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| Author: | Psyshank [ Sun Aug 30, 2015 8:48 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Hear & Help the most loser story ever !!!!! |
im a DJ, i play rock music in a famous pub/lounge in India... I always play good and always make sure the crowd is singing along... I get girls whistling n shit, but still i hvnt approached any girl whatsoever (out of fear), THE worst part - der been 4-5 girls who approached me i dint respond like a grown-up to em. The worst Part- There was this girl who came with an Appointed Fat Friend two weeks in a row, and the second time she was waving n giving me what i think were all of the cues -)direct and indirect) which she had ( and which she did the first time too ),, and i went out thinking what to do smoking a ciggarette, and lo!!! She went out and the waiter assisted em to look out for a taxi . and i went from behind like a sore loser(after having won her over with the music), with a prodding low-esteemy try to try n go to talk to her.. They sat in d cab and rode away... ... Quote: The image of being a good dj with good looks but being sorely bad with women is taxing...
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| Author: | CharlesFinley [ Mon Aug 31, 2015 12:52 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Hear & Help the most loser story ever !!!!! |
Sounds like approach anxiety even though they're the ones approaching you. Are you a virgin? |
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| Author: | Psyshank [ Mon Aug 31, 2015 2:06 pm ] |
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Yes I am ... |
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| Author: | CharlesFinley [ Mon Aug 31, 2015 2:31 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Hear & Help the most loser story ever !!!!! |
So OK, you're just not used to girls or comfortable around them. You, sir, have approach anxiety and you're a noob. We have all been there. Here's what I want you to do: 1) Go out. Today (no excuses, women are everywhere)... Say 'hi' to 10 girls... that's it. Just hi... Tomorrow, do the same thing... The next day, do the same thing... 2) Next week, go out and say hi, then compliment them. Say you like their earrings, necklace, etc. Be more social. Just talk. No pressure. See if you can get that far, then come back after that... |
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| Author: | Eddie Fews [ Mon Aug 31, 2015 3:30 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Hear & Help the most loser story ever !!!!! |
You hear to ask a question or to wallow in your misery? Try this quote: Quote: “I will act now. I will act now. I will act now. Henceforth, I will repeat these words each hour, each day, everyday, until the words become as much a habit as my breathing, and the action which follows becomes as instinctive as the blinking of my eyelids. With these words I can condition my mind to perform every action necessary for my success. I will act now. I will repeat these words again and again and again. I will walk where failures fear to walk. I will work when failures seek rest. I will act now for now is all I have. Tomorrow is the day reserved for the labor of the lazy. I am not lazy. Tomorrow is the day when the failure will succeed. I am not a failure. I will act now. Success will not wait. If I delay, success will become wed to another and lost to me forever. This is the time. This is the place. I am the person.”
― Og Mandino |
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