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| Author: | vissanik [ Mon Sep 28, 2015 2:26 am ] |
| Post subject: | Player guilt and girls trying to lock you down |
Yesterday I got my first notch from daygame, after having started from ground zero about 6 months ago. I met the girl (HB7) in a mall 2 weeks ago, and turns out she is a stripper. She is a very sweet and affectionate girl who was afraid how I would react to that news. It doesn't bother me, but I know she wants a relationship, and the thing with daygame is that once you put all this effort into learning the core principles and cold approaching, it feels weird to lock yourself into a relationship knowing you can go out and replicate the success you just had with other hot women. I think 2 girls is all I have time to juggle, and I like having a "safety net" in case things go south with one girl. For this reason, I have another girl who I'm working toward the sex stage with that the stripper doesn't know about. But she is such a sweet girl, that I feel some guilt for doing it. Anyone else have issues like this and how do you reconcile it in your mind? |
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| Author: | R.C [ Mon Sep 28, 2015 8:02 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Player guilt and girls trying to lock you down |
Just be honest. Let her know you're seeing other girls and at the same time if things with her naturally converge to a relationship, that's great. Don't force things and don't lie. Women will comply to your lifestyle and accept it as long as you believe in it. In other words, if you believe it's perfectly normal for you to date multiple people until you find one that fits, so will she. |
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| Author: | Eddie Fews [ Mon Sep 28, 2015 8:34 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Player guilt and girls trying to lock you down |
You met two women and you're already feeling guilt? Women that you haven't even have sex with yet? My my my you're going to be in for a treat. Either way man.. When you're up front and honest there isn't any room to feel guilt. As it was already said, you'll be surprised at what a woman is willing to put up with when you're upfront and honest from the beginning. Most will stick around with hope that they can change you. And then they'll be left the leave or stay when they figure out whether they can deal or not. Honesty throws all your worries out the window. |
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