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| Author: | tepg [ Sun Jul 26, 2015 5:35 pm ] |
| Post subject: | F a girl, she went cold, F again, she's cold again.. what?? |
So this girl is in a social circle and I get sexual with her since the first date, which is the second time we met. Then, she went cold, replying minimally and sometimes just ignore my text. This I can understand that it might be buyer remorse and i escalated too fast without any comfort and she might think im a player But.... I just set another date by leading and telling her my plan and tell her to come join my house, which is very obvious i will fuck her. And she came. When we were together the chemistry rapport and attraction (everything is there). From my experience, all girls that show these sign will b super into me no matter what, but after sleeping with her, so became cold on text again. She did admit that she just broke up and didnt want anything serious. And that theres other people trying to flirt her but she dint want cuz they r doing it the serious way. she got with me because im chill and i just make everything comfortable. What im confused is that the level of attraction and compliance she has with me when we are together is very high, but once we r texting i felt almost like she is some girl who i havnt game..... explain? how should i approach? I'm thinking she is clearly attracted to me, and is the type who doesnt rlly want to text too much as she is not super girly type and dont like attachment. So I think I just keep persistent asking her out (dont give a fuck when she ignore me), but in a non-needy way. Problem is we wont see each other again after a week, so im planning to go all direct and honest: "I enjoy you, and it will suck if we wont see each other again etc..." thought? |
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| Author: | tepg [ Sun Jul 26, 2015 5:40 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: F a girl, she went cold, F again, she's cold again.. wha |
I decided to be honest and just told the situation like: i like you, we dont have much time, its chill and all about good time, lets hang out more blah blah... in a more honest fashion. She read and still haven't reply as before. Before i asked her out successfully only when we havnt talk for 3-4 days, and i havnt ask any meet up within that time. then i would just tell her lets do this, then she will be fine. recently, i just hit her up more often cuz not much time left. and just said that line. mayb i killed my chance |
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| Author: | n2thevoid [ Sun Jul 26, 2015 6:10 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: F a girl, she went cold, F again, she's cold again.. wha |
You're acting needy. Telling her you like her? You don't think she already knows? Too much pressure so soon. Likely killing attraction with your actions. Back up, just enjoy the sex and what you were doing no commitments, nothing heavy. Should be a chill 'whatever this isn't the only pussy around' attitude. Let her contact you now, do not contact first you've chased her away. |
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| Author: | tepg [ Sun Jul 26, 2015 10:08 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: F a girl, she went cold, F again, she's cold again.. wha |
I know telling her is needy, but i did in this case because there is time constraint. so if i play the normal game, and be cool, then might never see each other again. |
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