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Author:  thequietlife [ Sat Sep 19, 2015 7:14 pm ]
Post subject:  What point do you cut a girl off.
This is to help newbies and experienced alike, please add you thoughts and reasons.

main reason for this post is two reasons, some guys keep trying to game the same girl when their chances weere done ages ago, second some guys don't stick around long enough even though theyre still in with a chance.

1. When is the best time to next a girl (E.g if you haven't men in a year, blanks texts,seeing someone etc)

2. BIG QUESTION, once you next a girl is this a permanent thing or do you still leave the window open, i know there's mixed feelings about this one.
Author:  Jay (Majik) [ Mon Sep 21, 2015 12:31 am ]
Post subject:  Re: What point do you cut a girl off.
Let me put this into perspective for you.

Let's pretend you sell cars, okay?

You have a customer who comes on the lot one day and says they are looking at a car.

They go for a test drive, say they like it and they are interested, you give them a price, they say okay, let me go home and get my check book.

You get the car all cleaned up for the customer to come pick it up, get the paperwork ready to go, and the guy never comes back.

You call him the next day, he doesn't answer.

You try calling him again the day after, he sends you to voicemail.

You call him one more time over the weekend and still, no answer.

He blew you off. It's safe to say that he was probably just "stroking" you or something happened when he left. Maybe he bought another car from somewhere else? Maybe his wife put an axe on the deal?

You don't know... and it doesn't matter. Because the lead is now dead. You'll take more customers and you'll sell more cars. You don't treat is as a big deal.

Now, 6 months go by and you get a phone call. It's the dickhead who blew you off before. He was driving by your dealership and saw a car on the lot. He wants a price on it.

Are you gonna get all pissed off because he hurt your feelings blowing you off and tell him to go eat a dick or are you gonna put personal shit aside, think business, and close the fucking deal this time?

There's no right or wrong answer to be honest. It's just a matter of which guy you're going to be.

I run my dating life like a business. Hopefully that clarifies things.
Author:  CharlesFinley [ Mon Sep 21, 2015 12:44 am ]
Post subject:  Re: What point do you cut a girl off.
Quote:
Let me put this into perspective for you.

Let's pretend you sell cars, okay?

You have a customer who comes on the lot one day and says they are looking at a car.

They go for a test drive, say they like it and they are interested, you give them a price, they say okay, let me go home and get my check book.

You get the car all cleaned up for the customer to come pick it up, get the paperwork ready to go, and the guy never comes back.

You call him the next day, he doesn't answer.

You try calling him again the day after, he sends you to voicemail.

You call him one more time over the weekend and still, no answer.

He blew you off. It's safe to say that he was probably just "stroking" you or something happened when he left. Maybe he bought another car from somewhere else? Maybe his wife put an axe on the deal?

You don't know... and it doesn't matter. Because the lead is now dead. You'll take more customers and you'll sell more cars. You don't treat is as a big deal.

Now, 6 months go by and you get a phone call. It's the dickhead who blew you off before. He was driving by your dealership and saw a car on the lot. He wants a price on it.

Are you gonna get all pissed off because he hurt your feelings blowing you off and tell him to go eat a dick or are you gonna put personal shit aside, think business, and close the fucking deal this time?

There's no right or wrong answer to be honest. It's just a matter of which guy you're going to be.

I run my dating life like a business. Hopefully that clarifies things.
This was beautiful.
Author:  thequietlife [ Mon Sep 21, 2015 9:58 am ]
Post subject:  Re: What point do you cut a girl off.
Great concept
Author:  berettagtz [ Mon Sep 21, 2015 6:24 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: What point do you cut a girl off.
Quote:
Let me put this into perspective for you.

Let's pretend you sell cars, okay?

You have a customer who comes on the lot one day and says they are looking at a car.

They go for a test drive, say they like it and they are interested, you give them a price, they say okay, let me go home and get my check book.

You get the car all cleaned up for the customer to come pick it up, get the paperwork ready to go, and the guy never comes back.

You call him the next day, he doesn't answer.

You try calling him again the day after, he sends you to voicemail.

You call him one more time over the weekend and still, no answer.

He blew you off. It's safe to say that he was probably just "stroking" you or something happened when he left. Maybe he bought another car from somewhere else? Maybe his wife put an axe on the deal?

You don't know... and it doesn't matter. Because the lead is now dead. You'll take more customers and you'll sell more cars. You don't treat is as a big deal.

Now, 6 months go by and you get a phone call. It's the dickhead who blew you off before. He was driving by your dealership and saw a car on the lot. He wants a price on it.

Are you gonna get all pissed off because he hurt your feelings blowing you off and tell him to go eat a dick or are you gonna put personal shit aside, think business, and close the fucking deal this time?

There's no right or wrong answer to be honest. It's just a matter of which guy you're going to be.

I run my dating life like a business. Hopefully that clarifies things.
Good stuff!

So the girl in this case is the dickhead coming back for another car. Another car then is the second chance you give to a girl? And of course, you are the dealer.
Author:  DW-Heart-Charmer [ Tue Sep 22, 2015 1:34 am ]
Post subject:  Re: What point do you cut a girl off.
Good post Majikal.
Quote:
There's no right or wrong answer to be honest. It's just a matter of which guy you're going to be.
Recently I have found myself cutting women off quick.
-If it is a tinder girl or online I have never met, they likely get a week or two and then I tell them to lose my number. Usually these are the ones that never wanted to really meet someone anyway. Usually 18-22, but you give them the opportunity.
-If it is a girl that I met and got somewhere with I will keep it alive for a little while. Maybe a week or two, but if she doesn't like the goods then no worries.
-If it is a girl I've had sex with, it depends on how good the sex was and how much I liked her. If you did it right she should always be coming back for more.

I totally agree with leaving the shop open for business and not burning the leads, however I don't have the energy or time for girls who are messing around. I drop them often with a "nice talking to you :)" message. This new energy and focus allows me to bring in new girls every week, these leads don't matter enough to keep pursuing. ie. "I don't have enough time now to sell the dickhead a ford because I am selling this guy a Ferrari."

However, if I had an abundance of free time this might be different ;)
Author:  Eddie Fews [ Tue Sep 22, 2015 3:49 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: What point do you cut a girl off.
I answer this question.

Read: viewtopic.php?f=25&t=190620
Author:  thequietlife [ Wed Sep 23, 2015 8:01 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: What point do you cut a girl off.
It's a good point of view but my problems is making no sales at all, so it's ok passing these customers on but if your not taking any customers it's hard to to think like that.
Author:  DW-Heart-Charmer [ Wed Sep 23, 2015 11:13 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: What point do you cut a girl off.
Quote:
It's a good point of view but my problems is making no sales at all, so it's ok passing these customers on but if your not taking any customers it's hard to to think like that.
And when you are making plenty of sales, you are not worried about making more. The thinking might actually become, how do I make bigger sales rather than more quantity?
Author:  199Flags [ Thu Sep 24, 2015 3:15 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: What point do you cut a girl off.
I recommend always leaving the window open if she is worth her salt. Deleting girl's numbers and getting angry when they don't respond to meet is amateur.

Sometimes I'll stay persistent on a girl whose been ignoring me for a long time and all of sudden she wants to meet. It's not hard to just say Hello everyday especially if you know how to use broadcast messages in SPAM.

Only girls who have done you wrong or you just completely don't like after meeting should be forgotten and I still wouldn't recommend deleting the numbers.
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