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| Author: | Zeru [ Sun Sep 27, 2015 8:46 am ] |
| Post subject: | Why does this always happen to me? |
I was happy to get a text from a dime i met a while back at school. We had never hung out before and she wanted to go to a concert with me. I said yea, and we met up at my dorm around 4:00. We talked for a bit and i did want to hook up with her, and normally i would of been a pussy and not done anything. This time was differant, i thought about the forums and the help i have gotten and because of this, i used what i learned from you guys and did a good amount of kino, then still with hesitation after 30 minutes of talking went for the kiss. (Given this is still new to me) To my surprise she was tottaly into it. We were in my bed after the next few minutes. The concert started at 5:00 though and we were in my bed around 4:40 so she didn't want to miss it. So she said, were coming back here after. We went to the concert all day, and had a good time. Then around 9:00 we got back to my room. We both sat down and started talking. ---> This is the part that tends to happen to me a lot. After conversations with girls i'm into, they some how start telling me about their life story from like the beginning. Mostly the sad parts too. After like 20 minutes of talking, i went for the kiss again, this time it was different though. She seemed a little shocked at first (<-This made me wonder if my kino was weak->) then she told me she wasn't in the mood. I'm getting kind of fed up with that happening but at the same time, i know i'm doing it to myself. So i guess my overall question is, how do you guys create a sexual vibe to get her in the mood, and stay away from life stories? |
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| Author: | DrewDating [ Sun Sep 27, 2015 9:46 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Why does this always happen to me? |
thats GREAT you can get her to reveal her deep dark secrets. but your doing it at the wrong time. if you master when you trigger that, earlier on in set you will be an amazing pua. not many people do that but it is a very powerful tool. just dont do it in the bedroom. do it on the way to your place, keep rewarding her with positive reinforcement ... and you reward her with kino! boom, you are about to be a GREAT pua dude. congrats 
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| Author: | R.C [ Mon Sep 28, 2015 9:19 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Why does this always happen to me? |
Quote: To my surprise she was tottaly into it.
She agreed to come to your dorm. She put herself in a position to be seduced by you, and you did. But yea, you'd be surprised to see how much you succeed when you actually go for it what you want. Quote: Then around 9:00 we got back to my room. We both sat down and started talking. --->
There's your mistake. You're purposely taking steps backwards. She didn't want to just talk and neither did you. Yet you led the interaction that way. Had you led it to a more sexual destination, that's where it would've went.Quote: Mostly the sad parts too.
Quote: then she told me she wasn't in the mood.
Yeah well, no wonder.Quote: how do you guys create a sexual vibe to get her in the mood, and stay away from life stories
Escalate and act on your desires.
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| Author: | Eddie Fews [ Mon Sep 28, 2015 8:16 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Why does this always happen to me? |
More touch and less talk. Life story rants have the tendency to turn me off so I personally stay away from them. Especially since 9 times out of 10 they aren't at all interesting. Not like the ones your boys will tell you. What was your build up right before going for the kiss? Next time, while she's ranting just stare at her and really get into the mindset of wanting to sleep with her. If you're trying to kiss her from the "i'm listening to this rant. Let me just go for the kiss so she can stop" frame of mind you won't have the energy behind you to make her open to your advancement. Look at her and really just start wanting to sleep with her. Its a confident mind frame thing. Tone and vibe will determine how responsive she is. Tell her a girl " You look so hot" from a confident, take it or leave it, and sexual mind frame and she'll be turned on. Tell her the same from a " I just wanna get laid so i can add another notch to my belt" and she'll be turned off. You have to practice getting into a sexual frame of mind. How attracted are you to the women you are trying to get with? Porn can easily desensitize men from being able to get into these frames of mind unless they first see something highly sexual. Like a breast or vagina. Train yourself to appreciate the lines on a womans neck. The shape of her lips, nose, and eyes. Get turned on by it. And express it. She's not in the mood because you aren't in the mood. The vibe and energy just ain't there. |
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