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| Author: | Moose185 [ Fri Sep 18, 2015 12:22 am ] |
| Post subject: | how do I be funny in conversations? |
Well there's this girl I like but were just friends. We chat on facebook every now and again. I was wondering how do I raise her interest level through chat. Is there any topics I should bring up? how do I be funny? I really like this girl and we've know each other for a year now. She single at the moment but the conversation is usually just friendly. any help would be appreciated. thanks. |
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| Author: | bartm [ Fri Sep 18, 2015 3:15 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: how do I be funny in conversations? |
over a year? ouch. if the conversation is usually friendly you are probably already friend zoned. just go direct, say "hey, I just got out of a relationship and I think we have a lot in common, lets meet up, how about this weekend?" I think one should not TRY to be funny, either you are funny or you are not, if you TRY to be funny it will come off as unnatural/try hard and girls can see through that. |
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| Author: | R.C [ Fri Sep 18, 2015 11:13 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: how do I be funny in conversations? |
You can't be serious. What do you mean "how can you be funny?". Do you not own a sense of humor? |
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| Author: | Eddie Fews [ Fri Sep 18, 2015 4:56 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: how do I be funny in conversations? |
How do I be funny? Well let me ask you.. How do I be smart? Think you can teach me? Funny is acquired through acquiring confidence in your sense of humor. You can tell a great joke in a flat mono tone and no one will laugh. And you can tell a horrible joke with charisma and confidence and get the room laughing. Every attempt at being funny is a risk of looking unfunny or silly. So it takes some confidence to pull it off. You ever ask for her number to jump to a phone call? How about a video chat? And what have you guys talked about so far? |
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| Author: | DW-Heart-Charmer [ Fri Sep 18, 2015 8:21 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: how do I be funny in conversations? |
Humor is also a repeatable pattern that can be learned through social interactions. Actually go out and talk to people. Learn what funny people do and then try to emulate it. |
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| Author: | thequietlife [ Sat Sep 19, 2015 6:57 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: how do I be funny in conversations? |
Humour is something i'm struggling with also. For me humour is actually a form of intelligence, but more importantly social intelligence.....well actually 50/50. People make humour seem more simple than it is. A) the intelligence breaks down to your general knowledge of things, be it deep or shallow knowledge on a subject, if you don't know certain thing you don't have the tools to be funny with them B) social intelligence, understanding your surroundings, the people your with on an interpersonal level, being able to mix fax with metaphors or exaggerated truths. Social intelligence also can be the delivery of the joke. |
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| Author: | skills360 [ Sat Sep 19, 2015 7:44 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: how do I be funny in conversations? |
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| Author: | Moose185 [ Wed Sep 23, 2015 3:03 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: how do I be funny in conversations? |
thanks for the replies. i've already asked her out twice and she made up excuses. I should have given up by now to be honest. However she messages me and I get sucked in again. I've not been well recently and she messaged me asking how I was doing ad if things were ok , she said she was worried about me. this could just be friendly but I can't seem to breakthrough to anything else. I'm hoping if my chat is that good when we talk she will just eventually say yes to meeting up. |
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| Author: | Dragula [ Wed Sep 23, 2015 4:06 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: how do I be funny in conversations? |
Quote: thanks for the replies. i've already asked her out twice and she made up excuses. I should have given up by now to be honest. However she messages me and I get sucked in again.
Being funny is the last thing you need to learn here. Your in friendzone. I've not been well recently and she messaged me asking how I was doing ad if things were ok , she said she was worried about me. this could just be friendly but I can't seem to breakthrough to anything else. I'm hoping if my chat is that good when we talk she will just eventually say yes to meeting up. Try ignoring her for a while. That might at least make her interested. I would Persue other options. Being funny is just an element of learning game. Pretty much a lot of material usually gets giggles. Just start studying and taking action. Pretty sure you a Google search will provide you heaps of ways. Also, watching comedians do their thing. |
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| Author: | DW-Heart-Charmer [ Wed Sep 23, 2015 11:30 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: how do I be funny in conversations? |
Quote: thanks for the replies. i've already asked her out twice and she made up excuses. I should have given up by now to be honest. However she messages me and I get sucked in again. Hardcore friendzone. Get the fuck away!
I've not been well recently and she messaged me asking how I was doing ad if things were ok , she said she was worried about me. this could just be friendly but I can't seem to breakthrough to anything else. I'm hoping if my chat is that good when we talk she will just eventually say yes to meeting up. |
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| Author: | R.C [ Thu Sep 24, 2015 6:43 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: how do I be funny in conversations? |
Quote: thanks for the replies. i've already asked her out twice and she made up excuses. I should have given up by now to be honest. However she messages me and I get sucked in again.
Why are you stuck in such a scrap dog mindset?I've not been well recently and she messaged me asking how I was doing ad if things were ok , she said she was worried about me. this could just be friendly but I can't seem to breakthrough to anything else. I'm hoping if my chat is that good when we talk she will just eventually say yes to meeting up. You're waiting endlessly by the kitchen table hoping the starts aling themselves and some food may fall your way. Are you happy living like this? |
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| Author: | 199Flags [ Thu Sep 24, 2015 3:03 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: how do I be funny in conversations? |
that's going to be hard work, that's worth putting in. 20nation just wrote a good report over at his blog. I'd recommend checking that out. |
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| Author: | Jay (Majik) [ Tue Sep 29, 2015 1:13 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: how do I be funny in conversations? |
Watch stand up comedy. People who are notoriously funny. -Bill Hicks -George Carlin -Doug Stanhope -Russell Brand -Katt Williams -Louis C.K. Guys like that. Don't sit there and write down their jokes but just pay attention. Pay attention to their delivery for the most part. When the right time arises, you'll have those funny "jokes" in your arsenal and you'll be able to use them. Again... pay attention to delivery. The delivery of a joke is key to actually making other people laugh. Not the actual content. |
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