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Author:  .spk [ Fri Oct 23, 2015 7:37 am ]
Post subject:  Friendzone - constant 'not gonna meet'
I hope it's right place for this topic.
Well, I know most of you guys would quick such relations but I will try anyway.;) It's just... feelings you know. I can't control this crap.

I know this girl for year and a half. We talk everyday, we had... hmm... naughty moment (via phone of course). Apparently she put me in the damn friendzone and doesn't see me atractive in any way, even for sex. She seems to like to follow a guy met on badoo in damn London (we are from Poland) than meet with me although it's closer and I know her longer. Important thing I think - she knows I like her.

I wonder if there is any chance to fix things. Because right now I really really want to tell her everything, release my every feeling (including negative ones) and destroy whole friendship.

Can you help me? If you have additional question, feel free to ask. I will try my best to give you any information you need.
Author:  R.C [ Fri Oct 23, 2015 7:43 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Friendzone - constant 'not gonna meet'
Sorry dude, won't happen.
Author:  .spk [ Fri Oct 23, 2015 8:04 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Friendzone - constant 'not gonna meet'
So, there is no chance to fix it, everything I could try is gonna fail, isn't it?
Author:  Dragula [ Fri Oct 23, 2015 8:06 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Friendzone - constant 'not gonna meet'
Tell her how you feel. This ain't a friendship, so you have nothing to lose. Doesn't look good though so I wouldn't change your Facebook relationship status just yet.
Author:  R.C [ Fri Oct 23, 2015 8:43 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Friendzone - constant 'not gonna meet'
Quote:
So, there is no chance to fix it, everything I could try is gonna fail, isn't it?
You can't "fix" something you never had. You're in love with someone that doesn't have any feelings towards you.
Author:  .spk [ Fri Oct 23, 2015 8:59 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Friendzone - constant 'not gonna meet'
Just wrote her: 'sorry, I won't contact you for some time'. Maybe it will work best for me. In any way.

Most possible is unloving her. Less possible she will notice me. Right?
Author:  Dragula [ Fri Oct 23, 2015 10:19 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Friendzone - constant 'not gonna meet'
Quote:
Just wrote her: 'sorry, I won't contact you for some time'. Maybe it will work best for me. In any way.

Most possible is unloving her. Less possible she will notice me. Right?

Let it go bro. If she messages you that she wants to date you then great. But it's out of your hands. Being friend is going to make your chances less likely to marry her

Don't build up hope. Meet more girls
Author:  .spk [ Fri Oct 23, 2015 10:49 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Friendzone - constant 'not gonna meet'
Well, her reply is something I didn't expect.;) In short, she is angry and call me egoistic hipocrite. I totally didn't expect something like that. :shock:

I thought she would write 'ok' or nothing at all.
Author:  Dragula [ Fri Oct 23, 2015 11:01 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Friendzone - constant 'not gonna meet'
Quote:
Well, her reply is something I didn't expect.;) In short, she is angry and call me egoistic hipocrite. I totally didn't expect something like that. :shock:

I thought she would write 'ok' or nothing at all.

To be Honest. Your message to her conveys that you're butt hurt and needy. If it was me. Actions speak louder than words and just stop hanging out and continue to do my thing and be happy with my life irrelevant of her contribution to it

It's amazing how friendzone girls wanna hook up with you when you don't care about them and chase other girls, travel and do your thing. Facebook can be good like that.
Author:  R.C [ Fri Oct 23, 2015 11:22 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Friendzone - constant 'not gonna meet'
Welcome to the Matrix.
Author:  .spk [ Fri Oct 23, 2015 12:20 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Friendzone - constant 'not gonna meet'
Thank you guys. I just have to go my way. Still have some hopes.
Author:  CopernicanShift [ Sat Oct 24, 2015 10:57 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Friendzone - constant 'not gonna meet'
Tell her you're not interested in being friends with her, that you have romantic feelings for her, always have and have never seen her as a friend.

You're willing to hang out, have fun and see where it goes without any pressure but you're not going to wait around forever as her pal.

If she's not willing then say "alright, let me know if you change your mind, I'd love to see you." End of story.


It was wrong for you to speak to her every day if you wanted her to be romantically interested in you,
the phone is for setting dates, you exhausted her interest by making yourself too available and fell into being a friend
the phone is for setting dates, I can't stress that enough
don't speak to a girl every day if you want her to stay into you, give her time for her feelings to grow

I am sorry for the pain!
Author:  .spk [ Sun Oct 25, 2015 10:16 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Friendzone - constant 'not gonna meet'
Thank you for all advices. I used the last one. Her reaction was kind of unexpected by me, actually (along with other things I thought would happen but gone completely opposite - I couldn't be a prophet...). Agressivensess, emotional manipulation etc. Thanks to my close friend I didn't fell for that. So, I'm quite sure this relationship has ended today and I don't think she will write me ever again.


Again, thanks for help guys, you are great.:)
Author:  twoontarmac [ Tue Oct 27, 2015 1:17 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Friendzone - constant 'not gonna meet'
Haha, been there and done that. Polarize dude! I did and even though I didn't get her, it felt so damn good because I got rejected and put things into perspective. It will give you the power frame and cut the BS. You really have nothing to loose. One thing that's important for you internally is to 'Stop giving a f$ck).
Author:  neo87 [ Tue Oct 27, 2015 1:51 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Friendzone - constant 'not gonna meet'
What do these friendzone threads resolve? Do they fix anything? Look, if you were that desperate to fall in love with this girl you never met, kicking her out is not gonna change this. Odds are, you'll find another girl like this again. Or, if you're "lucky" get a gf. But if you're in love with a stranger like this, you're just gonna be a needy overly emotionl bf. So fix the real problem. Put in the work and improve your love life/options.
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