I had a situation the other night, and I believe I handled it well, though I could use some advice for the future.
Originally I was going to go out to the bar with a close friend and his roommate. My buddy was feeling sick so he didn't go, so I decided to be friendly and encourage the mutual friend to come out.
We go to the first bar, and I end up meeting a girl. The first half of the night, the roommate, girl, and I go bar hoping. I lead her through the different venues, dance, makeout, and get a physical. The roommate attempts to approach several groups of girls and keeps getting shut down and creeping girls out.
The girl I met notices my mutual friend being shut down time and again, so she starts being friendly with him. Things take a turn for the worse, probably because he drank too much. He starts trying to steal her away from me, and keeps trying to convincing me that she is really into him. At first I ignore it, then he starts getting way too physical and creeps her out.
At this point, I pull him aside when she goes to the bathroom, and tell him to chill out politely. He agrees, but keeps doing the same crap. I attempt to diffuse the situation a few more times, but no luck. Seems like unless I am actually having sex with her he was not not going to quit his advances, even after he has seen the girl and I dancing, making out, etc.
So, the girl has had enough and decides to call a friend to pick her up. From the original conversation with her, and the logistics there was a good chance she was willingly to go home with me. Basically her friends left the bar, but she to stay with me and spend the whole night bar hoping. A lot of kino, a lot of talk about her want to have sex with me etc.
At the end of the day, I decided to get her number before I left. We have been conversing today, and have an outing set up for later.
Is there anything else I could do besides either ditching the mutual friend without a ride or sternly telling him to fuck off. Seems like a lose lose situation. I piss off my friends roommate and look like a shitty dude in front of the girl, or the girl gets creepied out by my mutual friend.
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