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| Author: | Moses C. [ Mon Nov 16, 2015 6:40 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Online game help |
I've been recently doing online game and the information on this forum (and other pua guides) have really open my eyes to how to really game online. But the problem i'm running into now is building rapport/connection with the girls because when i try to do it they stop talking to me almost like it's a turn off to them... When i first started (before i read any pua materials) i would TRY to engage in regular convo with girls but they would eventually stop responding and stop talking to me. After i read the pua guides, i learned 1) I wasn't being witty and creative with my messages & conversations 2) I was being to beta and showing AFC traits, ultimately i wasn't DHVing. 3) Not passing their shit tests. So now i been try to talk more witty and DHV (to show i'm the shit) but i notice this also causes them to stop responding to me. |
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| Author: | Style981 [ Mon Nov 16, 2015 10:40 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Online game help |
I faced the same problem a while ago. Thing with text is all people sound almost the same. There's no body language and tonality involved and its pretty easy for girls to misunderstand your tone on text. So imagine a real ALPHA guy who is confident in real life and an AFC who can't even make strong eye contact - both sending the same cocky openers, using the same smileys (almost same tonality), is there any way you can differentiate between the two? I guess not much. At the end of the day, text game is all numbers game and a bit of luck. I tried a lot of copy paste canned openers and they didn't give any response, while once I just half heartedly sent a boring text about her "About Me" description and the conversation went pretty well to my surprise. So i guess stick to what you are doing. There can be other factors though like your pics and your profile etc but as for conversations, that's pretty much numbers I guess. |
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| Author: | Dragula [ Tue Nov 17, 2015 12:06 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Online game help |
Quote: I've been recently doing online game and the information on this forum (and other pua guides) have really open my eyes to how to really game online. But the problem i'm running into now is building rapport/connection with the girls because when i try to do it they stop talking to me almost like it's a turn off to them...
When i first started (before i read any pua materials) i would TRY to engage in regular convo with girls but they would eventually stop responding and stop talking to me. After i read the pua guides, i learned 1) I wasn't being witty and creative with my messages & conversations 2) I was being to beta and showing AFC traits, ultimately i wasn't DHVing. 3) Not passing their shit tests. So now i been try to talk more witty and DHV (to show i'm the shit) but i notice this also causes them to stop responding to me. Post up convos then? Let's pin point where you're going wrong. Girls stopping talking to you during 'rapport' usually means they are bored with he bland convo. Often people mistake ' what are you up to?' rapport and totally not getting that it's a vibe, like a back and forth synergised dance. Anyway... I get the feeling that you don't do any 'offline dating' and you're just bypassing the tough trenches. Are you cold approaching girls on a regular basis????????? |
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| Author: | R.C [ Tue Nov 17, 2015 11:35 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Online game help |
Sigh... 2015 and people are still running DHV routines. |
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| Author: | Eddie Fews [ Tue Nov 17, 2015 5:30 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Online game help |
The don't stop responding to what you're saying, they stop responding to HOW you're saying it. And you're "how" it always based on your mind frame and attitude. And based off of your tone on the forum I can already tell that you are consistently seeking validation. You have NOT become enough for YOU yet. And until you become enough for you, you are not going to be enough for anyone else. Everyone has there own problems so no one wants to carry any additional weight that they don't have to. People(especially) women are looking for someone to lessen the load a bit. At least mentally. If you can take her mind away from her problems with your personality she's pleased. And will do pretty much anything to keep you around. You don't like you yet man. You're thinking about your skin color, what women are going to say, and how to appeal to them instead of learning to accept you fully. When thats done you won't have any more problems. You're still waiting to become you. But like Jay-Z said.. " You have to go through pain in order to become you, but once the world numbs you, you'll realize theres only one you". Pain accompanied with the right attitude equals gain. Throw yourself in the fire more, take more risk, and let life toughen you up a bit and you'll be straight. |
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| Author: | DW-Heart-Charmer [ Wed Nov 18, 2015 3:35 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Online game help |
Quote: So now i been try to talk more witty and DHV (to show i'm the shit) but i notice this also causes them to stop responding to me. It helps if you post convos and where they stop responding, but this is the inner game issue here^^^.'Showing someone you are the shit' has the opposite effect. You presuppose that you have to do something to win the girl when really you have to be someone who gets the girl. The doing is an expression of who you are. As such, currently your frame is that I have to do stuff to show her I am worthy, from that place your communication and your expression of yourself is tragically destined for losing the girl every time. |
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| Author: | R.C [ Wed Nov 18, 2015 8:25 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Online game help |
Or he can stop trying so hard to impress. That always works. |
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