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Author:  Cockydevil [ Fri Nov 13, 2015 11:41 pm ]
Post subject:  how to manage this cockblock situation
So, I was texting this HB9, we're talking for 4 hours now, and I get a message from a friend of mine saying

HB9 is mine. hands off. i'm serious. she's my piece. for a month now.

Anyway, he bullshitted me and I caught him a bit, but I know for sure that she told him that she was speaking to me. Imo it's kinda stupid that she did this, so I want to tell her something but I really don't know what. And when?! I'mma set up a date regardless of my friend's warnings, 0 fucks given, but it bugged me that she told him that she's speaking to me. Or maybe it's a good sign?! Like "Bruh, I'm talking to your friend. Yeah, he's way smoother then you little piece of shit"

Help a brother in need.
Author:  Arch Stanton [ Sat Nov 14, 2015 12:34 am ]
Post subject:  Re: how to manage this cockblock situation
Quote:
So, I was texting this HB9, we're talking for 4 hours now, and I get a message from a friend of mine saying

HB9 is mine. hands off. i'm serious. she's my piece. for a month now.

I'm friends with a bouncer in this town who's my only real competition. We have a "list" that helps maintain our friendship. Girls we really like go on the list, especially if there's a history. The list is always respected, and it's fairly short.

If my friend acted like yours did, I'd tell him to go fuck himself and find a new friend.

I'd also stop talking to any guy who said "she's my piece". Sounds like an absolute buffoon with a third grade education.
Author:  Eddie Fews [ Sat Nov 14, 2015 5:28 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: how to manage this cockblock situation
Address and it gives the appearance that its bothered you. Which it clearly has.


If you do want to address something, address your friend. Send him a selfie of you two together and leave it at that.
Author:  Cockydevil [ Sun Nov 15, 2015 3:02 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: how to manage this cockblock situation
Things got even funnier. He, who supposedly is one of my best friends, called me 10 minutes ago and told me EXACTLY what I spoke with the HB9 last night (I asked her out, and on the phone, he invited me out exactly in the way I told her to go out with me).

And then he tried to semi-threaten me, things like "I like her. She likes me. Stop talking to her. Stop hitting on her. Are you idiot, why are you talking to her when I asked you NOT TO ", I told him "Dude, if she likes you, and you like her, what harm can I cause to your thing if I speak to her?".

I really don't know what to say about the 2 of them. I think he's afraid that I can "steal" her from him, but HB9? Why the f*ck is she telling him what we speak? Should I stop talking to her? Should I tell her in the most cockyfunny way not to be a bitch and tell him the things what we speak? Should I continue talking to her, pretending like nothing happened, and continuing to receive these kind of "threats"?
Author:  neo87 [ Sun Nov 15, 2015 3:07 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: how to manage this cockblock situation
are you going on a date w her?
Author:  Cockydevil [ Sun Nov 15, 2015 3:26 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: how to manage this cockblock situation
Nope, I told her something like "What are you doing tomorrow?" She said "Nothing much, probably I'll study", I told her that "Tomorrow I should have went with a buddy of mine to clothing shopping but he flaked last minute, wanna come with me?". She said no, I said ok, but then we carried on talking (probably I should have built some more rapport, was going to do this and ask her out again, if "No" again, fuck her).

But now I don't even know what to do. I was thinking of telling him something like "Dude. If she likes you as you say she does, no matter what I do she'll not go out on a date with me. If you think I can make her change her mind, then probably she doesn't like you as you think she does" or something like that.

I also don't know how to handle the situation with her, as in, do I tell her that I found out that she's telling him things she speaks with me or not.

F*ck them.
Author:  neo87 [ Sun Nov 15, 2015 5:25 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: how to manage this cockblock situation
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Nope, I told her something like "What are you doing tomorrow?" She said "Nothing much, probably I'll study", I told her that "Tomorrow I should have went with a buddy of mine to clothing shopping but he flaked last minute, wanna come with me?". She said no, I said ok, but then we carried on talking (probably I should have built some more rapport, was going to do this and ask her out again, if "No" again, fuck her).

But now I don't even know what to do. I was thinking of telling him something like "Dude. If she likes you as you say she does, no matter what I do she'll not go out on a date with me. If you think I can make her change her mind, then probably she doesn't like you as you think she does" or something like that.

I also don't know how to handle the situation with her, as in, do I tell her that I found out that she's telling him things she speaks with me or not.

F*ck them.

Strike one was her telling your friend abt you
Strike two was her telling him details about your convo
Strike three was her saying no to meeting up

She's playing games man. Cut. If she can't be discreet, most likely she's not trying to get with you and just likes the attention.
Author:  R.C [ Mon Nov 16, 2015 9:14 am ]
Post subject:  Re: how to manage this cockblock situation
Man what the fuck kind of friends do you guys have?
Author:  Eddie Fews [ Mon Nov 16, 2015 11:16 am ]
Post subject:  Re: how to manage this cockblock situation
Yeah man.

At first there was a possibility that she briefly mentioned you in casual conversation, but this one is clearly playing you for a fool. She's probably even telling your "friend" to do that. Lay it to rest man, and invest your time with someone more likely to yield a return.
Author:  Cockydevil [ Mon Nov 16, 2015 5:42 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: how to manage this cockblock situation
Yep gonna do guys. Thanks for leaving some opinions.
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