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Author:  DukeMister [ Sun Aug 02, 2015 12:58 pm ]
Post subject:  What is going on in her mind ?
So I met a girl online. We connected and after a few days of chatting , we decided to meet on Friday.
On the day , she texted me in the morning that she had a few drinks the night before and apologized for not being able to make it. The text was something like
"Dave, I feel crap today . Had no sleep last night and feeling very bad. I am soo sorry I cannot make it today. if you wish , I can cancel my plans for tomorrow and we can meet up".

I responded " No problem. Do what you have to do . We can meet on Sunday if you still wish for us to meet". She did not respond to that . So on Friday evening , I texted "my 57 yr old grandma in Canada seven seas away responded faster than you. LOL ;)".
worked and she immediate texted back that she would want to see me.
So we decided to meet on Sunday. No contact on Saturday as I knew she is with her friends (or may be not).

Now it is Sunday, I texted her if she still wants to meet and no response . I tried to call her but she did not pick up.
What shall I do now ? I dont want to play the grandma card again OR in fact say anything that would make her feel like shit.
Author:  R.C [ Sun Aug 02, 2015 4:23 pm ]
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So I met a girl online. We connected and after a few days of chatting , we decided to meet on Friday.
On the day , she texted me in the morning that she had a few drinks the night before and apologized for not being able to make it. The text was something like
"Dave, I feel crap today . Had no sleep last night and feeling very bad. I am soo sorry I cannot make it today. if you wish , I can cancel my plans for tomorrow and we can meet up".

I responded " No problem. Do what you have to do . We can meet on Sunday if you still wish for us to meet". She did not respond to that . So on Friday evening , I texted "my 57 yr old grandma in Canada seven seas away responded faster than you. LOL ;)".
worked and she immediate texted back that she would want to see me.
So we decided to meet on Sunday. No contact on Saturday as I knew she is with her friends (or may be not).

Now it is Sunday, I texted her if she still wants to meet and no response . I tried to call her but she did not pick up.
What shall I do now ? I dont want to play the grandma card again OR in fact say anything that would make her feel like shit.
You should make plans with someone else. She's not gonna pull through
Author:  n2thevoid [ Sun Aug 02, 2015 5:02 pm ]
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She's not interested. "If you wish", and all the yous deferring any responsibility for making the decision herself. If she was adamant on meeting you she'd be more definitive and not put it on you to make her decisions for her. She's likely screening your texts at this point - save for some freak incident where she lost her phone (which is unlikely).

She did you a favour who wants to waste an evening with that really.
Author:  DukeMister [ Sun Aug 02, 2015 5:24 pm ]
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Funny turnout :) Meeting her in 20mins for a Freak Art show ..
Author:  n2thevoid [ Sun Aug 02, 2015 5:54 pm ]
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Funny turnout :) Meeting her in 20mins for a Freak Art show ..
K. Good luck.
Author:  J.Daniels [ Sun Aug 02, 2015 8:49 pm ]
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Quote:
So I met a girl online. We connected and after a few days of chatting , we decided to meet on Friday.
On the day , she texted me in the morning that she had a few drinks the night before and apologized for not being able to make it. The text was something like
"Dave, I feel crap today . Had no sleep last night and feeling very bad. I am soo sorry I cannot make it today. if you wish , I can cancel my plans for tomorrow and we can meet up".

I responded " No problem. Do what you have to do . We can meet on Sunday if you still wish for us to meet". She did not respond to that . So on Friday evening , I texted "my 57 yr old grandma in Canada seven seas away responded faster than you. LOL ;)".
worked and she immediate texted back that she would want to see me.
So we decided to meet on Sunday. No contact on Saturday as I knew she is with her friends (or may be not).

Now it is Sunday, I texted her if she still wants to meet and no response . I tried to call her but she did not pick up.
What shall I do now ? I dont want to play the grandma card again OR in fact say anything that would make her feel like shit.
First of all if she was that into you then she wouldn't be cancelling anyway.

Secondly, that grandma text was really needy and weak. Seriously, never do that. You should be too busy to care if she takes a while to respond!

Thirdly, do nothing ffs.

Can you go and watch some Corey Wayne videos? Start with "The Illusion of Action" and if you like him, watch his videos. Don't, however, just dislike him cause he tells you to do things that you don't want to do - it works if you apply it! What you're doing now, will scare her off, I promise you.
Author:  R.C [ Mon Aug 03, 2015 2:39 am ]
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First of all if she was that into you then she wouldn't be cancelling anyway.

Secondly, that grandma text was really needy and weak. Seriously, never do that. You should be too busy to care if she takes a while to respond!

Thirdly, do nothing ffs.

Can you go and watch some Corey Wayne videos? Start with "The Illusion of Action" and if you like him, watch his videos. Don't, however, just dislike him cause he tells you to do things that you don't want to do - it works if you apply it! What you're doing now, will scare her off, I promise you.
Grandma text was semi-decent. Sometimes it's fine to call girls out. You can call a girl out without being needy. That doesn't mean it should be done, since it takes a bit of finesse to pull off, but he did alright.

@OP: You better score some awesome points on that date. Her interest is not exactly something amazing.
Author:  DukeMister [ Mon Aug 03, 2015 10:07 am ]
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It went great. Ended up with a kiss and now meeting her again next week for a rock concert.
Turns out we have a lot in common and she had been very busy with her new job which she has only joined 2 weeks back.
Lessons : No texting. SPAM is worse.Patience . Persistence.
Author:  Eddie Fews [ Mon Aug 03, 2015 12:55 pm ]
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Grandma text was semi-decent. Sometimes it's fine to call girls out. You can call a girl out without being needy. That doesn't mean it should be done, since it takes a bit of finesse to pull off, but he did alright.

@OP: You better score some awesome points on that date. Her interest is not exactly something amazing.
+1
Author:  J.Daniels [ Mon Aug 03, 2015 1:52 pm ]
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First of all if she was that into you then she wouldn't be cancelling anyway.

Secondly, that grandma text was really needy and weak. Seriously, never do that. You should be too busy to care if she takes a while to respond!

Thirdly, do nothing ffs.

Can you go and watch some Corey Wayne videos? Start with "The Illusion of Action" and if you like him, watch his videos. Don't, however, just dislike him cause he tells you to do things that you don't want to do - it works if you apply it! What you're doing now, will scare her off, I promise you.
Grandma text was semi-decent. Sometimes it's fine to call girls out. You can call a girl out without being needy. That doesn't mean it should be done, since it takes a bit of finesse to pull off, but he did alright.

@OP: You better score some awesome points on that date. Her interest is not exactly something amazing.
I don't think he did very good really. She was just interested in him enough to still want to date him. He didn't make the situation worse, but he didn't improve it either. He'd have done a lot better if he'd have just been indifferent and waited for her to come to him. But that's just my opinion
Author:  DukeMister [ Mon Aug 03, 2015 6:08 pm ]
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Mr.Daniels. lets see where it goes. As i said , otherwise would be lesson learnt. I am not betting my life on this girl. LoL
Author:  Blacksky [ Mon Aug 03, 2015 9:30 pm ]
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The most likely scenario here is that unfortunately she is not head over heals about this guy but likes him enough to just have him around for her to kill off her spare time. She avoids / takes a long time to respond to his texts (would she do that if she was crazy about him) however keeps him hanging on and is happy to set dates with him. Seems like she wants him around just to kill off her spare time. Girls if they are not interested at all usually don't answer their texts and usually stop communicating totally, so that would suggest their is some interest but just not enough for her to care too much as she seems very distant.

Best thing to do I would think would be to communicate with her but give her breathing space and don't try too hard with her, at the same time keeping a variety of options open so that you do not invest too much emotion in this girl.
Author:  WillEdward [ Tue Aug 04, 2015 1:19 am ]
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Nice, go for the pull and close next time you see her.
Author:  Versalis [ Tue Aug 04, 2015 10:12 pm ]
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Nice, go for the pull and close next time you see her.
This. Focus on building sexual tension. Plan to get her back to your place.
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