We had a new girl at work tonight. Cleaning the kitchen at night is always hard work. She says to us, she has seen bigger messes at another restaurant. We are all facetiously impressed by her saltiness. I make her clean the dough press, full of nasty gooey concoctions of oil, dough, butter and salt. Suddenly she feels like quitting.

It's not the first lie she tries to live. She tries to say a few more and I keep shutting her down. She hates me, but I don't care. I need good workers, not good talkers. Unfortunately, this problem is not limited to her, or to people at work.


Its usually all pretty women. The hotter they are, the more lies they live. I have talked to some 4s and 5s and stuff just to test things, and those women don't lie about things as much but they still do it.


I wouldnt have a problem with it, except women expect me to pay for things and spend time and energy supporting their lies. Fuck that. That's how I get used. Any time a woman tells a lie and expects me to actually support it I avoid, decline or shut it down.

It is kinda a game killer. I wish chicks wouldnt lie and expect money n shit so much. But see, there is a conundrum here. Supporting a woman's lies might get me laid, but it might get me used just as likely. It takes resources I could have used getting laid with another woman who would actually put out. I cant determine it the risk is generally worth it.

I wish chicks wouldnt lie and expect money n shit so much.

Most of your posts are written from a negative place. Even though I don't know you, it makes me think that you are a naturally negative person and are automatically hostile towards attractive women. This would probably explain why your interactions are negative. You are quite possibly driving the types of women that you want to be with away before you can have a real conversation. At some point you need to break that cycle of hostility by postponing your judgement of attractive women.

I wish chicks wouldnt lie and expect money n shit so much.

I wish chicks wouldnt lie and expect money n shit so much.

but what do you do when a woman is trying to put herself on a pedestal, trying to get you to think shes a big deal so that she can use you?

but what do you do when a woman is trying to put herself on a pedestal, trying to get you to think shes a big deal so that she can use you?

Ok first off, I dont think I explained the context right, kinda cut it short. What she was implying, and supporting the concept of later, was that the work here was easy for her, when clearly it was not. She kept trying to say things about how she was such a good hard worker, and when I put her to the test, she never came through.

I don't know what chicks yall have been talking to but most of the ones I have been usually both expect me to pay their way and support things about them that are not true. Things that get me used. There's no way none of you havent noticed this. If it has not happened to you so often, fine, but what do you do when a woman is trying to put herself on a pedestal, trying to get you to think shes a big deal so that she can use you?

Hmm, well I am getting some kind of decent responses at least.

The theme of "just move on" is somewhat applicable, but not good pickup. Even if these girls suck, I still might wanna bang them. This is a pickup forum, why are you guys trying to give me relationship and mental health advice? I am not looking for that kind of advice, I wanna know how to bang a chick without spending money on her.

Otherwise, I don't know if you guys are living near awesome women or just ignoring when they're crazy or what, but I am far from the only guy who recognizing how difficult and crazy and gold diggering women can be. From my young friends to my middle aged friends getting divorced to my older friends, there is no lack of recognition of the troubles women are bringing, besides the fact that if women were more dependent, initiative and simple there would be no reason to have this forum. I am starting to think the real case here is yall are trying to convince me the problem is with me only, so I can feel insecure and buy whatever you're trying to sell me.

But anyways, the only real help I have ever seem to have got from anyone here was from Dragula, and that shit was on point. Dunno where he's at but I have no reason to believe anything else yall are saying when you've never told me anything helpful (cept maybe the ditch the golddigger advice) and you're denying the reality experienced by me, plenty of guys in my real life, and plenty of guys on here.

What I am getting from this, is that you guys generally ignore the problem and deal with women's bs till you get the lay. I guess that's what ima do.