Mon Nov 23, 2015 6:44 am ]
Post subject:  What does it mean to be a high valued male?
What are characteristics of one?
Author:  R.C [ Mon Nov 23, 2015 11:45 am ]
Post subject:  Re: What does it mean to be a high valued male?
A man who doesn't post lazy questions that can be answered by a simple google search.
Author:  Dragula [ Mon Nov 23, 2015 1:52 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: What does it mean to be a high valued male?
I think RC is is just jealous that he hasn't been on his: Thank Sig List

For me, you know that next day feeling when you've just nailed a hot girls and you temporarily feel like a king? Usually girls give you IOI's when you are in this bubble.

Well. Imagine that same feeling for everything and feeling it 24/7:

• love life
• finances
• health
• fulfilment
• happiness
• etc

This is the level that I aim at. I want to be a 10/10 and mean it to my inner core. Every rep of heavy weight, every healthy balanced meal, every approach, every contract with clients just gives you that extra brick to your palace incrementally
Author:  Monsignor Crisanto [ Mon Nov 23, 2015 4:01 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: What does it mean to be a high valued male?
If you're a highly valued person, people tend to spend a lot on you.

If you apply for a job and you have high value, you'll easily get US $120,000 a year plus stock options. If you put up a start up business, people will gladly infuse equity into your company for every investment round you undertake. The same is true with girls. If you're a highly valued male, girls will spend their money on you from little things to big ticket items.

Characteristics?

They're very good at what they do. Hence, they are highly valued.
Author:  Style981 [ Tue Nov 24, 2015 12:35 am ]
Post subject:  Re: What does it mean to be a high valued male?
A person who does what he wants, where he wants, without any shame or hesitation. He has full confidence and belief on himself. He is in control of what he's doing in life and which direction he is heading.
(Just a basic idea... There's much more to it though)
Author:  GenesisPUA [ Tue Nov 24, 2015 7:03 am ]
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A man who doesn't post lazy questions that can be answered by a simple google search.
:lol:

A high value male is a man who's got his shit together, not necessarily rich but working and has his finances balanced. A man with Alfa male qualities (go figure), confident in himself, assertive, leader of men and basically walks with head high up. Not necessarily good with women but women naturally flock around him.
Author:  stevedtat [ Tue Nov 24, 2015 7:21 am ]
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Quote:
A person who does what he wants, where he wants, without any shame or hesitation. He has full confidence and belief on himself. He is in control of what he's doing in life and which direction he is heading.
(Just a basic idea... There's much more to it though)
Quote:
Quote:
A man who doesn't post lazy questions that can be answered by a simple google search.
:lol:

A high value male is a man who's got his shit together, not necessarily rich but working and has his finances balanced. A man with Alfa male qualities (go figure), confident in himself, assertive, leader of men and basically walks with head high up. Not necessarily good with women but women naturally flock around him.

I think style981 and slowbutsurePUA hit it right on the head. It's when you don't have the need to qualify yourself to people, instead they qualify themselves to you.
Josh Pellicer and Adam Lyons said it perfectly "a rich man doesn't have to tell you he's rich, he holds himself that way"
to be high value, is to act high value. hold your head high, be happy with who you are, and don't brag or qualify yourself to people. you can be a 6, a 7, an 8, or a 9/10.
6s are always trying to get attention and usually look like they're trying too hard.
7s are Fake alphas and are usually biligerant and walk around pumping their chests.
8s are a combo of 6s and 7s they are fake alphas that do good sometimes and crash hard when things don't go their way.
9s and 10s (yes theyre very about the same) are sure of themselves without bragging. they're alpha without trying. they bring the good out in people and make them feel good, along with everyone they meet. people always pine for their attention, and they lead with honor and distinction. they lead people to places, or accept their friends ideas without claiming credit. they don't have to act alpha, they just are. they know they can get any woman, and choose to pick the ones they like the most. they hold their head up, have good eye contact, stand straight, take up space when they're in the room, and not afraid to have the attention.

Read Tao Of The Badass...it will explain everything wonderfully. And Josh Pellicer is awesome about explaining it. also sign up for Adam Lyons webshows, he goes into depth about all of this.
Author:  adaptordie [ Thu Nov 26, 2015 8:37 pm ]
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i like the post about being a leader of men. a true HV can lead his fellow men and earn their respect. i see so many wannabe "bosses" who are secretly hated by their business partners, coworkers, subordinates, because they are so insecure about themselves that they suddenly have some kind of financial power and want to belittle or become arrogant with their fellow man. no respect given, no respect received.

this carries over into social dating life. when you go out with your people and they all speak highly of you because of the things you've done and opportunities you given others, when you are able to get dudes twice your physical size or age to want to earn your respect and put in work for you, when everyone in the bar brightens and is happy and cheers when you show up, thats HV. Just being some rich dude with a flashy car, rolex and lots of peacock BS just screams "i need attention, all i have are these fancy possessions for a shallow gal"….a true HV guy can pull up in a toyota camry and dirty carhartt pants and still look and act like a boss.
Author:  Style981 [ Thu Nov 26, 2015 9:26 pm ]
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Quote:
i like the post about being a leader of men. a true HV can lead his fellow men and earn their respect. i see so many wannabe "bosses" who are secretly hated by their business partners, coworkers, subordinates, because they are so insecure about themselves that they suddenly have some kind of financial power and want to belittle or become arrogant with their fellow man. no respect given, no respect received.

this carries over into social dating life. when you go out with your people and they all speak highly of you because of the things you've done and opportunities you given others, when you are able to get dudes twice your physical size or age to want to earn your respect and put in work for you, when everyone in the bar brightens and is happy and cheers when you show up, thats HV.
First I understand what you mean. But what you said is most likely to give a vibe which can lead to misinterpretation. I've seen guys who are respected everywhere they go, have a large social circle, and of course, have some hard to find buddies who will advocate anything they'll say without questioning. But they are not even close to being alpha at all, because many of them do this thing for validation and to build more repo in the eyes of the others, thus = validation seeking = neediness

Having respect and being respected is a part of being alpha, but it's not the definition of being alpha as you said. For example, if the guy with ^^ qualities, is unhappy from inside, every one cheering when he enters a bar won't make him alpha.
Author:  stevedtat [ Thu Nov 26, 2015 11:10 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: What does it mean to be a high valued male?
I agree with you Style,
A true HV isn't worried about being HV, it's a result of his own inner UN-needyness. It's the idea that he doesn't try to be an alpha, he doesn't need the validation. He's happy with himself, both inside and out. He doesn't need the respect of others, he just gets it. he commands it by not being needy, or having the need to qualify himself.

It's kinda like how some people crack jokes to make people laugh, just for their own amusement or internal need to be liked. A true HV cracks jokes to make laughs and bring happiness to everyone, including himself. He doesn't have to out-do someone else's jokes, or try to talk over them. He can speak slowly, and with confidence to get his point across. he's the leader of the pack because he was voted that way by his own confidence and self assurance, not because he forced himself to be, but because he was the right choice.
Author:  Jay (Majik) [ Fri Nov 27, 2015 12:37 am ]
Post subject:  Re: What does it mean to be a high valued male?
Value is just a matter of perception.

I can be a man of value to a group of girls if I've got a bag of coke in my pocket or a big ole' dick in my pants. Whatever you can do to provide value, try it. Then you become a high value guy.
Author:  Style981 [ Fri Nov 27, 2015 2:56 am ]
Post subject:  Re: What does it mean to be a high valued male?
@Stevedtat I get your point. As I said before, there's a lot more to it. Also, it depends on the perspective from which you are viewing it.
One is from other peoples' perspective; how much you are respected, how much high value or leader of the group you are and the other is from your own perspective; how much confidence you have on yourself, do you make decisions based on your own will or do you do it for other people's approval etc.

Both perspectives define the value of a person imo, but I guess at the end of the day, if you value yourself then other people will too.
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