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| Author: | Basic fucking idiot [ Thu Jun 25, 2015 5:49 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Pickup mentality psychologically healthy ? |
Someone new to this could say i chase all the women because i am in need of attention . The alpha male we are taught about is worse , don't get me started about peecocking . Is this acceptable , how much attention craving is too much ? |
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| Author: | CharlesFinley [ Thu Jun 25, 2015 5:53 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Pickup mentality psychologically healthy ? |
I've read this 3 times. I have no idea what you're asking. |
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| Author: | n2thevoid [ Thu Jun 25, 2015 5:56 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Pickup mentality psychologically healthy ? |
You aren't "alpha" nor is pretty much anyone on this board. If you are asking how to get more attention that's far from being alpha, that's a neediness mindset looking for external validation. Work on yourself, not for anyone but you. Rely upon yourself, meet your own needs, goals, etc.. That's ALPHA. Not this PUA crap using openers, routines, and such to conceal your insecurities until the gig is up after a bit and she realizes you're a little man on the inside and dumps you ass for somebody who has a stronger sense of self. |
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| Author: | Dragula [ Thu Jun 25, 2015 6:29 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Pickup mentality psychologically healthy ? |
This forum needs some better questions |
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| Author: | Jay (Majik) [ Thu Jun 25, 2015 7:33 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Pickup mentality psychologically healthy ? |
Maybe girls don't like you because you can't articulate your words very well...? What the fuck are you even asking? |
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| Author: | Basic fucking idiot [ Fri Jun 26, 2015 12:41 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Pickup mentality psychologically healthy ? |
Well I am a user in 3 other forums and for some reason in this forum no one understands me .My question is : is going out approaching so many girls and wanting to be the social center of a room an insecurity ? Some could argue this is some sort of validation all we do is for the purpose of attention . I hope this is clear and noo , I am not a loser , i am not asking this question because i need help with a girl.I do not need any attention , it's just that some of the pickup materiel gives a needy vibe .This was brought up by a shy girl i was talking to who said she hates this in a man .Now guys if this isn't clear just mention it and don't stray from the subject ! |
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| Author: | CharlesFinley [ Fri Jun 26, 2015 1:03 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Pickup mentality psychologically healthy ? |
Quote: Well I am a user in 3 other forums and for some reason in this forum no one understands me .
Fantastic idea: call the guys you're asking for help idiots?Your English is bad, dude. Real bad. Several people didn't understand you, so figure it out yourself if that's your attitude. |
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| Author: | JackZero [ Fri Jun 26, 2015 1:20 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Pickup mentality psychologically healthy ? |
Quote: Well I am a user in 3 other forums and for some reason in this forum no one understands me .My question is : is going out approaching so many girls and wanting to be the social center of a room an insecurity ? Some could argue this is some sort of validation all we do is for the purpose of attention . I hope this is clear and noo , I am not a loser , i am not asking this question because i need help with a girl.I do not need any attention , it's just that some of the pickup materiel gives a needy vibe .This was brought up by a shy girl i was talking to who said she hates this in a man .Now guys if this isn't clear just mention it and don't stray from the subject ! Here's the best answer I can give you. Most concepts in pickup get blown out of proportion, including the whole alpha thing. Some of you who are basically noobs at all of this get caught up on a concept that you know is your weakness. The guy who is insecure about himself wants to neg. The guy who can't approach wants openers. The guy that doesn't stand out wants to be an alpha. etc. etc.So is it psychologically healthy? Not if you're taking any concept too far. |
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| Author: | Basic fucking idiot [ Fri Jun 26, 2015 1:50 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Pickup mentality psychologically healthy ? |
There's this exercice for example that every pua gives out that involves saying hi to everyone . How needy is that ?How can a pua give out the open sociable vibe without coming off as needy ? |
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| Author: | Dragula [ Fri Jun 26, 2015 2:10 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Pickup mentality psychologically healthy ? |
Quote: There's this exercice for example that every pua gives out that involves saying hi to everyone . How needy is that ?How can a pua give out the open sociable vibe without coming off as needy ?
Because it's doing it from a frame of ...giving and not expecting anything back With you, you want to take and they can sense it |
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| Author: | Style981 [ Fri Jun 26, 2015 7:45 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Pickup mentality psychologically healthy ? |
Quote: The guy who is insecure about himself wants to neg. The guy who can't approach wants openers. The guy that doesn't stand out wants to be an alpha. etc. etc.
Thats probably the best answer..Really.. The problem wid being Alpha is most people miss the soul of all pickup theory in trying to be Alpha.So is it psychologically healthy? Not if you're taking any concept too far. I think the answer to ur question is simply that If u misunderstand the pua theory the wrong way, then its both mentally, psychologically bad for u. To make pua theory really work, u really need to understand the deeper meaning of it (which most newbies fail to understand). |
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| Author: | Basic fucking idiot [ Sat Jun 27, 2015 7:59 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Pickup mentality psychologically healthy ? |
Well what is the deeper meaning of it ? I don't know whether I understood it or not . |
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| Author: | dtrak [ Sun Jun 28, 2015 12:30 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Pickup mentality psychologically healthy ? |
Lol if you cant pick up a girl and get laid then you're fucked up in the head already. Is so easy even a caveman could do it. Pick up in a nutshell = Learning to how man the fuck up Tighten up your game, tighten up your life. Pick up is psychologically healthy if you do it right. Sex is incredibly healthy. #factsonly |
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