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Author:  redstar1324 [ Fri Jul 10, 2015 2:16 am ]
Post subject:  Why am I intimidated by women?
I have been to prison. I have lived homeless. I have broken my neck and back and paralyzed parts of my body.

Yet I am still scared to look girls in the eye (sometimes). Why is this?

It's not about rejection. I'm fine with that. I know that most of the time, if you get rejected, it's something that you can go back and fix. For example, if I'm drunk and talking about some dumb shit, nobody is going to like me, but if I drink water and talk about something intelligent, people might like me better.

So what am I scared of? And it's a lot better than it was a little while ago, and once I identify this, I think I can fix it.

I am no more intimidated by beautiful women than I am by ugly ones. And I don't think I put them on a pedestal because I also have had a history of devaluing them and I know they are just a bunch of molecules just like me.

So what's my deal? I will never reproduce if I don't solve this issue.

And I'm also not scared to take risks and I'm not scared of the business world.
Author:  redstar1324 [ Fri Jul 10, 2015 6:54 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Why am I intimidated by women?
And since I don't want to post more than one in one day.... I will add to this.....

What do you think I should buy, a Lamborghini or an Aston Martin?

In one of the books, it says that the hottest girls are found around "bad boys"... like at parties on yachts and stuff like that. Do you think that is true? Have you seen that?

The best advice I've ever heard is, "smile, be confident, and introduce yourself," but how should I introduce myself? I need to say more than my name. Should I say what I do? Why would they care what my name is. If I tell them my name is Joe (which it's not), why would they care? Who is Joe? How does "Joe" introduce himself as someone that is worth their time? How does "Joe" stick out of the crowd of all the 1000's of others?
Author:  Dragula [ Fri Jul 10, 2015 7:12 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Why am I intimidated by women?
You really don't get it do you?

You will literally do EVERYTHING else other than the very thing you need to do to be good with women.

You have the biggest ego. That is why you're scared. I've met some of the most confident, good looking guys on earth. Ask them to approach a girl in a public street and just watch them squirm and show their true flaws...

You're no different to that guy who becomes the biggest guy in the gym hoping to score with the ladies, or the guy that compensates his confidence with money...it always ends bad because you are brushing your flaws under the carpet.

If you're not willing to get in the trenches and put your balls on the line, you should really leave this forum.

i really think you should see a therapist. Or buy the damn lambo, sign up to sugardaddie.com. I'm sure you will get laid with girls that don't like you which will cause more threads on this forum of your new problem(s).
Author:  Eddie Fews [ Fri Jul 10, 2015 10:39 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Why am I intimidated by women?
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You will literally do EVERYTHING else other than the very thing you need to do to be good with women.
Author:  redstar1324 [ Fri Jul 10, 2015 1:29 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Why am I intimidated by women?
What is that very thing?

Say it in plain English.
Author:  Dragula [ Fri Jul 10, 2015 1:30 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Why am I intimidated by women?
Work on the fundamentals. Approach and make a move on girls frequently
Author:  redstar1324 [ Fri Jul 10, 2015 1:48 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Why am I intimidated by women?
Quote:
Work on the fundamentals. Approach and make a move on girls frequently
Can you walk me through a good example of when you did this? I have read all the books in the world. Is it:
small talk, touch their arm, ask for their number, call them the next day to hang out, touch them some more, get them in your room, whip your dick out?

What is your usual pattern?

When you "make a move," is that something you do verbally or physically?

___________________________________________________________________________________________

Big ego:

I just thought of an idea that will make me a millionaire (at least). But inexpensive houses and turn them into drug recovery houses. Put two beds in each room and charge $150/week. I can profit almost $50,000/year on a $30,000 house this way. Do this repeatedly and this will grow my income until I can start investing in apartment complexes and hotels and it will just take off from there. I will own 1000s of hotels all over the world.

__________________________________________________________________________________________

I do see a counselor. But why do you say I should see one? What specifically do you think my issues are?
Author:  Dragula [ Fri Jul 10, 2015 3:02 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Why am I intimidated by women?
Why are you talking to me about hotels?

just read Models- by mark Manson. I can't be arsed posting anymore today. My brain hurts
Author:  masterm1ne [ Fri Jul 10, 2015 3:07 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Why am I intimidated by women?
Why do you guys spend your time on this redstar character...?
Author:  redstar1324 [ Fri Jul 10, 2015 3:49 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Why am I intimidated by women?
How many girls have you guys fucked in the past 6 months? Got pictures of them?
Author:  redstar1324 [ Fri Jul 10, 2015 3:50 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Why am I intimidated by women?
Quote:
Why are you talking to me about hotels?

just read Models- by mark Manson. I can't be arsed posting anymore today. My brain hurts
What do you do for a living?
Author:  Dragula [ Fri Jul 10, 2015 4:03 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Why am I intimidated by women?
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Why do you guys spend your time on this redstar character...?
Good question :(
Author:  Dragula [ Fri Jul 10, 2015 4:05 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Why am I intimidated by women?
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Quote:
Why are you talking to me about hotels?

just read Models- by mark Manson. I can't be arsed posting anymore today. My brain hurts
What do you do for a living?

I work for a manufacturing company. In my spare time I am working hard on a passive income project that I will break free from the work life.
Author:  redstar1324 [ Fri Jul 10, 2015 4:09 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Why am I intimidated by women?
Quote:
Quote:
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Why are you talking to me about hotels?

just read Models- by mark Manson. I can't be arsed posting anymore today. My brain hurts
What do you do for a living?

I work for a manufacturing company. In my spare time I am working hard on a passive income project that I will break free from the work life.
Hahaha. "Passive income project." I'd love to hear about it..... and you ask "why are you talking to me about hotels,"...... hahahahah
Author:  Dragula [ Fri Jul 10, 2015 4:27 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Why am I intimidated by women?
You asked what I did?

I didn't ask you about your stuff
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