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Author:  SpiritualGangster [ Sat Jul 04, 2015 12:07 am ]
Post subject:  Can you pickup when you look like shit?
Now, I'm not saying I don't take care of myself. I do that very well, actually. What I mean is, I'm in an amazing venue every morning, ripe with young beautiful women. However, because my job is construction, I'm dusty as hell, and wearing dirty clothing. It fits well, but it looks dirty. Is it a waste of time if I actually try to get girls' numbers like this?

Or let's broaden it up, what if you have a huge zit on your forehead, or a blackeye or something?
Author:  GKS [ Sat Jul 04, 2015 3:43 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Can you pickup when you look like shit?
Yes you can. But it's all about your frame though. If you project confident when approaching them, those negative attributes can be used as hook point. For example, if you look like a homeless guy but you have a confident as fuck Hugh Jackman frame, what would happen? They'd want to know the story behind it.

Remember, just like every other attributes such as height, appearance, fame, they're only a problem if you make them out to be. If you subconsciously insecure about them, women will pick up on that and treat you the same way you treat yourself.

If you're still unsure about the whole concept, google Keys to VIP Cobra Commander Phil. The guy lives on people couch, have no money, not good looking but he can still pull with sick games.
Author:  oceanx [ Sat Jul 04, 2015 5:47 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Can you pickup when you look like shit?
+1 to the first two pgfs in the previous post.

Lets put it this way.

As an extreme example you could literally be covered in vomit but be carrying a dominant frame and women would flock to you. OTOH you could be wearing a tux but be carrying a weak frame and women will blow you off out of hand, without remorse. It's all in how you carry yourself. P E R I O D.

WOMEN ARE MIRRORS MAN. GET THIS CONCEPT DOWN AND YOU'LL SEE THAT THE BETTER YOU FEEL ABOUT YOURSELF AND THE FUTURE, THE MORE WOMEN WILL SHINE UP TO YOU.
Author:  Dilla [ Sat Jul 04, 2015 12:23 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Can you pickup when you look like shit?
Of course you can, but it is best to look your best at all times. Looks matter and some people will be understandably turned off by a blemish or whatever

A black eye is an easy one to brush off if someone remarks on it...make up some funny story that happened when you were drunk.

The acne one is harder. If it is a spot, that should be fine...but if you have acne it can be a problem. I used suffer from it pretty bad and I know it f*cked up my chances, again not just because I was self-conscious. Women are visual beings too. Concealer can help if you are bothered by it. But if it it just one spot, that's cool

-Dilla
Author:  Versalis [ Sat Jul 04, 2015 1:51 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Can you pickup when you look like shit?
This is incredibly easy to test.
Get decked out in your best clothes and go out Friday night.
Then, dress like absolute shit and go out Saturday night.

What's the difference in your success level? Drunk girls are less picky than sober girls, so it will impact you somewhat less at night, than in the day.

P.S. You said you have very low standards(not sure if joking or not). From what I've seen, many fat(200+lb) Mexican chicks seem to literally not care what you're wearing. They seem a bit like men in that they don't even see you in clothes, but always mentally naked.
Author:  Eddie Fews [ Sat Jul 04, 2015 6:09 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Can you pickup when you look like shit?
Its work man.

You aren't homeless. In this economy , a chick better be lucky that your clothes are dirty. If the dirty clothes make you feel like " i'm dirty, i better stay away from women" you will project that and women will shy away from you. If you feel like " This is work dirt. I don't give a fuck" you will project that and come off a lot more attractive.

I'm not saying go out dirty, but if thats all you have at that moment, you still gotta do what you have to do. Will you be more successful after a fresh shower and clean clothes.. absolutely. But you can still have some success in the dirty gear.

Just bury all excuses and do it anyway. Its not like you have any other options while at work.
Author:  n2thevoid [ Sat Jul 04, 2015 6:18 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Can you pickup when you look like shit?
Quote:
Now, I'm not saying I don't take care of myself. I do that very well, actually. What I mean is, I'm in an amazing venue every morning, ripe with young beautiful women. However, because my job is construction, I'm dusty as hell, and wearing dirty clothing. It fits well, but it looks dirty. Is it a waste of time if I actually try to get girls' numbers like this?

Or let's broaden it up, what if you have a huge zit on your forehead, or a blackeye or something?

However you feel inside, you exude to the world around you. If you feel gross, u'll project 'gross'.

That said, cleaning up and looking your best self will increase your odds, for sure.
Author:  Reaver4k [ Mon Jul 06, 2015 4:26 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Can you pickup when you look like shit?
I've had more women check me out, when I look like shit. Messy and greasy hair, un-showered, unshaven, wrinkled and mismatched cloths
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