PUA Forum :: Direct Daygame As A Newbie: Is this unwise?

I know it isnt enough at this point,

But right now, my objectives are to get comfortable with approaches, rather than get results. If I start doing 10 approaches a day, I'm afraid that I will get extremely discouraged from continuing. Not to mention that there is not a whole lot of density where I live, the only time I can sarge is at the mall at the same time everyday. I think its a much better idea to keep it this way for the BEGINNING STAGES, so I would rather learn where my faults are, do my best to correct them, and continue from there.

I compare it best to learning how to play a guitar; you will get better by practicing 20 minutes a day for weeks at a time, as opposed to giving up after three days because you spent an hour a day, and got fucking frustrated with it because you weren't getting better fast enough.

Author:	SpiritualGangster [ Fri Jul 03, 2015 8:09 pm ]
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I hate nightgame. I'm kinda introverted, and its real hard to keep a good frame of mind for me, because I'm freaking out over all the people I'm surrounded by. I find that I'm really comfortable with approaching people in a semi busy setting, however! I'm still in the process of learning how to get comfortable with approaching, so I've got a lot of approaches to go before I can start making a real connection with any girl. But what concerns me is that I live in a town of about 400 000 people, and we have basically one big shopping mall. Chances are is that I'm going to eventually run into the same people, which DOESN'T bother me to any degree, but what I'm REALLY afraid of is that I'm going to develop a REPUTATION... I return to the mall PRETTY FREQUENTLY, but its also my favourite spot to sarge. This is probably very bad. The thing is that I've already developed a program for myself, and its based off of direct game. I am doing roughly 20 approaches per week. TL;DR: AFC Lives in suburb town with no popular bars/clubs. I'm terrified of nightgame anyways. I am doing direct game. What are my best choices of action, to save my anonymity?

Author:	JackZero [ Fri Jul 03, 2015 8:29 pm ]
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This whole notion that your reputation becomes bad because you are known for talking to women is silly, IMO. I'd agree that some people may comment on it negatively, but it's only a way of bringing you down to their level. Men that have a reputation for seducing women continuously seduce women. In fact, their reputation actually helps them do it. I even get the occasional comments at parties, "I've heard about you" and that's my foot in the door. I always assume it's because women have competitive mentalities and think of themselves as the one that can tame me or because another woman has shared some details about sex. Either way, it can help more than it can hurt as long as you respectful of the women that you're with.

Author:	SpiritualGangster [ Fri Jul 03, 2015 8:29 pm ]
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All I know is that I'm definitely moving out of this goddamn town when I can afford it.

Author:	Reaver4k [ Fri Jul 03, 2015 10:47 pm ]
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a town of 400,000 and only one mall? I live in a town of 14,500, but I live an hour away from Toronto(5 million people in the surroudning area) Most women, want to sleep with the man that every other women is sleeping with, its an evolutionary thing.

Author:	SpiritualGangster [ Fri Jul 03, 2015 11:55 pm ]
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Thanks for the reaffirmation guys! I can admit that I dont really that often come off as creepy, maybe just inexperienced. Once I master how to calm myself in an interaction and relax....it should all be good.

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Author:	Versalis [ Sat Jul 04, 2015 2:20 am ]
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I've pointed this out before. Only about %1 of the population are attractive, single women. So take any population and divide by 100 and that's your total number of attractive women. In a town of 400,000, that leaves you with about 4,000 attractive, single women. You will certainly be encountering the same women again.

Author:	SpiritualGangster [ Sat Jul 04, 2015 2:21 am ]
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Actually I've got REALLY low standards, so you can multiply that number by at least 5 xD

Author:	Playboi_ [ Sat Jul 04, 2015 2:40 am ]
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Not even going to read original post. Eliminate this notion of "daygame" and "nightgame." Are you a fucking robot? Are you a fucking textbook that needs updating for a new edition every year and nothing really changes except chapter numbers?! Just fucking talk to women, men, aliens, animals, walls who cares. If a women has or does something that draws your attention or fuck all, you just wanted to say hi, DO IT! I surely hope you are not out at night, see an attractive women and shit your pants to go crawl back into your shell because your subconscious mind got stamped with a big "OH NO NIGHTGAME," on it. Jesus Christ.

Author:	Reaver4k [ Sun Jul 05, 2015 3:43 pm ]
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I'll add i'm the oppsite, I find day game abit easyer, mainly becuase i'm not trying to talk to somone with loud music playing in the background.

Author:	Onoma [ Sun Jul 05, 2015 3:57 pm ]
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Quote: Just fucking talk to women, men, aliens, animals, walls who cares. If a women has or does something that draws your attention or fuck all, you just wanted to say hi, DO IT! Lol... "Hey baby, I just love the way you hold up that building..."

Author:	Versalis [ Sun Jul 05, 2015 4:29 pm ]
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The strong sexual attraction many men have to walls, is why glory holes were invented.

Author:	GKS [ Sun Jul 05, 2015 10:11 pm ]
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20 per week is not nearly enough. I used to do 10 a day.

Author:	SpiritualGangster [ Sun Jul 05, 2015 11:49 pm ]
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Quote: 20 per week is not nearly enough. I used to do 10 a day. I know it isnt enough at this point, But right now, my objectives are to get comfortable with approaches, rather than get results. If I start doing 10 approaches a day, I'm afraid that I will get extremely discouraged from continuing. Not to mention that there is not a whole lot of density where I live, the only time I can sarge is at the mall at the same time everyday. I think its a much better idea to keep it this way for the BEGINNING STAGES, so I would rather learn where my faults are, do my best to correct them, and continue from there. I compare it best to learning how to play a guitar; you will get better by practicing 20 minutes a day for weeks at a time, as opposed to giving up after three days because you spent an hour a day, and got fucking frustrated with it because you weren't getting better fast enough.

Author:	n2thevoid [ Mon Jul 06, 2015 12:46 am ]
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Who's to say what's enough and what's not. It's more the quality of your interactions rather than a specified amount per se.

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Author:	GKS [ Mon Jul 06, 2015 1:55 pm ]
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Quote: I know it isnt enough at this point, But right now, my objectives are to get comfortable with approaches, rather than get results. If I start doing 10 approaches a day, I'm afraid that I will get extremely discouraged from continuing. Not to mention that there is not a whole lot of density where I live, the only time I can sarge is at the mall at the same time everyday. I think its a much better idea to keep it this way for the BEGINNING STAGES, so I would rather learn where my faults are, do my best to correct them, and continue from there. I compare it best to learning how to play a guitar; you will get better by practicing 20 minutes a day for weeks at a time, as opposed to giving up after three days because you spent an hour a day, and got fucking frustrated with it because you weren't getting better fast enough. It was actually the opposite for me. The more often I did it, the more I realized those 9s, 10s are just human not goddesses. It desensitized my fear of approach. The first approach of the day was always hard. When I first started, I had to give myself a 30 minute pep talk before I worked up the courage to just say hi. But I did make it so that I wouldn't open any chick that were less than at least 8 on the scale though. It was the quickest way to get over the fear. But that's just me. Just like playing video games, I always pick the hardest mode first. Even if I can't beat it on the first few tries, I do get used to it and it makes other modes seem like a piece of cake.