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| Author: | matador of fun [ Thu Oct 22, 2015 4:05 am ] |
| Post subject: | help me close this HB10 |
met this girl online.we did banter for a while and she seemed to be laughing at all my jokes.in the end i asked for her number she ignored my message.i re-initiated 2 weeks later just said hi and she immediately dropped her number.perfect face very tall best ass i have ever seen on a woman.she agreed to a date but we live far from each other so it is probably be around lunch.i want to take her to a restaurant near my place and then try to bounce her but i am afraid it is going to put her anti slut defence on alert.i mean my place is shitty i can't think of an excuse to bring her over.i am thinking maybe i should instead buy ice cream and tell her we are going to eat it at my place i think is a better excuse.it is going to be my first date with her,it will be around lunch hour and i want to f close her on the first date.any ideas and suggestions?i want a foolproof plan to close her. |
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| Author: | Dumbtoad [ Thu Oct 22, 2015 5:00 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: help me close this HB10 |
if you go to get an ice cream with her and then, tell her to eat lunch at your place, she'll try to avoid that, a girl tend to refuse to go to someone's place that she just met, what i'd do is pick her up and go to a park or something like that, then the restaurant, then go for an ice cream as dessert, the point here is to bounce from place to place, why? because when she thinks of you, she'll think of all of those places you were with her, so that will create in her mind that she knows you for a long time because all of those experiences you have together, and after the ice cream you could suggest to go to your place to grab a cup of coffee, she'll be likely to say yes by then. |
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| Author: | JackZero [ Thu Oct 22, 2015 5:33 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: help me close this HB10 |
Why is it going to be an afternoon date? Don't settle for something you don't want, even if she is an HB10. Tell her to come out for the evening. Tell her that you want to take her to a restaurant and then hang out together afterwards. If she asks where you guys will hang out, just tell her that you'll find something fun to do. The point is that you want to take control from the beginning so that she'll follow your lead. Don't lose your backbone because this girl looks good. There's a reason she's single and is possibly because she normally can run over most men she encounters. |
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| Author: | matador of fun [ Thu Oct 22, 2015 9:20 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: help me close this HB10 |
Quick update:she reminded me about the date we are suppossed to have(a good sign) but declined to come to the venue near my house says she is kinda uncomfortable there.i am thinking at meeting her wherever she is comfortable and then try and bounce her from there since it is our first date and she seems eager.what do you suggest fellow PUAs? |
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| Author: | DW-Heart-Charmer [ Fri Oct 23, 2015 3:10 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: help me close this HB10 |
Quote: Why is it going to be an afternoon date? Don't settle for something you don't want, even if she is an HB10. Tell her to come out for the evening. This is actually really good advise.
Quote: Quick update:she reminded me about the date we are suppossed to have(a good sign) but declined to come to the venue near my house says she is kinda uncomfortable there. Does she know where you live? What is important is why she is uncomfortable. Is it because you live in a sketch neighborhood or because you made it obvious you are going for sex? What I usually do is just give her an address and tell her to meet me there. An example of yesterday:Her: What part of town do you live? Me: Lets do here: Name of Place 897 Main St. 8090210 Her: What time? |
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| Author: | matador of fun [ Sun Oct 25, 2015 9:23 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: help me close this HB10 |
Update:had a date not sure what to make of it.met the chick and first thing she says is am young for her.anyway we go to some place but she seemed boring in person.after the date i suggest we go back to my place.she said she doesn't have much time and she wants to visit a sick friend and she says i can go with her.i didn't i wasn't sure whether the date went great or not so i didn't contact her after the date.she is a straight 10 and she seems she is used to having her way with men and i want to go radio silent on her to fester doubt in her mind.i feel that is my only chance.what are your thoughts? |
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| Author: | masterm1ne [ Mon Oct 26, 2015 8:21 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: help me close this HB10 |
Quote: i want a foolproof plan to close her.
Quote: anyway we go to some place but she seemed boring in person.
My God dude you reek of newb.1). There is no foolproof plan. 2). You will find the more women you come across, many PEOPLE (not just women) are boring in person. Esp young and hot ones. I actually have a theory as to why this is; they think and they are used to people just handing them things because of the way they look = they don't really have to do much thinking or develop themselves into 'interesting' people. |
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| Author: | Dragula [ Mon Oct 26, 2015 9:05 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: help me close this HB10 |
Off topic but when people use the acronym ' HB10 ' means you've lost before you've started. A 10 is Oneitus, it means she is unobtainable for you. Your mindset has already lost, there is no entitlement to that dynamic. |
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| Author: | JackZero [ Mon Oct 26, 2015 12:43 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: help me close this HB10 |
Quote: Off topic but when people use the acronym ' HB10 ' means you've lost before you've started. A 10 is Oneitus, it means she is unobtainable for you. Your mindset has already lost, there is no entitlement to that dynamic. Doesn't seem off topic to me.
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| Author: | R.C [ Mon Oct 26, 2015 12:53 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: help me close this HB10 |
Quote: Off topic but when people use the acronym ' HB10 ' means you've lost before you've started. A 10 is Oneitus, it means she is unobtainable for you. Your mindset has already lost, there is no entitlement to that dynamic.
English Muffin's right.
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| Author: | Dumbtoad [ Mon Oct 26, 2015 10:08 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: help me close this HB10 |
Quote: Off topic but when people use the acronym ' HB10 ' means you've lost before you've started. A 10 is Oneitus, it means she is unobtainable for you. Your mindset has already lost, there is no entitlement to that dynamic.
I totally agree, i'm not complaining but i think that scale is useless, it only put you on a wrong mindset, i mean, if you like the girl, that's enough, you don't have to classify them as HB nothing, if you put too much value on her, you've already lost.
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| Author: | Dragula [ Mon Oct 26, 2015 10:29 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: help me close this HB10 |
Yeah i have a 'would bang' or 'not bang' rating system. I don't change my game style. They are just girls that poo and pick their nose's like us |
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| Author: | anon90210 [ Mon Oct 26, 2015 11:13 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: help me close this HB10 |
amen, if you want to bang a girl you have never met your goal on the first date is to make her comfortable and attracted enough towards you that she wants to bang it out. She knows what you are implying when you are asking her to come to your place when you don't know each other. She has been in that position many times, and as an attractive female she doesn't need to jump at the first opportunity to have sex, and likely wants to filter out guys that aren't good for her. So, for next time, DO WHAT OTHER GUYS AREN'T DOING, so don't invite her to your place off the get-go, take her out and try to legitimately have fun, take her to see some nice scenery or something, and aim more for a make-out. When you don't ask her to come back to your place right away she will think you are not super desperate to get ass which will make her want to bang you out. Then next time you hang out with her, it could be helpful to approach it like this. "hey i had a good time would you want to come over and we could head out to _____ they have good specials tonight" or something like that. Then try to bang her. Fishing analogy: when you are fishing you don't want to start reeling in like crazy as soon as you feel a nibble. You want to wait briefly, and try to sink the hook in there, and then reel at a reasonable pace as to not let the fish get off the hook. Hope this is helpful - ya boi |
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