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| Author: | Moses C. [ Sat Nov 21, 2015 11:13 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Never compliment a woman? |
I know this guy who is a natural (been good at picking up woman since birth) who told me he never compliments woman (unless they ask or beg for it) because it makes you look low or beta (DLV). And the goal is too make the girl think you are the shit. Is he right? |
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| Author: | JackZero [ Sat Nov 21, 2015 11:20 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Never compliment a woman? |
There is nothing wrong with complimenting women as long as you don't go overboard with them. |
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| Author: | neo87 [ Sat Nov 21, 2015 11:42 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Never compliment a woman? |
How to get or game women depends on so many factors, who you are, the type of woman, the city/country, the venue and what you're looking for. Sure, there as some overarching principles like dont be needy and be confident, but tbh alot of this stuff you just gotta figure out how it works for you. The guy who goes after drunk party girls will do some things that the guy going after the medical school students at the library won't do. Never seen compliments as a no no, but at the end of the day, try it and see what works for you. |
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| Author: | HectorH [ Sun Nov 22, 2015 3:12 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Never compliment a woman? |
I did an indirect compliment to the a girl that works at foot locker and it work great! she told me where she went to school and I said wow all the girls that go there are beautiful. she know I was talking about her and her body language instantly changed. |
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| Author: | HectorH [ Sun Nov 22, 2015 3:12 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Never compliment a woman? |
I did an indirect compliment to the a girl that works at foot locker and it work great! she told me where she went to school and I said wow all the girls that go there are beautiful. she know I was talking about her and her body language instantly changed. |
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| Author: | oceanx [ Sun Nov 22, 2015 8:13 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Never compliment a woman? |
Everyone loves a compliment sprinkled in here or there. |
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| Author: | Monsignor Crisanto [ Sun Nov 22, 2015 8:13 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Never compliment a woman? |
Some women react favorably to compliments. Some don't. Those who don't react well to compliments will have various reasons. It could be a woman's defense mechanism against people who compliment her because they want something from her. Another reason is a deep rooted emotional attachment problem that has affected her psychologically since childhood. To screen out women with deep rooted psychological issues, check if those women react more favorably to criticisms instead. Sure, you can get these types by not giving them compliments and flooding them with criticisms BUT you would be dealing with damaged goods. It's a personality disorder. Don't hope for a happy and healthy relationship with these types. For women who react favorably to compliments, check if they have a constant need to be complimented. If yes, these types also have deep rooted psychological issues that go a long way back since childhood. They are probably ugly ducklings as kids and got all kinds of hurtful insults. Again, you can get these types with a complimenting strategy, but do not anchor any hope on a happy and healthy relationship. Women who can take both compliments and criticisms are ideal. But these types are rare. In summary: complimenting women is like eating cheeseburger. Eat a bunch and you'll have a heart attack sooner than later. Enjoy cheeseburger once in a while balanced with veggies and ample exercise, and all will be smooth and well. |
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| Author: | R.C [ Sun Nov 22, 2015 8:21 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Never compliment a woman? |
Is this a serious question? Seriously? |
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| Author: | hugge [ Tue Nov 24, 2015 7:40 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Never compliment a woman? |
Here is the thing. A woman doesn't hear your words as much as your intent (subcommunication), and PUAs tend to be a rather needy species. To avoid looking needy people tend to get the advice to not compliment girls. However, if you compliment a girl as a *spontaneous reaction*, your intent is purely honest and most often received well. You want to avoid being highly invested, where you take a long time to build up the courage to approach and compliment her, hoping that she will like you. |
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| Author: | Eddie Fews [ Tue Nov 24, 2015 1:26 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Never compliment a woman? |
If you're the shit, you're the shit. A compliment isn't going to change that. Now if you're still faking it until you make it you won't have a frame strong enough to deal with an elevated woman and so keeping her down/or where she is would be the only way for you to maintain. |
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| Author: | oceanx [ Wed Nov 25, 2015 7:29 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Never compliment a woman? |
Quote: Here is the thing. A woman doesn't hear your words as much as your intent (subcommunication), and PUAs tend to be a rather needy species. To avoid looking needy people tend to get the advice to not compliment girls. However, if you compliment a girl as a *spontaneous reaction*, your intent is purely honest and most often received well. You want to avoid being highly invested, where you take a long time to build up the courage to approach and compliment her, hoping that she will like you.
Wow dude this is one of the best postings in the history of this forum, keep posting. Everything you said is 100% on point. The bolded part is 200% on point. An absolutely beautiful post.
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| Author: | Jay (Majik) [ Wed Nov 25, 2015 11:36 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Never compliment a woman? |
Just don't be needy. |
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