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| Author: | redstar1324 [ Fri Jun 26, 2015 11:14 am ] |
| Post subject: | The best advice ever... |
I was at a bar and saw this guy. He met this girl that night.... made out with her, probably got her number too... Then he met these 3 other super hot girls and they invited him to come to a club with him. I asked him what he did... he said.... it's easy, just smile, be confident, and introduce yourself..... I suppose it is that easy for some. I wish I could get that way. Maybe there is something wrong with me why it is not and that is what I need to fix. The guy was a really nice guy too. He was even nice to me. He seemed to have a really great personality and that is probably why girls liked him. A personality is something you can change. |
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| Author: | WillEdward [ Fri Jun 26, 2015 11:58 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: The best advice ever... |
There's nothing wrong with you. Your confident presence, charisma and calibration will come through once you go out and do enough approaches and get experience. |
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| Author: | Dragula [ Fri Jun 26, 2015 12:12 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: The best advice ever... |
Maybe it was his ambition to be a billionaire that did all the game for him... |
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| Author: | Dragula [ Fri Jun 26, 2015 12:16 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: The best advice ever... |
Just kidding He has good advice. It really can be quite simple once you unlearn all that gamey shit your brain has been hijacked by... Sounds like someone you should perhaps emulate... But as willEd says, this will come to you once you put the reps in. I'm sure he has approached many girls to become who he is |
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| Author: | Eddie Fews [ Fri Jun 26, 2015 3:47 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: The best advice ever... |
You're still recycling the same question with different wording redstar. They are all the same, just difference situations to reflect the same issue that has been pointed out to you time and time again. You're far to consumed with the right thing to say, the right things to do, building clubs, when its never so much about what you do as it is about "how" you do it. Ask 10 guys great with women what they did and you will get 10 different responses. Its all about the internal place you're coming from while opening or introducing yourself, its not about whats directly being shown on the outside. You need to begin asking "how do I get my internal shit together? I don't have the confidence and belief in my own value enough to walk up to a girl and keep it simple. I feel a need to try and impress them because I don't think what I am already is enough. How do I fix this guys?" |
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| Author: | Adam_Sandler [ Fri Jun 26, 2015 9:31 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: The best advice ever... |
I thought this was common sense. Same thing in business events, social gatherings, etc. Carry yourself with confidence, and be friendly. I'm curious as to what the alternative is haha. |
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| Author: | dtrak [ Sun Jun 28, 2015 12:59 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: The best advice ever... |
What you witnessed was the game being played by a veteran. Hopefully he knew what he was doing and got laid later. Anyway when you get good at game you can be layed back and things unfold easily. After alot of results you start to see patterns and you get an intuition of what girls want and how to give it to them. Now adays i can see a girl, approach, say very few words, and pull very effortlessly. But to do that i had to approach lots of girls and get lots of results. Is the only way to develop that intuition and come off so smooth. We still get rejected, but, when we meet a girl who is available we know how to not fuck it up. And thats good game. Now, how do you become that guy? I'd go with tyler durdens 3 PS POSITIVE - HAVE AN AWSOME LIFE PRESENCE - BE IN THE MOMENT PROCESS - LEARN THE TECHNIQUES OF GAME(Open,Attract,Hook,ect.) If you work hard on all 3, you will be that confident guy. Earn your stripes. Rome wasnt built in a day. And if you just started learning about women then you got a long road of learning ahead of you. And remember, that guy didnt start confident, he became it through life experience. Do the same, and enjoy the journey. Theres only one way, and its up. *peace* |
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| Author: | hugge [ Mon Jun 29, 2015 8:42 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: The best advice ever... |
Dtrak. I have interpreted Tyler's third P, process orientation, completely different than you. Here is my version. The "process" is only about knowing yourself, and know what you need to do in order to warm up and get in state. This ability is what differs a true PUA from a natural, IMO. I can be completely out of state, inside my head after a days work, feeling like I hate people and don't want anything to do with anybody. I just want to be alone. But still, I can go out, approach a woman in a bar, be congruent with my lack of state and social momentum, and by talking, making jokes, moving to the music and whatnot, slowly slowly build my state up until I feel like I am the king of the hill, and that I'm unstoppable. That's what I call process. |
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| Author: | hugge [ Mon Jun 29, 2015 8:42 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: The best advice ever... |
Dtrak. I have interpreted Tyler's third P, process orientation, completely different than you. Here is my version. The "process" is only about knowing yourself, and know what you need to do in order to warm up and get in state. This ability is what differs a true PUA from a natural, IMO. I can be completely out of state, inside my head after a days work, feeling like I hate people and don't want anything to do with anybody. I just want to be alone. But still, I can go out, approach a woman in a bar, be congruent with my lack of state and social momentum, and by talking, making jokes, moving to the music and whatnot, slowly slowly build my state up until I feel like I am the king of the hill, and that I'm unstoppable. That's what I call process. |
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| Author: | redstar1324 [ Fri Jul 03, 2015 3:26 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: The best advice ever... |
You know they say Tyler Durden is gay, right? But anyway.... I talk to about 8 different girls right now. Met most of them on Tinder or fling.com, and they are nothing more than hookups.... I'm taking someone's virginity in August.... For some reason, I have a much easier time meeting girls online than I do in person.... and I think it's because I can be more open.... I can talk to someone online and tell them all the dirty things I want to do to them.... I can't walk up to a girl in a bar and say that.... I could never walk up to a girl in a bar and ask if she likes to get fucked hard against the wall.... whereas I can easily ask that online..... I need to fix that. I would have more fun. |
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| Author: | Dragula [ Fri Jul 03, 2015 4:50 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: The best advice ever... |
Be honest now, are the girls that you're being sexual with on Tinder, are they meeting up with you to have sex with you? I am quite sceptical and perhaps thinking that you're just enjoying texting these girls but they usually chicken out. You get the odd exception, usually on the lower end of the scale of quality though... How many girls are you fucking from this method? Online is great for meeting girls, but if you're lacking in personality it becomes a problem and you will always need to get back to the trenches of cold approach pick up. |
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| Author: | redstar1324 [ Fri Jul 03, 2015 10:26 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: The best advice ever... |
Quote: Be honest now, are the girls that you're being sexual with on Tinder, are they meeting up with you to have sex with you?
I have 6 that I could meet right now. Some are too far to make it easy. One got offended when I asked if she would pay for the room and decided not to.
I am quite sceptical and perhaps thinking that you're just enjoying texting these girls but they usually chicken out. You get the odd exception, usually on the lower end of the scale of quality though... How many girls are you fucking from this method? Online is great for meeting girls, but if you're lacking in personality it becomes a problem and you will always need to get back to the trenches of cold approach pick up. |
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| Author: | Dragula [ Fri Jul 03, 2015 10:57 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: The best advice ever... |
How many have you banged though? 'I could if I wanted to' is not seduction, surely you want to get laid? |
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| Author: | redstar1324 [ Sat Jul 04, 2015 4:16 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: The best advice ever... |
Quote: How many have you banged though?
I'll get back to you in a week or so.
'I could if I wanted to' is not seduction, surely you want to get laid? |
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| Author: | Jay (Majik) [ Mon Jul 06, 2015 6:08 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: The best advice ever... |
Quote: You know they say Tyler Durden is gay, right? But anyway....
I talk to about 8 different girls right now. Met most of them on Tinder or fling.com, and they are nothing more than hookups.... I'm taking someone's virginity in August.... For some reason, I have a much easier time meeting girls online than I do in person.... and I think it's because I can be more open.... I can talk to someone online and tell them all the dirty things I want to do to them.... I can't walk up to a girl in a bar and say that.... I could never walk up to a girl in a bar and ask if she likes to get fucked hard against the wall.... whereas I can easily ask that online..... I need to fix that. I would have more fun. You're still a fucking creep.. |
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