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Author:  SargeL [ Wed Nov 11, 2015 1:46 am ]
Post subject:  How do you folks deal with girls with long response times?
Seems like lately i have been getting numbers of girls that take absolutely forever to respond. The girls showed interest when i first met them. I understand girls are busy but this seems ridiculous, how do you other fellows deal with this
Author:  JackZero [ Wed Nov 11, 2015 2:08 am ]
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By not worrying about things not in our control. If a girl doesn't respond soon, no big deal. You didn't really know her either way. There's another girl waiting to meet you.
Author:  SargeL [ Wed Nov 11, 2015 2:12 am ]
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By not worrying about things not in our control. If a girl doesn't respond soon, no big deal. You didn't really know her either way. There's another girl waiting to meet you.
ya if no response i will wait a day then try again two strikes she is gone. Plus still have a date coming up with another
Author:  CharlesFinley [ Wed Nov 11, 2015 2:15 am ]
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Seriously - you deal with it by having a full rotation on the go. You're texting one girl and waiting for replies? Text 10 - make them wait for yours.

You'd be surprised how little you care when one of them takes a few hours to get back to you when you can just move onto the other 9.
Author:  DJ_Z [ Wed Nov 11, 2015 2:16 am ]
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I go to the gym or play video games and not sit by the phone waiting for her answer...
Author:  R.C [ Wed Nov 11, 2015 9:11 am ]
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Nothing. You do nothing.
Author:  GenesisPUA [ Wed Nov 11, 2015 3:11 pm ]
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I agree with all the above responses. Also never be tempted to call a girl out on this kind of behavior, you'll only seem needy if you do so.
Author:  neo87 [ Wed Nov 11, 2015 3:19 pm ]
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Just ask them out if youd like to go out with them.
Author:  ChocolatePUA [ Thu Nov 12, 2015 7:02 pm ]
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Seems like lately i have been getting numbers of girls that take absolutely forever to respond. The girls showed interest when i first met them. I understand girls are busy but this seems ridiculous, how do you other fellows deal with this
Personally it's best to use text SPARINGLY. Use text to set up the next meeting until you're convinced she's really into you. Too much texting risks "overloading" her and showing TOO much interest. Let HER be the one to initiate texts and want to hear from you more often. Resist the urge to RELY on text to get her hot and bothered or anticipating - you can do it once or twice but after that let the wait for you be the biggest motivation.
Author:  adaptordie [ Thu Nov 12, 2015 7:24 pm ]
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I agree with all the above responses. Also never be tempted to call a girl out on this kind of behavior, you'll only seem needy if you do so.
is there a way to reframe this concept so that it doesn't sound needy?

for example AFC reply would be to "You take hella long to respond, i dont like that, blah blah" clingy, needy, bad…

lets say you freeze her out for example 2, and then 2-3 days she hits you back.
would "Didn't hear back from you so you dont get any more of my attention lol"…would that work as a qualifier because now SHE messed up for not texting, now she doesn't get rewarded with your attention.

please tell me if this is wrong.
Author:  adaptordie [ Thu Nov 12, 2015 7:27 pm ]
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Seems like lately i have been getting numbers of girls that take absolutely forever to respond. The girls showed interest when i first met them. I understand girls are busy but this seems ridiculous, how do you other fellows deal with this
you can always try to get their IG or snap chat, texting itself is pretty boring and just feels weirder. girls are super into snap chat these days and its MUCH easier to get their attention without a direct text. I've been able to revive a few dead texters by then posting some DHV videos to my story, did this recently and one responded with her own video saying "I gotta come up and see you!" this girl was straight dead via text so i was actually surprised.
Author:  Jay (Majik) [ Fri Nov 13, 2015 12:36 pm ]
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could mean they don't like you very much.... just saying.

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Author:  Eddie Fews [ Fri Nov 13, 2015 8:22 pm ]
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This: pua-lounge/topic190620.html

I don't.
Author:  adaptordie [ Fri Nov 13, 2015 8:56 pm ]
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^great read eddie, my favorite line
"So what men have to do is to begin walking away from women that don’t live up to our standards. Not only is this going to make women build themselves up more, but it's going to cause you to project a frame that says “ I HAVE STANDARDS. And I WILL NOT DEAL WITH ANY WOMAN WHO DOESN’T LIVE UP TO THEM”. And thats the most attractive thing a man can do."
Author:  eltoro31 [ Fri Nov 13, 2015 11:28 pm ]
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No worries about them not texting just be careful not to overload them with text messages. When they block you from their phones is worse than them not responding.
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