Her: She casually brings up through text that I missed out on Red Lobster biscuits out of the blue.

Me: "lol, well maybe next time I'll join, who'd you go with?" (thinking that she went with her mom or something)

Her: "Lol A date from match"

Her: "I didn't think that would be weird to tell you but maybe it was?"

Me: "No, I don't mind"

Her: "I didn't think so. But you didn't respond so then I kind of felt like maybe that was weird but then again I am weird "

Me: "Yea a little bit "

Her: "Whatever, so are you, I'll see you tomorrow for poker, better work on your poker face"

6:45 I text and say, "still coming at 7?"

8:00 she says "OMG I fell asleep, so sorry"

I don't reply... a couple weeks later I ask her what shes up to and if she would like to come play poker, she says:

Her: "Yes, I thought you were mad"...

Me: "I reply that I'm not angry, would you like to come over now",

Her: She claims she has to get up early, and won't commit to a later date

Scanned your other posts. Get shit test out of your mind forever, because these and those were not shit tests. Don't ask a girl who is not your gf who she went X place with. Just asking to make things awkward. Someone else can give you more specifics

Edit: I only asked because she brought it up casually and I thought she just went with friends or family or something. If somebody just randomly tells you that they "went out" and you missed out on it, it's just a natural knee jerk reaction to ask whom they went with. I never ask a girl who she goes on dates with etc.

I edited the original post so as to make that more clear and avoid mis-understanding.

No need to edit anything. It's a question that adds nothing. Do you know her mom or friend? If she had said her mom, what would your response be from that? What I'm saying is when you're just dating a girl, she may be going on dates with other people. So don't go into specifics and ask questions if she said she was out or did something. If she says she went to dinner last night, dont ask her with who. It's an innocent question and I'm not even thinking you expected to hear it was date, but its question that will lead to awkwardness. So never ask who they went to x place with. IF it does come up, don't not respond, joke and move on to something else.

No. Not a shit test. If you didnt ask with who, it would have gotten weird. If you had joked it off and moved on it wouldnt have gotten weird.

Well I didn't respond... So you are saying that I should have specifically responded to her message about it being "a date from Match", to correct my mistake of asking whom she went with, by joking it off?

And why would she have mentioned her going out on another date in the first place? That's an incredibly socially awkward thing to do, to go up to date1 and tell them that they missed out on going out on date2. So she's just that awkward and weird and there was no hidden motive behind it whatsoever?

I'm just trying to understand

Thanks.

Yes, you shouldve continued the conversation and not disappeared on an awkward note. It would just make you look like it bothered you.

Also, she didn't say "you missed out on a great date I just had!" She said you missed out on some biscuits. And tbh Red lobster's biscuits are pretty good. Look at it this way, if I'm your friend (as a guy) and I go on a date to a comedy club, the comedy is good but the date is shit. I text you, hey you missed out on some great comedians...am I telling you the date was good? I'm not telling you the date was awesome, I'm telling you the comedy was good. That's all.

At the end of the day, even though she went on a date, she was still talking to you and bringing up stuff to joke about. So it couldnt have been this great date to make you jealous of. Frankly, she could have wanted to bring it up to make you jealous (not as a shit test but to see if you cared about her), she could have just been trying to bring up a joke about the biscuits to talk to you, she could have been just saying shit.

Frankly, she could have wanted to bring it up to make you jealous (not as a shit test but to see if you cared about her), she could have just been trying to bring up a joke about the biscuits to talk to you, she could have been just saying shit.

This isn't a shit test. You are a friend. She wouldn't have said a date from match if you were more than a friend, she would say, "Just a friend." This is all confirmed with your other example where she doesn't give a damn about you falls asleep and won't commit to another date.
Normal girls without a lot of problems don't do this.

Then your friend would be a socially awkward guy

This wasn't a shit-test, lol.