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Author:  vissanik [ Tue Nov 10, 2015 5:04 am ]
Post subject:  Is this a solid followup plan to date 1?

Got a 20 year old college girl's number on campus (I'm 26 and was just there for daygame) from a direct street stop last friday. Went on a quick 1.5 hour lunch date saturday. Things went reasonably well, ended with a kiss on the lips (alas no french kissing), but wasn't my best date or the worst. It was a little too comfort based, didn't have as much time as I would have liked to move more into seduction/drop more sexual spikes.

Haven't tried to make contact with her since. My plan is to send a ping text on Wednesday, something playful along the lines of "I was just doing something really exicting, when I thought of you" and when she asks what, say "laundry." (credit for that line goes to Roosh). Then transition conversation to meet her for an adventure date next weekend, hopefully for a date 2 lay or at least french kissing in prep for a date 3 lay.

This girl immediately gave me a shit test over text after I first texted her, loves banter, has high self esteem and comes from a solid family background, not to mention being 6 years younger than me and hot in the middle of the college sausage fest. In other words, I'm going to need tight game for this to succeed. Any input from the gallery regarding my plan?

Author:  neo87 [ Tue Nov 10, 2015 5:17 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Is this a solid followup plan to date 1?

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Got a 20 year old college girl's number on campus (I'm 26 and was just there for daygame) from a direct street stop last friday. Went on a quick 1.5 hour lunch date saturday. Things went reasonably well, ended with a kiss on the lips (alas no french kissing), but wasn't my best date or the worst. It was a little too comfort based, didn't have as much time as I would have liked to move more into seduction/drop more sexual spikes.

Haven't tried to make contact with her since. My plan is to send a ping text on Wednesday, something playful along the lines of "I was just doing something really exicting, when I thought of you" and when she asks what, say "laundry." (credit for that line goes to Roosh). Then transition conversation to meet her for an adventure date next weekend, hopefully for a date 2 lay or at least french kissing in prep for a date 3 lay.

This girl immediately gave me a shit test over text after I first texted her, loves banter, has high self esteem and comes from a solid family background, not to mention being 6 years younger than me and hot in the middle of the college sausage fest. In other words, I'm going to need tight game for this to succeed. Any input from the gallery regarding my plan?
If you're going to text her, text her before wednesday. That's waiting 5 days to text a chick from a 1.5 hr lunch...If it were me, I'd set the date up asap if shooting for the weekend. Another point I'd make is to take the chick of this pedestal you have. You're the prize. You're the older experienced guy who she has to impress or she goes back to bad drunk sex from immature college guys in some musty dorm room. That should be your mentality.

Author:  vissanik [ Thu Nov 12, 2015 3:47 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Is this a solid followup plan to date 1?

UPDATE: Took the advice of the above poster and contacted her on tuesday to set up a date for this weekend. She enthusiastically replied to my suggestion we go ice skating but said she had a friend coming into town this weekend and asked if we could take a rain check. She also asked what days I'm available besides weekends. I raised the possibility of meeting her tomorrow afternoon when we're both free, otherwise I'll have to wait until next weekend, possibly risking my attraction momentum.

However, she didn't respond to my suggestion that we could meet thursday due to it being late at night and me falling asleep. We started with a new text thread the next day.

I want to meet her thursday if possible to maintain that momentum but I also don't want to come off as needy. I'm tempted to just wait until early/middle of next week, re-engage, and push hard for the date next weekend rather than risk bringing up the possibility of thursday again and taking a big hit to my value if she has to overtly decline the offer.

I could also use the time this will free up to continue building my pipeline via daygame around the university area.

Am I off base here in my thinking?

Author:  Eddie Fews [ Sat Nov 14, 2015 5:30 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Is this a solid followup plan to date 1?

Just chill. You're on the right track. Chill out and ask her again during a high moment.

Give this a read while you're at it: pua-lounge/topic190620.html

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