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Hey guys, met a girl online. First time meetup. Plans scheduled for today. Since we have not met in person yet, in order to reduce flake I messaged her once yesterday (two days after we set the plans), she didn't respond. Today (day of the plans) she messaged me with "Hey, are you still going to (place we are meeting)? I am in my work scrubs"
Now my problem is this:
If I say YES, I show I'm unfazed by her not texting me back yesterday and that I'm sticking with the original plans.
IF I say NO, I show I don't wait around for her and I made better plans because she screwed up by not saying anything back.
I NEVER confirm plans with women I have met in person, but online I have found that leaving the lines cold until the first date is a problem. They think you won't show and they don't show.
Now my problem is this:
If I say YES, I show I'm unfazed by her not texting me back yesterday and that I'm sticking with the original plans.
IF I say NO, I show I don't wait around for her and I made better plans because she screwed up by not saying anything back.
I NEVER confirm plans with women I have met in person, but online I have found that leaving the lines cold until the first date is a problem. They think you won't show and they don't show.
Honestly why is there even a question in your mind? She want's to meet you obliviously!
Please respond, "yes, I'll see you there @ x;xx
!!" And then go.... please turn off your 'game'!!!