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| Author: | yanchi [ Sun Aug 23, 2015 8:59 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Romantic Gestures as seen in films |
Why is it that in all fucking films the men turn into desperate messes begging for girls back, or creating some romantic gesture which works in the films but not in real life. Where does this logic come from over time if it doesn't actually work? |
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| Author: | Eddie Fews [ Sun Aug 23, 2015 9:09 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Romantic Gestures as seen in films |
It sells tickets man. Reality vs fantasy. Reality tv even has to be somewhat scripted to get people to watch. People want an escape, a distraction, they want hope, and so movies sell them the fantasy. In the movies you can jump off a building and fly.. Now do we question how come we can't jump off a building and fly in real life? Or do we just accept the fact that its just a movie? Same concept. |
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| Author: | Jay (Majik) [ Mon Aug 24, 2015 2:12 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Romantic Gestures as seen in films |
Because that's the feminist world we live in...? The slightest bit of masculinity gets shamed in today's society... So it's easier if the "mainstream man" is just a bitch/goof/moron. Don't get sucked into it. |
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| Author: | neo87 [ Mon Aug 24, 2015 4:12 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Romantic Gestures as seen in films |
Tbh, most movies dont portray men that way. Especially the ones geared towards women. Strong, attractive guy with options meets girl, they fall in love, he does something bad, she leaves, he does a big gesture to show he's changed, they get back together..the end. Bottom line is, if a chick likes you, a big romantic gesture isn't going to send her running. If she lost attraction for you and dumps you, thats a different story. The movies actually arent so far off. If the chick is attracted to you, a big gesture is seen as romantic, if she is not, it's seen as desperate. The movies do have some truth in them. They aren't going to market unattractive/desperate men as love interests to women if that's their demographic. That's like marketing unattractive fat women as love interests in male movies. Women do like romantic gestures when from an attractive man with strength. The men in these movies doing these "desperate" things, have stuff going from them, they have options. Women want to feel chosen, and the men in the movies who "beg", are begging from a place of "I can get other women, but I want you", not "I am begging because I will die alone without you." |
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| Author: | Dragula [ Mon Aug 24, 2015 7:34 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Romantic Gestures as seen in films |
Don't watch films to copy the romance. Copy the body language/behaviour/attitude of the alpha males. Long rifle - Last of he Mohicans Tony Stark - Ironman Ashton kutcher in - Spread Achilles - Troy Tyler Dursen - fight club Don't watch the far fetched crap like californiation |
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